Everything has two handles, one by which it may be carried and the
other not. If your brother acts unjustly toward you, do not take
hold of it by this side, that he has acted unjustly (since this is
the handle by which it may not be carried), but instead by this
side, that he is your brother and was brought up with you, and you
will be taking hold of it in the way that it can be carried.