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       >> 1  Anonymous Counsellor  2025-09-04 19:24 ID:ioy4Drem
         I should get a relationship or try to but it just feels depressing. We have this culture of "anything goes" (as long as its not child rape). Polyamory, open relationships, group sex, casual hook ups with strangers, serial monogamy, dating apps. To approach anything in life you need principals to stick by but what now? When it comes to sex and relationships there don't seem to be any rules beyond consent. Its like anomie. You don't know what to do and you see people defending everything from sex with randoms to porn addicts. Its like there's no sense of right or wrong or knowing what's good or bad. I don't know if I'm making sense but sex and relationships feels like one of those things that's just empty soulless garbage now. Then there's the horde of smug people who'll shame you for wanting to have a committed hetero relationship with one person. 
         
         Sometimes I just think fuck it, there's no point because you'll only get depressed and heartbroken or see stuff you don't like so might as well never date and keep to yoruself. And if anything goes, then why not be a porn addicted loser? Why do people attach shame to that? Society is shameless already. Is there even a point now?
       
       >> 2  Anonymous Counsellor  2025-09-06 12:17 ID:tOL9loqh
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