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4Things That’ll Tell You He’s Not Looking for a Serious Relation
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By: mr nad Date: May 6, 2014, 12:07 pm
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The bad boy tamed by the right girl has long been a cliché in
movies and on TV. From Joey from Friends to Barney in How I Met
Your Mother, the promiscuous man who prefers commitment-free
hook-ups is shown to be perfectly willing to change his
philandering ways once he realizes how unfulfilled he is. In
reality, there are plenty of men out there who simply don’t want
a serious relationship or don’t want one with you. If you’re
looking for a serious relationship, it’s important to be able to
tell the difference between a relationship with potential, and
one that’s unlikely to develop into anything more. Here are four
tell-tale phrases that suggest he won’t be changing his ways any
time soon.
1. “I think it’s too soon for you to meet my family”If a guy is
serious about you, he’ll want you to meet his family as soon as
possible. He might be nervous about the meeting, because he
wants it to go well, but he won’t fob you off with excuses any
time you suggest seeing them.
2. “I don’t think you’d like my friends”If it seems that he
really doesn’t want you to meet his friends, it suggests that
they either don’t know you exist, or that he has given them a
very different impression of what kind of relationship you have.
Either way, it’s not a good sign for the future of your
relationship.
3. “I’m not looking for anything serious”Perhaps the old cliché
of bad boy tamed is to blame, but many women don’t believe what
they hear when a man says he’s not looking for a serious
relationship. They make the classic mistake of thinking that
things will change when he realizes just how much they mean to
him, and hanging on in the hope that he will eventually fall
head-over-heels in love. If you met using online dating, it
should be clear whether he is after something serious or not.
Most men won’t lie about what they are looking for. So if he
says “I’m not looking for anything serious” he means just that.
Take it as a clear sign and don’t waste any more time with him.
If you feel you are attracting the wrong type of man, you could
try a site such as eHarmony who match people according to their
values and beliefs. This way, you can be sure from the outset
that you’re both looking for the same things.
4. “Let’s just be spontaneous”While being spontaneous can be
very exciting and romantic, it’s not a good sign if he doesn’t
ever want to make solid plans with you. If he’s developing
serious feelings for you, he’ll want to make as many plans as
possible so he always knows when he’ll be seeing you next. If
he’s seeing a few other girls, he might be waiting to see what
other offers he gets before committing to anything. This
‘spontaneity’ could also be another way of saying ‘let’s just
hook up whenever I feel like it.
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