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I know it's long but I need to know if I should do something.
He's really confus
DIR By: Admin
Date: June 13, 2013, 6:39 am
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I'm having trouble figuring this guy out. He's complicated and
I'm not sure if I should do anything.
Ok, so this is not the first emailing we did. We emailed on and
off since late 2011, but we needed to stop because he got into
trouble. Middle of 2012 he had to leave town, so there was no
talking or anything for like a year. Without anything changing
this year, he started emailing first this time just for the fact
I stole his glasses (which is true, but I just moved them to the
next room. He emailed me saying that I tried to highjack his
glasses and I said you have no proof. Then he said I saw you
take them! and came back with blah blah blah your making things
up.
I waited all day for a reply and nothing. After emailing back
and fourth for about a week straight about random subjects, and
questions I had for him in 2012. However I couldn't ask because
he was gone for the year and I couldn't email him. Then after a
day without emailing he emailed me that he wanted to
"ask me one of those awkward ones and yet funny at the same time
type of questions. I've been wondering for quite sometime so he
just wanted to throw it out there."Already knew what he was
going to say, but put
"Sure, shoot".
Then he asks if I have a crush on him.
O.o Why on earth would he ask me that??? I don't think I flirt.
I look at other girls and how they flirt and if I do flirt its
subtle. So sublte that I don't even see myself doing it. So I
asked,
"Why do you think I have a crush on you?? How long?"
"Not really an answer ..... Since six months after I moved in
the neighborhood."
I say that it has been years since I have had a crush. The last
crush I had was in 5th grade (I'm 17 O.O). It takes me a while
for me to like someone in that way and say I can't answer him
fairly. Told him some things in brief description what people
have done to me in the past and it's left a permanent scar in a
sense. Then I said I just don't want to lose what we
have...oddly enough :P Then he proceeds to tell me that
"he's sorry for how people treat me and if he ever does anything
to hurt me to let him know. I love having you as a friend and
was just curious cause that is what it seemed like to me. So to
clarify that you don't have a thing for me correct."
I then told him it is too soon to tell. (cause the older I get,
the harder it is for me to like someone that way. Its just the
way it is sadly.) Then I said maybe if he was a friend a long
time ago and still on a good note. Maybe.
He then says "Friends! I always enjoy talking to you and I
appreciate you asking me how I was doing while I was away.
Thanks! I'm relieved that you don't have a crush on me. It just
shows that your not one of those girls that sees someone good
looking and gets infatuated without even knowing the person.
THANK GOODNESS! and then says alrighty now that that’s all
cleared up he will talk to me when he talks to me. ttfn"
The girl that has known him for 10+ years said that he thought I
liked him because of the pictures I took in his direction. I
LOVE my camera! I do that to everyone/everything. I asked him
why before when he was asking if I had a crush on him and he
didn't say anything but "That's not really an answer" and that
it was that's it seemed like to him. However when I asked him
three weeks later he told me because of the camera and the
pictures I took in his direction and random things. Why did he
stall??? The girl +10 years said because he needs his ego
higher/ he's hoping you like him too/ he plans to make fun.
However him and her haven't been talking in like a year.
THEN when I emailed him TWICE to verify if we were friends or
not, he didn't come back with ANYTHING...but yet when we see
each other he still makes eye contact, smiles.I emailed him
recently and he says that he treats all girls the same, he said
which is quite bad because he admitted to have a flirtatious
personality when it comes to girls which he's trying to work on
cause he says it's jacked up. The girls say HE DID NOT ACT LIKE
THIS BEFORE HE GOT CHEATED ON. The girl really stomped on his
feelings like he had none and didn't care about him whats so
ever. Since then he has been a flirt-show off and a player.
Girls also say "He thinks every girl likes him" What do you
think??? Besides that it's long :P
The blue guy is him...and the yellow guy is me...most of the
time :P
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