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How do I improve my social life over the summer?
DIR By: Admin
Date: June 13, 2013, 5:42 am
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I'm just going to vent here, so it might get a little lengthy,
bear with me. I'm a 15 year old guy, on summer break, and I'm
going to be a junior in high school next year. Last year, I went
to a new school, and I failed miserably at making friends. I
have a rather small amount of friends and an even smaller amount
of close friends. I have never been invited to a party, I have
never been in a relationship, and its killing me.
Im not even a guy who's not confident. I lift every other day,
and I play tennis all the time, so I'm fit, plus I've been told
by plenty of people I'm good-looking; I even know of two girls
who are obviously into me. In social situations though I'm
mostly quiet, mainly because I have little imput in the
conversation because so much is it is gossip, which I don't know
anything about because I have no social life.
And the worst part is, its summer now, and I've lost my biggest
opportunities to make friends through school, so now everyone's
out doing what people my age should be doing like going to
parties, hanging out, and having fun while I'm sitting at home
bored out of my mind wishing I was them! I feel like I'm
completely pissing away my youth and everything's going so fast
and there's nothing I can do to get myself included. It makes me
sick to my stomach.
I've thought about a couple ways to make friends like joining a
curch's youth group (even though I'm a closet agnostic) just so
I can have interaction with other people my age. Really though
I'm so desperate that I would facebook message some of my
friends and ask them to let me hang out with them (even though
its obviously a long shot considering its a weird thing to do
and I'd also have to ask them to pick me up because I can't
drive).
What can I do to get a social life and stop being such a
failure? I am seriously worried about it and its driving me
crazy.
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