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First Girlfriend, is she using me?
DIR By: Admin
Date: June 11, 2013, 11:21 pm
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Hey Guys :)
Im back again for some good old fashion relationship advice from
the professionals...
If you've seen my previous threads i usually give a little
background before asking what i must. sorry for the essays...
buuut:
Well we've been officially going out for a pretty solid 3
months-ish now, prior to that we've been "pre-dating" for about
4.
She's 15 and i'm 17, as the title suggests she is my first
girlfriend ever. I really love her alot, but i have doubts that
the love i receive is not even close to what i feel for her, or
is it?
From about 4 weeks into knowing her and going on occasional
dates i've given her a tremendous amount of presents and gifts
and get well soon chocolates and cards, a few noted gifts were
my first jewelry to her gift, a set of ruby earings (about $15),
she loved them alot. I asked her to be my valentine about 2
weeks before the actual day, and when the day arrived i
pretended that seeing her would not be a possibility and then i
popped up at her house with a box of chocolate a rose with 17
petals and a card with 17 reasons why i think she's so amazing.
What did i get? nothing. Nothing, exempt from an "awwwwh" and a
little make-out session. Had no problem with it at that time but
now that i think about it it makes me confused why i had not
received a little something. I dont expect a castle or a top of
the range graphic card, but i'm a little shocked that i never
recieve anything, a little card, handmade even, would've
sufficed. . . but nothing.
Recently i bought a couples necklace set, one for me and one for
her, for when she misses me or when i miss her, its a 2 piece
heart, half for her and half for me. This is the ONLY
materialistic thing that i have that can remind me of her.
When i'm away from home with family and shes not with us then i
usually get something that i think she would like, a teddy bear
or some sort, she goes many places with her family and she gets
nothing. Like i dont exist (well thats how i feel) or something
when she goes out with her family/friends.
When we go out on dates she does offer to pay, i ofcourse,
refuse and pay myself, but when she insists, i don't make a fuss
about it, even when she pays she just chips in about $10 from a
$40 meal.
In light of all this, she does not hesitate in making out or
holding hands or cuddling with me, thats basically the only
thing thats shining light onto my dark doubts.
It's bothering me, alot. And i know i shouldn't be expecting
anything but i would really appreciate even just a small amount
of gesture, something that makes me believe im worth her money,
a simple $1 gift or something that is expense-less at aLL such
as a printed picture of her favourite photo of me and her would
suffice, anything at all!
Is she just using me for all the gifts and pleasure or does she
really love me but just has a different way to show it? Next
month, today, will be her birthday, this is the next time i'm
going to be getting her something, (unless she falls ill or such
earlier, a good bouquet of flowers helps her see some light). .
. Please help... :(
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