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       Inspirational Speech by Steve Jobs
   DIR By: Admin
       Date: June 13, 2013, 4:48 am
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       Steve Jobs (1955–2011, 56), founder of Apple Inc, gave this
       amazing and inspirational speech to Stanford University
       graduates on June 12, 2005.
       Watch or read below his wise and thoughtful words.
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       I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one
       of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from
       college. Truth be told, this is the closest I’ve ever gotten to
       a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories
       from my life. That’s it. No big deal. Just three stories.
       The first story is about connecting the dots.
       I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then
       stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I
       really quit. So why did I drop out?
       It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young,
       unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for
       adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by
       college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be
       adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife. Except that when I
       popped out they decided at the last minute that they really
       wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a
       call in the middle of the night asking: “We have an unexpected
       baby boy; do you want him?” They said: “Of course.” My
       biological mother later found out that my mother had never
       graduated from college and that my father had never graduated
       from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers.
       She only relented a few months later when my parents promised
       that I would someday go to college.
       And 17 years later I did go to college. But I naively chose a
       college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my
       working-class parents’ savings were being spent on my college
       tuition. After six months, I couldn’t see the value in it. I had
       no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college
       was going to help me figure it out. And here I was spending all
       of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I
       decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It
       was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the
       best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could
       stop taking the required classes that didn’t interest me, and
       begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.
       It wasn’t all romantic. I didn’t have a dorm room, so I slept on
       the floor in friends’ rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5¢
       deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across
       town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare
       Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by
       following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless
       later on. Let me give you one example:
       Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy
       instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster,
       every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed.
       Because I had dropped out and didn’t have to take the normal
       classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to
       do this. I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about
       varying the amount of space between different letter
       combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was
       beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science
       can’t capture, and I found it fascinating.
       None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my
       life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first
       Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it
       all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful
       typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in
       college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or
       proportionally spaced fonts. And since Windows just copied the
       Mac, it’s likely that no personal computer would have them. If I
       had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this
       calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the
       wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible
       to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But
       it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.
       Again, you can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only
       connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the
       dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in
       something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This
       approach has never let me down, and it has made all the
       difference in my life.
       My second story is about love and loss.
       I was lucky — I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and
       I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked
       hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in
       a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees. We
       had just released our finest creation — the Macintosh — a year
       earlier, and I had just turned 30. And then I got fired. How can
       you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we
       hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company
       with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then
       our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had
       a falling out. When we did, our Board of Directors sided with
       him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been
       the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was
       devastating.
       I really didn’t know what to do for a few months. I felt that I
       had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down – that I
       had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with
       David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing
       up so badly. I was a very public failure, and I even thought
       about running away from the valley. But something slowly began
       to dawn on me — I still loved what I did. The turn of events at
       Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I
       was still in love. And so I decided to start over.
       I didn’t see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from
       Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me.
       The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness
       of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed
       me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.
       During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT,
       another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing
       woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the
       worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is
       now the most successful animation studio in the world. In a
       remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I returned to
       Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart
       of Apple’s current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a
       wonderful family together.
       I’m pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn’t
       been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I
       guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head
       with a brick. Don’t lose faith. I’m convinced that the only
       thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You’ve got
       to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it
       is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of
       your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what
       you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is
       to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking.
       Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when
       you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets
       better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until
       you find it. Don’t settle.
       My third story is about death.
       When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: “If you
       live each day as if it was your last, someday you’ll most
       certainly be right.” It made an impression on me, and since
       then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every
       morning and asked myself: “If today were the last day of my
       life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?” And
       whenever the answer has been “No” for too many days in a row, I
       know I need to change something.
       Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool
       I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life.
       Because almost everything — all external expectations, all
       pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure – these things just
       fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly
       important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way
       I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose.
       You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your
       heart.
       About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at
       7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my
       pancreas. I didn’t even know what a pancreas was. The doctors
       told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is
       incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three
       to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my
       affairs in order, which is doctor’s code for prepare to die. It
       means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you’d have
       the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to
       make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy
       as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.
       I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a
       biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my
       stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas
       and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife,
       who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a
       microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to
       be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with
       surgery. I had the surgery and I’m fine now.
       This was the closest I’ve been to facing death, and I hope it’s
       the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through
       it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than
       when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:
       No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don’t
       want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we
       all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should
       be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of
       Life. It is Life’s change agent. It clears out the old to make
       way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too
       long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared
       away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.
       Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s
       life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the
       results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of
       others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most
       important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.
       They somehow already know what you truly want to become.
       Everything else is secondary.
       When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The
       Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the bibles of my
       generation. It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not
       far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his
       poetic touch. This was in the late 1960&#8242;s, before personal
       computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with
       typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras. It was sort of like
       Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along: it
       was idealistic, and overflowing with neat tools and great
       notions.
       Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth
       Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a
       final issue. It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age. On the
       back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early
       morning country road, the kind you might find yourself
       hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous. Beneath it were the
       words: “Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.” It was their farewell
       message as they signed off. Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish. And I
       have always wished that for myself. And now, as you graduate to
       begin anew, I wish that for you.
       Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.
       Submitted by Ketki
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