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Re: Childcare Issues
DIR By: WesternCivIsLikeCancer
Date: September 6, 2023, 3:07 pm
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A Test to Judge How Good Your Parents Were
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> Having had a good enough parent is a vital component of mental
health in adulthood. But what really is a good enough parent?
How can one tell if one had one or not? This film guides us as
to what might have gone very right - and sometimes very wrong -
in our childhoods.
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> "Strangely, and rather awkwardly, it seems no human being can
ever really grow up sane unless it has been loved very deeply by
someone for a number of years in its early life. But we’re still
learning what parental love might actually involve. The word
‘love’ trips lightly off the tongue and few parents – even the
most disagreeable ones – would ever resist a claim that they
felt the emotion deeply, but that doesn’t mean that loving
behaviour is any easier to understand in theory or practice in
reality… "
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HTML https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6fZXxu8AcTA
Comments:
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> Simpler definition: good parents are always questioning
themselves if they're doing something wrong. Bad parents are
always 100% sure they are doing everything right.
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> This is more the definition of helicopter parents. And that's
not good for the child either. Good parents care enough to keep
their children healthy and they also know when not to worry,
even if they do something wrong as a parent. If you just worry
about your child, the child learns how to worry. If you are who
you are, love and care about your child anyway, he or she will
learn to tolerate boundaries. A little bit of friction is as
important to children as love. EDIT: To be clear. I do not mean
violence in any kind of form. That includes passive aggressive
behaviour.
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> “Children begin by loving their parents; as they grow older
they judge them; sometimes they forgive them.” –Oscar Wilde
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> Dead zero for both. I'm actually surprised I made it this far
without ending it all with what little sanity I have left. Some
people truly do not deserve children, and it makes me happy
knowing others grew up with loving parents, and I am all the
more empathetic to those who didn't. I wish the best of luck to
everyone in life :)
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> This reinforced my childfree status. We’re not all meant to be
parents.
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Re: Childcare Issues
DIR By: WesternCivIsLikeCancer
Date: September 6, 2023, 3:09 pm
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Guilt tripping parents get it all wrong
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> Getting guilt tripped by your parents doesn't just feel awful,
it creates lifetime patterns of self-doubt and issues with
setting boundaries. It's especially worse when you've been
working hard to meet their expectations, and yet never feel like
you came close to meeting them. In this video, I'll give you
insight into what's actually happening when they guilt trip you
so you can process these moments differently and move forward in
your healing journey.
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HTML https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yQqcew8Cuyg
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Re: Childcare Issues
DIR By: PoorBaby
Date: September 19, 2023, 5:46 pm
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Not to mention the child's head hits the metal barrier when the
first women goes to push the women filming them. There truly are
alot of disturbed adults out there who need to be stopped from
reproducing ASAP! Especially western adults! I hope they both
end up in prison with a child abuse charge on their paperwork!
So many barbarians out there these days, and it seems to be
getting worse by the day...
2 Women Accused of Throwing Baby ‘Like a Toy” Outside of Bar:
Cops
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> Two Florida women are being accused by police of tossing a
baby “like a toy” outside of a bar. Police say a witness was
trying to videotape a truly disturbing incident in which the two
women in thong bikinis were seen tossing a baby in the air. One
woman was reportedly seen holding the baby upside down by the
ankle. According to police, the little boy may have suffered a
broken arm. Brianna Lafoe and Sierrah Newell were charged with
child abuse and battery.
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HTML https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QxY6cORIFRE
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Re: Childcare Issues
DIR By: T
Date: September 20, 2023, 8:02 pm
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HTML https://www.cp24.com/world/nyc-day-care-operator-tried-to-cover-up-fentanyl-operation-before-1-year-old-s-death-feds-allege-1.6569274
NYC day care operator tried to cover up fentanyl operation
before 1-year-old's death, feds allege
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> The owner of a New York City day care center where a
1-year-old child died after being exposed to fentanyl took steps
to cover up her involvement in a sprawling drug operation, even
as medics rushed to treat several children in her care who were
poisoned by the opioid, federal prosecutors said.
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> The day care owner, Grei Mendez, and a man who rented a room
from her, Carlisto Acevedo Brito, were hit with new federal
narcotics conspiracy charges Tuesday. They were previously
charged in state court with murder of “depraved indifference” in
the death of 1-year-old Nicholas Dominici.
>
> The fentanyl is believed to have sickened four children,
including Dominici, who died Friday afternoon. Three others —
ranging in age from 8 months to 2 years old — were hospitalized.
>
> Dominci’s death had “shocked the conscience of a city already
reeling from the devastating effects of the fentanyl crisis.”
>
> He noted that New York, like much of the country, has seen
rising levels of opioid-related deaths, with the vast majority
of fatalities now attributed to fentanyl, a synthetic opioid
that can be more than 50 times stronger than heroin.
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> “We’ve just become so screwed up as a society. We got to get
our acts together," he said. “I don’t know what’s wrong with us.
We had fentanyl in a day care center.”
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The root cause of the ill's of society is bad treatment of
children by adults.
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Re: Childcare Issues
DIR By: U
Date: September 21, 2023, 8:50 pm
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HTML https://globalnews.ca/news/9977540/catholic-church-sex-abuse-france/
330,000 children in France were victims of church sex abuse:
report
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> An estimated 330,000 children were victims of sex abuse within
France’s Catholic Church over the past 70 years, according to a
report released Tuesday that represents the country’s first
major accounting of the worldwide phenomenon.
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> The figure includes abuses committed by some 3,000 priests and
other people involved in the church — wrongdoing that Catholic
authorities covered up over decades in a “systemic manner,”
according to the president of the commission that issued the
report, Jean-Marc Sauve.
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> The head of the French bishops’ conference asked for
forgiveness from the victims, about 80 per cent of whom were
boys, according to the report.
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> The independent commission urged the church to take strong
action
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> “The consequences are very serious,” Sauve said. “About 60 per
cent of men and women who were sexually abused encounter major
problems in their emotional or sexual life.”
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> “We consider the church has a debt towards victims,” he added.
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> The 2,500-page document was issued as the Catholic Church in
France, like in other countries, seeks to face up to shameful
secrets that were long covered up.
>
> Francois Devaux, head of the victims’ group La Parole Liberee
(The Liberated Word), said it was “a turning point in our
history.”
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> He denounced the coverups that permitted “mass crimes for
decades.”
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> the high ratio of victims per abuser was particularly
“terrifying for French society, for the Catholic Church.”
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> Sauve denounced the church’s attitude until the beginning of
the 2000s as “a deep, cruel indifference toward victims.”
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> Pope Francis issued in May 2019 a groundbreaking new church
law requiring all Catholic priests and nuns around the world to
report clergy sexual abuse and cover-ups by their superiors to
church authorities.
>
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Re: Childcare Issues
DIR By: NoBrakes
Date: September 28, 2023, 12:16 pm
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I can't cope with this new TikTok Trend
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> The Egg Challenge on TikTok is being called into question.
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HTML https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hPngqW0BFb0
Comments:
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> That kid who said, 'That wasn't very nice'
> She's gonna grow up to be way better than her clout wanting
parents are.
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> IDK, She's still young and impressionable. Could very well
still grow up to be just as much a clout chaser as her
parents... I mean she does live with them and will continue to
be influenced by them... So don't hold your breath
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> bro the kid smashed an egg on that lady's head in the full
video🤣
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Doctors warn against TikTok trend of parents cracking an egg on
their kids’ head
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> A new TikTok trend where parents trick their kids into helping
them in the kitchen only to smash an egg on their child’s head
is going viral, but doctors are warning that the prank could
come with some unintended consequences.
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HTML https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SkVQIALzRxY
"The bait and switch..."
Comments:
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> The ACTUAL trend is making your child cry (for views),
humiliating your child (for views), and laughing at your child
(for views), yet, in any OTHER form, they’d scream their child
is being it bullied! Bottom line, it is BULLYING and damaging
your child’s self esteem! It’s also CHIKD ABUSE!
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> A compliation* of these videos just showed up in my shorts
algorithm, showing kids crying and I’m so disgusted I reported
it to Youtube. People are idiotic lemmings these days.
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> It's cruel. Harming their own children to satisfy their need
for online attention - it's not very different from other forms
of child abuse.
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Re: Childcare Issues
DIR By: rp
Date: October 31, 2023, 1:10 pm
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HTML https://youtu.be/6Tzp_wMkEcY?feature=shared
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Re: Childcare Issues
DIR By: 90sRetroFan
Date: November 7, 2023, 11:10 pm
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HTML https://twitter.com/_CMCF/status/1719777230824587536
(video at
link)
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> He In The Wrong?
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Yes, because the child has no choice but to be on the flight,
whereas the complaining adult chose to be on the flight. Those
who chose to place themselves in a given event should yield to
those who were placed in the same event not by their own choice.
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Re: Childcare Issues
DIR By: rp
Date: November 8, 2023, 6:16 am
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The video is staged, but I agree with your points nevertheless
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Re: Random Thoughts....
DIR By: SirGalahad
Date: November 17, 2023, 10:44 pm
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Christmas is around the corner. It got me thinking about how
there’s this whole tradition centered around convincing little
kids that Santa is real, and letting them believe that.
In some ways, I feel like when I was finally told that Santa
wasn’t real, that was the official end of my childhood. What a
lesson to thrust upon children in the most unintentionally
callous way possible. Kids who grow up believing in Santa have
this sense of magic in the world instilled in them, only to have
the rug pulled out from under them when they realize that the
world isn’t magical at all, and their parents are capable of
lying. I remember crying
It’s funny, because I actually found out the truth about Santa
really late, which ties further into it being the end of my
childhood. I still believed in Santa all the way into late
elementary school, where even other kids (who were starting to
grow peach fuzz) knew at that point, and were telling me and my
sister that Santa wasn’t real. Even then, I didn’t believe them
at first, and thought that they were just saying that to act
cool. I didn’t care about being “cool”, so I held onto that
belief for a tiny bit longer until I interrogated my mom in the
car and she told me the truth
If I were raising children, I wouldn’t lie to them about that
kind of thing. I can understand why people get suckered into
continuing this tradition, believing that in the end it’ll make
the child happy and that they’ll supposedly cherish those
memories later in life, but lying is just wrong, no matter what
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