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Obedience of Muslimah to Her Husband/Master/Owner
By: Rahiba Date: April 12, 2022, 2:50 pm
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Dear sisters, I like to read and learn about duties and
obedience of a Muslimah to her husband.
Some interesting and useful advice & ruese I've came across:
[quote]The husband has the right to enjoy his wife sexually in
any form of sexual enjoyment as long as he refrains from anal
sex and intercourse during her menstruation. Allaah, The
Exalted, says (what means): {Your wives are a place of sowing of
seed for you, so come to your place of cultivation however you
wish and put forth (righteousness) for yourselves. And fear
Allaah and know that you will meet Him.
And give good tidings to the believers.} [Quran 2:223] One form
of lawful sexual enjoyment is for the wife to masturbate her
husband, for instance.
The Muslim woman is obliged to respond to the request of her
husband whenever he calls her to bed unless she has a valid
reason for refusing, such as menstruation, postpartum bleeding,
or severe harm, as we previously explained in fatwa 100429. The
same ruling applies if she is preoccupied with performing a
religious obligation; she is not obliged to respond to his
request in this case as well. The Hanbali scholar Al-Buhooti may
Allaah have mercy upon him wrote, "The husband has the right to
enjoy his wife sexually in the **** even if from behind her as
long as no harm is incurred on her and it does not preoccupy her
from performing a religious obligation..." [Ar-Rawdh Al-Murbi‘]
HTML https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/332035/old-husband-with-strong-sexual-desire
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So, an obedient Muslimah must repsond to her husband's/master
call to bed and fulfil his sexual desires.
She can refuse it only if she's seriously ill or if she performs
prayers.
Men are in charge of women, as Quran states. That also applies
regarding intimate relations, that is, intercourse:
[quote]...proper conduct in intercourse, which agrees with the
Fitrah and the Sharee‘ah, includes that the man positions
himself on top of the woman, not the other way around.
Ibn Al-Qayyim may Allaah have mercy upon him said in Zaad
Al-Ma‘aad: “The best position for intercourse is that the man
gets on top of the woman after foreplay and kissing; it is for
this reason that a woman is called a "bed" (Firaash, Arabic), as
the Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said: "The child
belongs to the owner of the bed"; this is an aspect of the
highest degree of a man being in charge of the woman; Allaah
says (what means): {Men are in charge of women.} [Quran 4:34]
The worst forms are when the woman gets on top of the man and he
has sexual intercourse with her while he is lying on his back;
this is contrary to the natural way upon which Allaah created
the man and the woman or, rather, the male and female genders.
There are disadvantages to the man being on his back and the
woman on top, such as the semen not being fully
released.[/quote]
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Re: Obedience of Muslimah to Her Husband/Master/Owner
By: Rahiba Date: April 22, 2022, 2:01 pm
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Semen (sperm) of a man is pure, according to Islam:
[quote]Semen is ritually pure according to the preponderant
opinion of the Muslim jurists; it is the substance from which an
embryo is initially formed. Allah, The Exalted, Says (what
means): {Did We not create you from a liquid disdained?} [Quran
77:20] It was narrated on the authority of ‘Aa’ishah may
Allaah be pleased with her that she said about semen: “I
used to scrape it off the garment of the Prophet, sallallaahu
‘alayhi wa sallam.” [Muslim] Had it been ritually impure, it
would not have been valid to perform the prayer while wearing
that garment without washing it, as is the case with other
impurities. Accordingly, it is not obligatory to wash off semen.
HTML https://islamweb.net/en/fatwa/431974/about-to-get-married-and-has-whispers-about-semen
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Re: Obedience of Muslimah to Her Husband/Master/Owner
By: Rahiba Date: April 22, 2022, 2:30 pm
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Some things which is good to know about purity & impurity
because it relates to duties of Muslimah to her husband/master
considering lovemaking:
[quote]Difference between Maniyy, Mathy & Wady
The following shows the difference between Maniyy (sperm), Mathy
(pre-seminal fluid) and Wady:
Maniyy: it is a thick white fluid emitted by the male or female
as the result of sexual ejaculation. Some scholars define Maniyy
as the thick spurting water discharge through orgasm. When the
above characteristics are not present Ghusl (a ritual bath) is
not compulsory for ritual purity. Another case where Ghusl is
not compulsory is when the sperm is discharged due to illness or
extreme cold or the like.
It is narrated in a Prophetic Hadeeth that Ghusl is only
obligatory if one discharges (sperm) with orgasm. However, if
sperm discharge happens unwillingly and without pleasure, then
one does not have to perform Ghusl.
If someone wakes up and finds some sperm moistness on him or on
his clothes he should perform Ghusl. This also applies to
women. The Maniyy of a woman is a thin yellow fluid. Ghusl is
obligatory any time one has sexual intercourse.
According to the predominant opinion of the Muslim scholars may
Allaah have mercy upon them Maniyy is a pure fluid.
Mathy: it is a thin white sticky fluid which is discharged due
to sexual stimulation, e.g. thinking about sexual acts, or
kissing or the like. One is usually unaware of exactly when it
is discharged. It emits from both the male and female. Muslim
scholars unanimously agree that Mathy is impure.
Wady: it is a thick white fluid that comes after urinating. It
is also considered impure.
HTML https://islamweb.net/en/fatwa/82518/difference-between-maniyy-mathy-wady[/quote]
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