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Re: Do you ever feel like
DIR By: guest9
Date: June 8, 2018, 7:03 am
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> 20 years
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That's a long time, we have been married 37 years!
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Re: Do you ever feel like
DIR By: guest43
Date: June 8, 2018, 7:19 am
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Love is not about keeping scores.Love is doing something because
you love them.
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Re: Do you ever feel like
DIR By: guest9
Date: June 8, 2018, 7:27 am
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> Love is not about keeping scores.Love is doing something
because you love them.
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There are more ways than one to look at this issue...
You can love someone and put far more effort into your
relationship than the person you love. If you've had prior
issues in your relationship and are trying to work through them
together. And you are giving it all you can to make it work, and
the other person is just sitting back and not trying to improve
your relationship than that's another way to look at it.
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Re: Do you ever feel like
DIR By: guest50
Date: June 8, 2018, 9:17 am
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Not generally. We’re a pretty even partnership. Of course some
days I think I do it all, but I know some days he thinks he
does. Balance and patience :)
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Re: Do you ever feel like
DIR By: guest6
Date: June 8, 2018, 9:21 am
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> That's a long time, we have been married 37 years!
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that's awesome and i know you been having issues.
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Re: Do you ever feel like
DIR By: guest9
Date: June 8, 2018, 9:23 am
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> that's awesome and i know you been having issues.
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Thank you. It is a long time, and I'm surprised that I have
stayed with him this long because of the issues we have been
having. I do want to keep working through those issues.
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Re: Do you ever feel like
DIR By: guest12
Date: June 8, 2018, 9:42 am
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We aren't married but yes and he knows it. There have been some
issues recently and he is trying to correct them, but it makes
me distant from him as there always seems to be something.
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Re: Do you ever feel like
DIR By: guest51
Date: June 8, 2018, 11:35 am
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Our 20th anniversary is next month. We still have lots of years
to go it's just so "cozy" that he's not as concerned with
romance and keeping our relationship fresh. He just assumes that
I'll plan something if we need a date night. Our kids are
battling mental health issues so it can take away from our
ability to have that alone time.
I'm sorry you guys have hit that place. I hope he wakes up and
starts working with you to fix things and return your marriage
to a happy, healthy place.
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> How long have you been married? You may have reached
> that "Old married couple " cozy place, and in thinking about
that, I think that's the point that DH and I are at.
> We got into an argument and I said, "I just feel like you
don't care about saving what's left of our marriage! "
> And it's true .I do feel that way...
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Re: Do you ever feel like
DIR By: guest9
Date: June 8, 2018, 7:19 pm
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> We aren't married but yes and he knows it. There have been
some issues recently and he is trying to correct them, but it
makes me distant from him as there always seems to be something.
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I understand why you are distant from him, because U'm going
through that with my Dh. I do hope he continues to DG I is on
correcting those issues, as it definitely can and does
negatively affect your relationship.
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Re: Do you ever feel like
DIR By: guest9
Date: June 8, 2018, 7:25 pm
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--- Quote from: PrincessAsMommy link ---
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> Our 20th anniversary is next month. We still have lots of
years to go it's just so "cozy" that he's not as concerned with
romance and keeping our relationship fresh. He just assumes that
I'll plan something if we need a date night. Our kids are
battling mental health issues so it can take away from our
ability to have that alone time.
>
> I'm sorry you guys have hit that place. I hope he wakes up and
starts working with you to fix things and return your marriage
to a happy, healthy place.
>
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Happy upcoming 20th anniversary! It sounds like you have some of
the same issues in your marriage as we have in ours! My DH isn't
as focused on romance and keeping our relationship fresh as he
once upon a time was...
And that makes me sad!! And resentful!
Thank you, I'm sorry we have gotten to this point as well!
Hopefully he will wake up and start to fix things and return out
marriage to a happy, healthy place!! And I hope the same happens
with your DH!!
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