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#Post#: 2013--------------------------------------------------
Re: If your DH was ever
DIR By: guest9
Date: May 23, 2018, 5:20 pm
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--- Quote from: PrincessAsMommy link ---
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> We went through something like this early in our relationship.
A woman that he'd been chatting with had fallen for him pretty
hard and despite knowing that he wasn't interested beyond
friendship and was getting married to me she wouldn't leave him
alone. When he first moved to Canada she'd call him and send him
mail (will heart stickers and lipstick lips and perfume on
them). My dad answered one time and let her have it after she
wouldn't stop asking for dh. She stopped until after we'd gotten
married and were in our own place. She started calling him under
the guise of needing him to give some tech support for her
computer and love advice. I had to get mad at him and told him
in no uncertain terms to stop her or he would be going home! It
took a long time for me to get past it and I know she's tried to
contact him on FB. But I trust him and if it ever happens again
then there will be family/marriage counselling before I end it
completely. I have to make an effort now that we have a family
to protect.
>
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I would have felt somewhat bad for her...
#Post#: 2019--------------------------------------------------
Re: If your DH was ever
DIR By: guest9
Date: May 23, 2018, 5:23 pm
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> I unlocked it for you <3
>
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.I'm confused on how to do temp posts ..I thought it was
supposed to be locked then moved to the appropriate forum, like
in CM.
#Post#: 2021--------------------------------------------------
Re: If your DH was ever
DIR By: guest9
Date: May 23, 2018, 5:26 pm
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> I’m pretty sure he was a few years. We were separated but only
had been separated for a few days. He had know this lady for
awhile. No i never forgve him.
>
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I'm so sorry that you went through that friend! In addition to
other issues in your relationship.
(( Hugs)) !!
#Post#: 2025--------------------------------------------------
Re: If your DH was ever
DIR By: Owensmommy32010
Date: May 23, 2018, 5:29 pm
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yep but it was still locked after moved {some also in the wrong
spots} but it will take some getting use to for sure <3
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> .I'm confused on how to do temp posts ..I thought it was
supposed to be locked then moved to the appropriate forum, like
in CM.
>
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#Post#: 2038--------------------------------------------------
Re: If your DH was ever
DIR By: guest58
Date: May 23, 2018, 5:38 pm
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prior to having a child i'd have walked. we've had issues with
his ex wanting him back and this is nine years after the break
up. she's been getting screwed over by every man. she cheats in
every relationship he's in. she absolutely for a long time
destroyed what self esteem my husband had. I came into his life
and he's back to being his confident cocky self. our
relationship is pretty good.
#Post#: 2207--------------------------------------------------
Re: If your DH was ever
DIR By: KikaFleur
Date: May 23, 2018, 8:04 pm
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It would take a very, very long time; a lot of counselling and a
lot of talk between the two of us. Trust that is broken takes a
very long time to re-establish.
What I would want to know is if he's the philandering sort, or
if there was a breakdown in our relationship.
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Re: If your DH was ever
DIR By: guest9
Date: May 23, 2018, 8:20 pm
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[quote author=KikaFleur link=topic=199.msg2207#msg2207
date=1527123896]
It would take a very, very long time; a lot of counselling and a
lot of talk between the two of us. Trust that is broken takes a
very long time to re-establish.
What I would want to know is if he's the philandering sort, or
if there was a breakdown in our relationship
Counseling and a lot of talks would definitely be important.I
think lack of communication to solve an issue this big would
only create distance... it would also be important to know if he
was the philandering type
#Post#: 2220--------------------------------------------------
Re: If your DH was ever
DIR By: guest3
Date: May 23, 2018, 8:45 pm
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I honestly don't know. What about you?
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> Unfaithful to you would you be able to forgive him?
>
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Re: If your DH was ever
DIR By: guest9
Date: May 23, 2018, 9:12 pm
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> I honestly don't know. What about you?
>
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I barely tolerate DH because of what he pit me through with
online cheating years ago! I tried to get past it through
counseling but I just can't. I have wanted to divorce him in the
past, and sadly I am feeling like I want to again! It was an
emotional affair, not physical, but to be that is still a
betrayal! It just isn't easy to forgive
#Post#: 2253--------------------------------------------------
Re: If your DH was ever
DIR By: guest35
Date: May 23, 2018, 9:25 pm
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No. There's no way I would tolerate it nor forgive it.
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