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Has your DH
DIR By: guest9
Date: June 28, 2018, 7:18 pm
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ever said something really nasty to you that hurt your feelings
and made you think about why you married him?
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Re: Has your DH
DIR By: guest32
Date: June 28, 2018, 8:15 pm
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Yes. I don't remember what he said, but he was in a really bad
mood, which escalated into an argument. He apologized for a
long time afterwards.
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Re: Has your DH
DIR By: guest51
Date: June 28, 2018, 8:19 pm
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We're celebrating 20yrs next month, and I know in that time
we've both said plenty of things to hurt the other but we've
never held on to it long enough to remember what it was.
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Re: Has your DH
DIR By: guest9
Date: June 29, 2018, 1:30 am
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> Yes. I don't remember what he said, but he was in a really
bad mood, which escalated into an argument. He apologized for a
long time afterwards.
>
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At least he apologized!! EmMy DH never does!
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Re: Has your DH
DIR By: guest9
Date: June 29, 2018, 1:32 am
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> We're celebrating 20yrs next month, and I know in that time
we've both said plenty of things to hurt the other but we've
never held on to it long enough to remember what it was.
>
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I know couples argue, that's a given. But my DH never says he's
sorry even when he says hurtful things and seriously I am
wondering at this point if it's even worth the aggravation of
staying married to him now!
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Re: Has your DH
DIR By: guest43
Date: June 29, 2018, 6:23 am
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There is never a perfect marriage even when people say their
husband or wife is perfect.
Nobody is perfect.I don’t know the details of your marriage and
if you believe in God.It is tempting to return evil for evil and
so this is where God comes in because if you heed His words He
tells us to be forgiving to one another.I know it’s not fair
when all you want to do is scream at him.But the more you resent
him,the more you will feel disconnected.It doesn’t pay to be
bitter.It will only ruin your marriage.If he doesn’t want to be
the bigger person,you do it.Try to look at his good side instead
of the bad.
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Re: Has your DH
DIR By: guest50
Date: June 29, 2018, 7:07 am
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Not to that extent. We've definitely argued over the years, but
neither of us have ever gotten nasty.. just not our
personalities.
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Re: Has your DH
DIR By: guest9
Date: June 29, 2018, 8:27 am
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--- Quote from: kristin_ad link ---
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> There is never a perfect marriage even when people say their
husband or wife is perfect.
> Nobody is perfect.I don’t know the details of your marriage
and if you believe in God.It is tempting to return evil for evil
and so this is where God comes in because if you heed His words
He tells us to be forgiving to one another.I know it’s not fair
when all you want to do is scream at him.But the more you resent
him,the more you will feel disconnected.It doesn’t pay to be
bitter.It will only ruin your marriage.If he doesn’t want to be
the bigger person,you do it.Try to look at his good side instead
of the bad.
>
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Forgiveness is one thing, and I am a forgiving person , but
every one has their tolerance levels. I know arguing can wear
both people down in a marriage, and I have felt disconnected
from him for a long time...we are working on that. I am trying t
ok focus on his good side, if I didn't I would be long gone by
now!
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Re: Has your DH
DIR By: guest12
Date: June 29, 2018, 10:07 am
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Yes SO has made this mistake and he got a big wake up call. If
it were a common occurrence I would re-think my marriage because
verbal abuse sucks.
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> ever said something really nasty to you that hurt your
feelings and made you think about why you married him?
>
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Re: Has your DH
DIR By: guest9
Date: June 29, 2018, 10:13 am
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--- Quote from: Malissa1578 link ---
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> Yes SO has made this mistake and he got a big wake up call. If
it were a common occurrence I would re-think my marriage because
verbal abuse sucks.
>
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I hope the wake up call has made a difference in that he is now
treating you far better! I agree! Verbal abuse does suck!
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