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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: guest115 Date: June 24, 2018, 7:04 pm
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aaaww how awful! i'm sorry that happened to you!!
[quote author=atlmom2 link=topic=1028.msg24933#msg24933
date=1529780440]
Heck yes.
I had a roommate before I married that stole money from me. She
said she paid bills when I gave her half the bill in cash and
she didn't. Claimed the check must have gotten lost or
something. I was young and stupid. Figured it out when she got
fired from the job we both worked at. She had written checks at
work for cash (we had a place you could cash checks for cash
like a bank), and 9 checks bounced.
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: Hugss Date: June 24, 2018, 7:18 pm
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Aww .. well good you have set those boundaries/stick w/ them :)
[quote author=momof25555 link=topic=1028.msg25537#msg25537
date=1529884891]i have been taken advantage of by close people
to me, but this time it's someone new (my DD's friend's mom).
But I have boundaries now so I am not allowing it, but it still
annoys and bothers me.
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: KikaFleur Date: July 1, 2018, 5:11 am
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Yes, but I've learned to catch it early as well as put in
boundaries so anything outside what I want/can do is stopped
quickly. I've no qualms about saying 'no' either.
Kindness doesn't mean that you do everything that that person
wants you to do.
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: guest59 Date: July 2, 2018, 2:38 am
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I had a 'friend' from fourth grade until my 13th birthday who
definitely took advantage of me. I think she saw how shy and
seemingly lonely I was, and she was cunning enough to use that
to her advantage. It took a long time, and a lot of convincing
from my mom, for me to realize how manipulative she was. The
last straw was when she cussed me out on my 13th birthday. It
was the middle of the night, and it was as if that action from
her woke me up and forced me to grow a backbone. I kicked her
out of the house, and I'm not sure my mom could have been more
proud of me. I've never been very assertive, but that was
definitely an exception.
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: guest48 Date: July 12, 2018, 8:22 am
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But I think you want advice. I think you need to be confident in
your own standards and not hang your definition of “I’m a nice
person” on other people’s responses. You are nice but that still
doesn’t make it possible for everyone to think well of you. And
that is ok.
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: guest32 Date: July 16, 2018, 2:53 am
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I lost my best friend of 15 years because of this.
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