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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: guest65 Date: June 23, 2018, 2:00 pm
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Heck yes.
I had a roommate before I married that stole money from me. She
said she paid bills when I gave her half the bill in cash and
she didn't. Claimed the check must have gotten lost or
something. I was young and stupid. Figured it out when she got
fired from the job we both worked at. She had written checks at
work for cash (we had a place you could cash checks for cash
like a bank), and 9 checks bounced.
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: guest15 Date: June 24, 2018, 1:25 am
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Yes, I think it happens to everybody. We have to learn to set
boundaries. There are kind and decent people out there. Hugs.
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: guest25 Date: June 24, 2018, 5:25 am
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[quote author=momof25555 link=topic=1028.msg24794#msg24794
date=1529767186]
take advantage of you? I have had this happen many times in my
life and someone new is trying to do it now. I am too nice but I
don't want my niceness taken for weakness and have someone take
advantage of it.
If you have ever had this done, what did you do to stop
it/control it?
[/quote]
Multiple times. I tend to remove people like that from my life.
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: guest45 Date: June 24, 2018, 7:51 am
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I will say first, ALL THE TIME! But there are different levels
of being taken advantage of.
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: guest45 Date: June 24, 2018, 7:52 am
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I feel bad for you. To this post, I responded in capital
letter, ALL THE TIME.
[quote author=captainjack link=topic=1028.msg24808#msg24808
date=1529767654]
This has happened so..many times now. So..now I have no friends
because I can't get hurt anymore.
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: guest45 Date: June 24, 2018, 7:53 am
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Yes there are decent people. Actually, most people are decent.
[quote author=deltathree link=topic=1028.msg25146#msg25146
date=1529821543]
Yes, I think it happens to everybody. We have to learn to set
boundaries. There are kind and decent people out there. Hugs.
[/quote]
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: guest45 Date: June 24, 2018, 7:54 am
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Here is my added reply. MONEY. Money is usually the motive.
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: guest87 Date: June 24, 2018, 9:20 am
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Yes, right now my brother has a friend staying here, been here
since Feb. Told him I'm done being used and that if he wasn't
going to make her pay rent then she has to go.
He told me to deal with it cause he ain't got the heart.
Told her flat out, her freelancing days are over and that she
needs to move on. She has done nothing to better her situation,
refused to pay rent, I already told her she has to buy her own
food that I'm not feeding her.
Supposedly she found a place to rent. For more than what her
rent here would be. SMH.
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: guest115 Date: June 24, 2018, 7:01 pm
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i have been taken advantage of by close people to me, but this
time it's someone new (my DD's friend's mom). But I have
boundaries now so I am not allowing it, but it still annoys and
bothers me.
[quote author=Hugss link=topic=1028.msg24859#msg24859
date=1529772218]
Not anymore/say no, LOL
Is it a close friend?
Hugs to you :)
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
By: guest115 Date: June 24, 2018, 7:03 pm
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that's what i do now as well. but like you, it took me soo long
to learn how to set boundaries. i still struggle with it
sometimes and then it seems like i constantly learn lessons and
have to put bigger boundaries up with certain people that come
along.
[quote author=tsdncs41 link=topic=1028.msg24880#msg24880
date=1529775315]
[font=verdana]Definitely, more times than I'd like to count but
not as much now. It's taken many years and failed attempts to
learn how to set boundaries. I've distanced myself from the
ones that won't respect my boundaries now. [/font]
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