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Has anyone ever tried to
DIR By: guest115
Date: June 23, 2018, 10:19 am
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take advantage of you? I have had this happen many times in my
life and someone new is trying to do it now. I am too nice but I
don't want my niceness taken for weakness and have someone take
advantage of it.
If you have ever had this done, what did you do to stop
it/control it?
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
DIR By: guest9
Date: June 23, 2018, 10:25 am
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[quote author=momof25555 link=topic=1028.msg24794#msg24794
date=1529767186]
take advantage of you? I have had this happen many times in my
life and someone new is trying to do it now. I am too nice but I
don't want my niceness taken for weakness and have someone take
advantage of it.
If you have ever had this done, what did you do to stop
it/control it?
[/quote
I would say EVERYONE has had this happen to them now and then...
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
DIR By: guest115
Date: June 23, 2018, 10:26 am
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so when it happened to you, what did you do or say?
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> [quote author=momof25555 link=topic=1028.msg24794#msg24794
date=1529767186]
> take advantage of you? I have had this happen many times in my
life and someone new is trying to do it now. I am too nice but I
don't want my niceness taken for weakness and have someone take
advantage of it.
>
> If you have ever had this done, what did you do to stop
it/control it?
> [/quote
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>
>
> I would say EVERYONE has had this happen to them now and
then...
>
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
DIR By: captainjack
Date: June 23, 2018, 10:27 am
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This has happened so..many times now. So..now I have no friends
because I can't get hurt anymore.
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> take advantage of you? I have had this happen many times in my
life and someone new is trying to do it now. I am too nice but I
don't want my niceness taken for weakness and have someone take
advantage of it.
>
> If you have ever had this done, what did you do to stop
it/control it?
>
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
DIR By: guest115
Date: June 23, 2018, 10:29 am
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i can relate. i have lost/gotten rid of so many people that have
done this to me. i don't have many left in my life but the ones
left are more quality although i rarely talk to them or see
them.
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> This has happened so..many times now. So..now I have no
friends because I can't get hurt anymore.
>
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
DIR By: Hugss
Date: June 23, 2018, 11:43 am
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Not anymore/say no, LOL
Is it a close friend?
Hugs to you :)
--- Quote from: momof25555 link ---
> take advantage of you? I have had this happen many times in my
life and someone new is trying to do it now. I am too nice but I
don't want my niceness taken for weakness and have someone take
advantage of it.
>
> If you have ever had this done, what did you do to stop
it/control it?
>
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
DIR By: guest51
Date: June 23, 2018, 11:44 am
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A handful of times and it seems to get worse each time. This
last time lasted years and I eventually had to put controllers
on the relationship and gradually pull back until we're now at a
more comfortable place.
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
DIR By: tsdncs41
Date: June 23, 2018, 12:35 pm
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Definitely, more times than I'd like to count but not as much
now. It's taken many years and failed attempts to learn how to
set boundaries. I've distanced myself from the ones that
won't respect my boundaries now.
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> take advantage of you? I have had this happen many times in my
life and someone new is trying to do it now. I am too nice but I
don't want my niceness taken for weakness and have someone take
advantage of it.
>
> If you have ever had this done, what did you do to stop
it/control it?
>
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
DIR By: guest6
Date: June 23, 2018, 1:23 pm
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--- Quote from: momof25555 link ---
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> take advantage of you? I have had this happen many times in my
life and someone new is trying to do it now. I am too nice but I
don't want my niceness taken for weakness and have someone take
advantage of it.
>
> If you have ever had this done, what did you do to stop
it/control it?
>
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yes and i stop all communication with them
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Re: Has anyone ever tried to
DIR By: guest9
Date: June 23, 2018, 1:30 pm
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--- Quote from: momof25555 link ---
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> so when it happened to you, what did you do or say?
>
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It has happened to me many times! My own DH has done this to
me!! I just told him I felt like it is not ok and not something
I will put up with. Dh and I are working on our issues and he
doesn't take me for granted any more! for my so called friends
that have done this, I told them I didn't want them to be a part
of my life because using me isn't ok.
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