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Sexuality without soulmate
By: Johan vd Berg Date: May 1, 2014, 11:02 am
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What would sexuality look like when your soulmate is rejecting
you?
There are celestial spirits that are without their soulmates,
with their soulmates being in hell I believe. I think Nero in
the Padgett messages is an example of this. So would the
soulmate in the celestial spheres just be celibate, or just
masturbate or something?
How do you masturbate in a loving way? Obviously fantasizing
about someone else hurts your soul and theirs, and maybe even
fantasizing about your soulmate, with them rejecting you, would
be out of harmony with free will.
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Re: Sexuality without soulmate
By: Peter Koubek Date: May 1, 2014, 3:01 pm
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Interesting question to me too. Sex what is that? Well already
getting cynic about that.
My observation is, that there is loving masturbation when it is
about feeling yourself, and then there is masturbation with all
kinds of fantasies which is really about avoiding your unloved
feelings.
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Re: Sexuality without soulmate
By: pierrejoseph Date: May 1, 2014, 4:58 pm
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I have used masturbation all my life just as a way to avoid
feeling my pain, my hopelesness, powerlessness, my dispair, my
loneliness etc...as an addiction. Instead of drug of food. When
I chose to feel my pain, I don't have a desire to masturbate
anymore. I wonder if there is a need for self sex or
masturbation for a loving being without his soulmate? Good
question indeed.
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Re: Sexuality without soulmate
By: Victoria7 Date: May 2, 2014, 3:34 am
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Hi brothers I think this is a great question. Not sure if this
will help , however, it's from Mary's blog and she talks very
openly about her sexuality.
HTML http://mary.divinetruth.com/category/sexuality/
Talk on sex...
HTML http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cW0FkfhUHAc&safe=active
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Re: Sexuality without soulmate
By: Peter Koubek Date: May 2, 2014, 3:43 am
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Jesus stated in a talk, that we make the decision to avoid our
pain through masturbation at a early age and that's very true.
I'd say there is still a loving way of releasing sexual feelings
without a partner. That's when you feel balanced and more
connected with yourself afterwards.
There are also a few talks of Jesus about sexuality, which I
haven't seen yet. The answers are probably found there as
usually. :)
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Re: Sexuality without soulmate
By: Johan vd Berg Date: May 7, 2014, 3:44 am
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Just when this subject was being discussed, Jesus and Mary
recorded and uploaded this video, where they go into the
dynamics of masturbation in depth:
HTML https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QlOUMViGHy8
I really think injuries regarding intimacy is really spot on, at
least for me it is.
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Re: Sexuality without soulmate
By: Victoria7 Date: May 7, 2014, 8:15 am
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How convenient ;)
Seems like masturbating per se is not 'wrong' or unloving, only
the addiction to it.
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Re: Sexuality without soulmate
By: pierrejoseph Date: May 7, 2014, 10:45 pm
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It makes sense to me that there is a deep sadness related to
masturbation, and that if intimacy is fully fulfilling with my
partner and that I can feel her opening her heart and sexual
energy towards me in giving and receiving (she worked through
her sexual shame) and that I am able to do the same towards her
(working through my own sexual shame), I won't feel any desire
to masturbate anymore as long as intimacy remains loving and
fulfilling on a soul level. But this pain and hence the
potential to revert to the old addictive process still remains
within me until I chose to release it emotionnally. But, how
beautiful is it to contemplate that potential of loving
intimacy?
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