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       Rules & Anger
       By: Johan vd Berg Date: April 17, 2014, 4:18 pm
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       The most important rule of ethics is: Treat your brother or
       sister as you would like to be treated.
       God loves every person equally, from the person in the deepest
       hells, to the person in the highest spheres of love. That is
       why, if we wish to learn to love as God loves, it is important
       to treat everyone equally. We should not put ourselves above
       others, treat ourselves as more important than others, make
       exceptions for ourselves or treat people in a way we would not
       accept treatment of ourselves. This is all out of harmony with
       how God sees the equal worth between us all.
       It is not nice to have a person express their anger towards you.
       Therefor I must ask anyone that wishes to post on this forum to
       consider carefully, before they post, whether or not they feel
       any anger at the time. Anger consists of a spectrum of emotions
       including, but not limited to: irritation, annoyance,
       frustration, rage and hatred. When you feel any of these
       emotions, do not post. Go scream into a pillow, hit the bed,
       stamp your feet or do whatever to allow yourself to access what
       is underneath the rage. Go through the rage and connect to the
       deeper feelings underneath. Don't hold on to your anger and
       project it on someone else - you wouldn't like that done to you.
       It's not about creating a facade of non-anger either, if it
       takes you months to remove the causes of your anger, then don't
       post for months.
       Failure to comply with these rules, will result in a temporary
       ban, to give you time off the forum, to deal with the emotions
       that caused your anger. When you feel that you've dealt with the
       emotions, you can post in the "Discussion of bans" subforum, and
       if the admin or moderators (currently just me) feel that the
       truth is that the cause of anger has been dealt with, we'll lift
       the ban and allow you back on.
       These rules will get updated and added upon, to discuss these
       rules, see:
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