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Radical Honesty
DIR By: supreme
Date: January 1, 2018, 6:37 am
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This is a very popular technique right now and you can see that
the developer had some exposure to Dianetics at some point:
HTML https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V_Fp93OtaHE
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Re: Radical Honesty
DIR By: supreme
Date: April 21, 2018, 8:25 am
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> What a suprise to see this as a TEDx talk - a step forward for
mankind :-)
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Very few people can handle the intimacies of another terminal
without getting triggered. Until you have been through the
Scientology bullbaiting exercise (or communication course) and
shown yourself immune to the words of others, you will only get
scarred when someone unloads on you.
I woke up with a splitting headache the day after someone yelled
"fuck you, fuck you fuck you!" over and over to me because he
didnt like my opinion.
And the instruction in Radical Honesty is horrible. Nothing is
written down or well-planned and they start the practice without
giving the theory. It leads to a room full of confused people
who fail the exercises.
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Re: Radical Honesty
DIR By: Colleen
Date: April 21, 2018, 8:58 pm
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Yes, any trained scientologist could have set that up better,
i.e., theory plus practical, plus some simple scio tech.
Besides, being brutally honest sounds like it could be a
non-life goal ... honesty either creates more separation ... or
it closes the gap.
But, yesterday I took my RI to another level and RI'd "another"
by actually being them, getting into their viewpoint re their
importances, and that gave me another reveal on how our minds
create separation.
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Re: Radical Honesty
DIR By: Spirit neutral
Date: July 15, 2018, 11:49 pm
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It was good thanks. I felt a little bored at first but it got
more intesting wheb he talked about reactive minds. I thought
this guys a scientologist. But then i thought how he wasnt
because he talked about the three minds and they had different
names than scientolgies dianetics. Like the anylytical mind he
calls it something else. I liked his talk about being honest. Id
live to just say blunty to my boss your a miserable ass hole
controller who hasnt got anything hetter to do than pick on
things that are unimporant. Lol. But i wont do that ill lose my
job. But wow. Thanks again.
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Re: Radical Honesty
DIR By: Colleen
Date: July 16, 2018, 9:22 am
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Cory, too bad you have to suppress how you feel about your boss.
Watch out for those covert game strategies.
BTW, did you know that "To Control" is actually a life goal, but
it can degrade into non-life goals like to manipulate or to
dominate or tyrannize.
I hope you get to blow off some energy re your boss so that he
won't be able to make your life miserable at work.
The New Testament advice to early Christians was to speak the
truth in love, and "brutally honest" sounds opposite, because of
the adjective "brutal". My Trom twin is "carefully honest" with
me (politely honest) because he has seen me blow a gasket at
times until I saw my own overts and calmed down again.
How about instead of being brutal we first look for our own
associated overts and motivators?
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Re: Radical Honesty
DIR By: Spirit neutral
Date: July 16, 2018, 6:34 pm
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Yes being brutally honest sounds bad for sure. I think thats
just the beinginess of a boss, to be picky and complain about
even the smallest of things. But ive never been a boss so I
wouldn't know lol.
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Re: Radical Honesty
DIR By: Colleen
Date: July 17, 2018, 2:25 pm
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Some bosses can have a heart of gold and still be a
micro-manager, but it sounds like manager's lack of trust is
about some unresolved overts re not being trustworthyi, plus
some prior motivators. He's just key'ing in other's incidents
re lack of trust, etc., sigh.
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Re: Radical Honesty
DIR By: Colleen
Date: July 27, 2021, 12:40 pm
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Since this is a TROM forum - forgive me for keeping quoting
Dennis - I never saw the word "honesty" in TROM works.
Dennis puts a lot of emphasis on being in a no games condition,
or what he calls "complementary".
Dennis did say covert game strategies are considered not good
play - a form of deception or dishonesty, right?
For example, when I get grief on social media from my exact
opposer - must-not-know - I find a point of agreement to be
complementary. The end :)
Communicating honestly is a skill and an art for sure, and so is
knowing what is the correct auditing question.
BTW, I discovered that running Dennis' "To Handle" process
vanishes the covert games mimicry we picked up from our
childhood caretakers.
The TED Talker actually said "reactive mind" :) Yes, a
compulsive games player will miss social cues, so Code of Ethics
applies - neither unwanted force nor prevention.
--- Quote from: supreme link ---
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> This is a very popular technique right now and you can see
that the developer had some exposure to Dianetics at some point:
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HTML https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V_Fp93OtaHE
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