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boundaries
By: The Dudely Lama Date: December 27, 2020, 9:06 am
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fully understood.
if anyone has yet to figure it out, i give back exactly what im
given. anyone that has the slightest inclination or ability to
discern the basic patterns of behavior would notice in
relatively short order that i will give you back the exact same
thing you bring to the table... every goddamn time, with a
smile either way you want to play it. a gentle reminder... ive
been avidly interested in behavioral sciences far longer than
the twenty or so years i made my living as a therapist in human
behavioral modification and remain intrigued and amused in daily
interactions. ive never started a fight, thats not who i am,
but nor am i one to be quietly dealt passive agressive garbage
and expected not to fling it back, but without the bouquet of
posies hiding the dagger... fuck that. which gets me into
trouble with authority. in any conversation with multiple
inputs, two people can carry on a completely different tune than
whats on the surface... and they will be the only ones to
know... if one is good, or enjoys subterfuge, its easy to push
buttons nobody else quite sees. but every thorn is calculated...
then when the target gets fed up with innuendo and left handed
bullshit and says anything? oh im wounded! the evil fuck
attacked without provocation! oh, im so offended! jesus
christ...
every one of you know me. two members here have had issue with
me, two have not... its really easy enough to figure out,
dontcha think?
here, this is me... imp and i had words some time back. im not
going into it, because he said that shit was forgotten, in the
past... over and done. now to me? i could give a fuck about
words but what does matter is thats what he did... forgot about
it or at least respects his own word enough to bite his tongue,
ignore or laugh privately... but when we interact, its on the up
and up, he doesnt slip in the occasional dagger or try to see
where that goat may be tied that day... nor do i. i enjoy the
fucking fact that we can disagree and neither of us feel
compelled to be a dick to the other.
i cant remember one less than pleasant interaction with
dinkleberg, ever... but in all of his poasts ive read, i cant
recall him ever once being a dick to even those that asked for
it so desperately...he’s like the dali dinkleberg.
aj? the only times ive seen you terse were over others
drama... or real life darkness... you and drunklebhhhhurg,
scuse me, are peas in a pod.
dano... i hope you figure out whats got you so twisted in
life. for your sake, and cindys sake as well. ive tried
appologies, ignoring, and even when im not talking to you, you
play the passive agressive, apologetic blunderer... oh that was
a joke... i didnt mean it like that... youre just being
sensitive... classic narcissistic behavior, not that my past
employment would have anything to do with human behavioral
modification and adaptation... wtf would i know about that?
maybe a little??. you may fool some, but my friend, this
behavior was my bread and butter for a minute or two. until you
face whatever the fears are that drive your patterns, youll be
stuck in those patterns, good luck, i cant be a mirror for you
anymore. we seemed to get along fine for several years, and then
life started swinging my way and things changed. jealousy can
bring about such a shift, but i assure you that there is balance
in all things and not one of you know the price of my admission.
sooner or later you will drive away everyone from your life
unless you are strong enough to figure out and face what it is
that scares you so, and have the strength to become what you are
capable of being.. i really do hope that you can find some kind
of peace in your journey.
later, taters...
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Re: boundaries
By: AJ Date: December 27, 2020, 1:44 pm
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You have clearly and eloquently denoted your position Sir.
Worthy of being stickied, and locked, as to be ever present for
others, perhaps those that have not yet met you to have a clear
idea of what you consider as boundaries In conversing with you
here.
I hope this isn’t your sign off from here.
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