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My Beloved Wife
By: AJ Date: February 9, 2020, 8:07 pm
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...My beloved Kathy died here at home Friday night. I won't get
the ME report for a couple of weeks. It was a heart attack, I
suspect brought on by prescription drug abuse though. I she had
been sleeping, snoring like crazy. I couldn't hear the TV for
her snores so I put on a pair of headphones. I turned to look at
her and there was blood and vomit coming out of the corner of
her mouth. I called 911, and got her to the floor. She'd
swallowed her tongue and I fished it out and vomit and blood
came pouring out. I started CPR and kept at it till the EMS got
there.
She was already gone though. I'm tortured by the thought that if
had not put on the headphones, would I have heard something,
could I have saved her. It's ripping my guts out.
I can't even to speak to how much I miss her. 36 years together.
We'd been by each others side for everything. All the little
things she did for me seem giant now. All the little things she
did that annoyed me seem trivial.
I'm completely broken hearted. I can't even talk about her
without weeping.
I set into the motions of having her cremated today. I'll have a
Memorial for her in July, so all the others that loved her so
have time to heal, and we can all look back at the scope of her
life, the incredible power her love gave to all of us.
I just a basketcase right now.
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Re: My Beloved Wife
By: guest13 Date: February 10, 2020, 12:30 am
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Can I call you sometime today?
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Re: My Beloved Wife
By: AJ Date: February 10, 2020, 7:52 am
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I’m meeting with the funeral home this morning.
I’ll call you afterI get home from that bro
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Re: My Beloved Wife
By: guest13 Date: February 10, 2020, 8:37 am
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k
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Re: My Beloved Wife
By: bieke Date: February 10, 2020, 4:36 pm
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Know the that the grief you are feeling is a reflection of the
love you have. These days won’t be easy, but it will start to
get better with time.
Lighting a candle for you.
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Re: My Beloved Wife
By: AJ Date: February 10, 2020, 5:49 pm
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[quote author=bieke link=topic=544.msg4861#msg4861
date=1581374168]
Know the that the grief you are feeling is a reflection of the
love you have. These days won’t be easy, but it will start to
get better with time.
Lighting a candle for you.
[/quote]
Thank you Brother...... :'(
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Re: My Beloved Wife
By: Evil Imp Date: February 13, 2020, 12:16 pm
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oh man. i'm so, so sorry to hear this jim. there are no words
that can express what you must be going through at the moment,
and no words anyone else can say that will make any difference.
all my thoughts are with you brother and my heartfelt sympathies
and love to you and your boy.
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Re: My Beloved Wife
By: dinkleburg Date: February 13, 2020, 1:11 pm
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There are no words sufficient to comfort you in your time of
loss, Jim.
I extend to you my heartfelt sympathies, and please know that
I'm thinking about you, my friend.
So sorry.
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Re: My Beloved Wife
By: AJ Date: February 13, 2020, 2:43 pm
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Thanks to all of you. I get a bit stronger everyday.
Grief is a process. I’m processing. Got a ways to go.
But I sincerely appreciate your condolences.
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Re: My Beloved Wife
By: AJ Date: February 13, 2020, 6:54 pm
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I erased your post so your phone number wouldn't be "Out There".
Duly noted and safely stashed Nick. Will give you a ring this
weekend. Probably Sunday sometime. Going up to the college this
saturday to work on the Lad's car and just hang with him a bit.
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