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       Rules Of Life!!!
   DIR By: Hummingbird
       Date: August 1, 2012, 7:16 am
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       If only we could all live by them and teach them to the young it
       would be a better world!!!
       Rules for You
       1     Keep it under your hat
       2     You’ll get older but not necessarily wiser
       3     Accept what is done is done
       4     Accept yourself
       5     Know what counts and what doesn’t
       6     Dedicate your life to something
       7     Be flexible in your thinking
       8     Take an interest in the outside world
       9     Be on the side of the angels, not the beasts
       10   Only dead fish swim with the stream
       11   Be the last to raise your voice
       12   Be your own adviser
       13   No fear, no surprise, no hesitation, no doubt
       14   I wish I’d done that – and I will
       15   Count to ten – or recite ‘Baa baa black sheep’
       16   Change what you can change, let go of the rest
       17   Aim to be the very best at everything you do – not second
       best
       18   Don’t be afraid to dream
       19   Don’t dwell on the past
       20   Don’t live in the future
       21   Get on with life – it’s whooshing past
       22   Dress like today is important
       23   Have a belief system
       24   Have a little space for yourself each day
       25   Have a plan
       26   Have a sense of humour
       27   Choose how you make your bed
       28   Life can be a bit like advertising
       29   Get used to stepping outside your comfort zone
       30   Learn to ask questions
       31   Have dignity
       32   It’s OK to feel big emotions
       33   Keep the faith
       34   You’ll never understand everything
       35   Know where true happiness comes from
       36   Know when to let go – when to walk away
       37   Look after yourself
       38   Maintain good manners in all things
       39   Prune your stuff frequently
       40   Remember to touch base
       41   Draw the lines around yourself
       42   Shop for quality, not price
       43   It’s OK to worry, or to know how not to
       44   Stay young
       45   Throwing money at a problem doesn’t always work
       46   Think for yourself
       47   You are not  in charge
       48   Have something in your life that takes you out of yourself
       49   Only the good feel guilty
       50   If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all
       
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       Re: Rules Of Life!!!
   DIR By: Hummingbird
       Date: August 25, 2012, 6:50 am
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       These Work If Used By Both Parties In Relationships, Friendships
       & Business!!
       Partnership Rules
       51    Accept the differences, embrace what you have in common
       52   Allow your partner the space to be themselves
       53   Be nice
       54   You want to do what?
       55   Be the first to say sorry
       56   Go that extra step in trying to please them
       57  Always have someone – or something – that is pleased to see
       you
       58   Know when to listen and when to act
       59   Have a passion for your life together
       60   Make sure your love making is making love
       61   Keep talking
       62   Respect privacy
       63   Check you both have the same shared goals
       64   Treat your partner better than your best friend
       65   Contentment is a high aim
       66   You don’t both have to have the same rules
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       Re: Rules Of Life!!!
   DIR By: Hummingbird
       Date: August 25, 2012, 6:50 am
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       Family and Friends Rules
       67   If you are going to be a friend, be a good friend
       68   Never be too busy for loved ones
       69   Let your kids mess up for themselves – they don’t need any
       help from you
       70   Have a little respect and forgiveness for your parents
       71   Give your kids a break
       72   Never lend money unless you are prepared to write it off
       73   There are no bad children
       74   Be up around people you love
       75   Give your kids responsibilities
       76   Your children need to fall out with you to leave home
       77   Your kid will have friends you don’t like
       78   Your role as a child
       79   Your role as a parent
       
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       Re: Rules Of Life!!!
   DIR By: Hummingbird
       Date: August 25, 2012, 6:51 am
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       Social Rules
       80   We’re all closer than you think
       81   It doesn’t hurt to forgive
       82   It doesn’t hurt to be helpful
       83   Take pride in what we do collectively
       84   What’s in it for them?
       85   Hang out with positive people
       86   Be generous with your time and information
       87   Get involved
       88   Keep the moral high ground
       89   Have a plan for your career
       90   Learn to see your community as part of a bigger picture
       91   Look at the long-term ramifications of what you do for a
       living
       92   Be good at your job
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       Re: Rules Of Life!!!
   DIR By: Hummingbird
       Date: August 25, 2012, 6:51 am
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       World Rules
       93   Be aware of the damage you are doing
       94   Be for the glory, not the degradation
       95   Be part of the solution, not the problem
       96   Check what history would say about you
       97   Keep your eyes open at all times
       98   Not everything can be green
       99   Put something back
       100 Find a new Rule every day – or occasionally at least
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       Re: Rules Of Life!!!
   DIR By: Hummingbird
       Date: August 25, 2012, 6:56 am
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       Sometimes we just need to remember what the
       13 Rules of Life really are:
       Never give yourself a haircut after three margaritas.
       You need only two tools: WD-40 and duct tape. If it doesn't move
       and it should, use WD-40. If it moves and shouldn't, use the
       tape.
       The five most essential words for a healthy, vital relationship
       are, "I apologize" and "you are right."
       Everyone seems normal until you get to know them.
       Never pass up an opportunity to pee.
       If he/she says that you are too good for him/her - believe them.
       Learn to pick your battles; Ask yourself, "Will this matter one
       year from now? How about one month? One week? One day?"
       When you make a mistake, make amends immediately. It's easier to
       eat crow while it's still warm.
       If you woke up breathing, congratulations! You have another
       chance!
       Living well really is the best revenge. Being miserable because
       of a bad or former relationship just might mean that the other
       person was right about you.
       Work is good, but it's not that important. Money is nice, but
       you can't take it, or anything else, with you. Statistics show
       most people don't live to spend all they saved; Some die even
       before they retire. Anything we have isn't really ours; we just
       borrow it while we're here... even our kids.
       Be really good to your family and/or friends. You never know
       when you are going to need them to empty your bedpan.
       If you are going to be able to look back on something and laugh
       about it,you may as well laugh about it now.
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       Re: Rules Of Life!!!
   DIR By: Hummingbird
       Date: August 25, 2012, 6:57 am
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       INSTRUCTIONS FOR LIFE
       Take into account that great love and great achievements involve
       great risk.
       When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
       Follow the three R's:
       Respect for self
       Respect for others and
       Responsibility for all your actions.
       Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful
       stroke of luck.
       Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
       Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
       When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to
       correct it.
       Spend some time alone.
       Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.
       Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
       Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think
       back,you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.
       A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your
       life. Do all you can to create a tranquil, harmonious home.
       In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current
       situation. Don't bring up the past.
       Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.
       Be gentle with the earth.
       Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.
       Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love
       for each other exceeds your need for each other.
       Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get
       it.
       Call your mother.
       Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.
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