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       Re: Need advice
       By: arborite Date: May 4, 2016, 5:53 pm
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       [quote author=Nomandor link=topic=24.msg962#msg962
       date=1462205890]
       Thank you for the response... Well to be honest with you as far
       as to what made her come back was that I had made some personal
       changes in that I wasn't letting the small things bother me and
       knew that If I made those personal changes that she would change
       as well, even though Royce warned me that she still needed to
       get professional help. She never did.[/quote]
       Royce was probably right, and in some ways that is what logo is
       referring to.  With the work you've done on yourself, her lack
       of change will remain the weakness in your R if you two
       reconcile.
       [quote author=Nomandor link=topic=24.msg962#msg962
       date=1462205890]
       As far as what I doing to keep myself busy is keeping positive
       and staying the course with my job and my family but boy I do
       miss my wife and hope she feels the same... Should I reach out
       to her? yet? I mean I just found a new place to live and need my
       belongings that are at her place but again not desperate for
       them.. Your thoughts[/quote]
       There is no rush, and the more you wait, the greater the
       possibility that she has missed you as well.  Waiting is
       tough... but it'll give you time to read through the book from
       end to end a couple of times...  ;)   Technically you'll only
       need your stuff once you are fully set up in your new place...
       ideally she reaches out to you before.    One thing I have
       noticed from those who have reconciled, is that it usually
       happens when they have truly let go and often have begun to move
       on.  Time is your friend here...
       ARb
       #Post#: 1015--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Need advice
       By: arborite Date: May 13, 2016, 3:17 pm
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       How have you been doing Noramdor?...
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