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Re: Need advice
DIR By: arborite
Date: May 4, 2016, 5:53 pm
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--- Quote from: Nomandor link ---
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> Thank you for the response... Well to be honest with you as
far as to what made her come back was that I had made some
personal changes in that I wasn't letting the small things
bother me and knew that If I made those personal changes that
she would change as well, even though Royce warned me that she
still needed to get professional help. She never did.
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Royce was probably right, and in some ways that is what logo is
referring to. With the work you've done on yourself, her lack
of change will remain the weakness in your R if you two
reconcile.
--- Quote from: Nomandor link ---
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> As far as what I doing to keep myself busy is keeping positive
and staying the course with my job and my family but boy I do
miss my wife and hope she feels the same... Should I reach out
to her? yet? I mean I just found a new place to live and need my
belongings that are at her place but again not desperate for
them.. Your thoughts
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There is no rush, and the more you wait, the greater the
possibility that she has missed you as well. Waiting is
tough... but it'll give you time to read through the book from
end to end a couple of times... ;) Technically you'll only
need your stuff once you are fully set up in your new place...
ideally she reaches out to you before. One thing I have
noticed from those who have reconciled, is that it usually
happens when they have truly let go and often have begun to move
on. Time is your friend here...
ARb
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Re: Need advice
DIR By: arborite
Date: May 13, 2016, 3:17 pm
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How have you been doing Noramdor?...
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