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       So I'm really worried
       By: black rose Date: December 25, 2015, 7:13 pm
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       First, my sister said she doesn't even want to be alive anymore
       to me, and I don't know what to do and I don't know how to help
       and I hate that I can't do anything to help her. Second, my
       other sister had apparently been drinking and is being hit on by
       guys who are like twenty three when she's seventeen and I'm
       worried about her. I don't know what to do because I was asked
       by my sister not to say anything to my mom and that she'd do it
       eventually and I don't know what I should do and I need some
       advice.
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       Re: So I'm really worried
       By: Jstar Date: December 25, 2015, 9:08 pm
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       Okay. For your first sister, ask her why she wants to not be
       alive. Hang out with her, make her feel happier, give her a
       nicer life. If she hasn't already, i think she should take
       confidential therapy.
       For your other sister, my advice for her is to simply follow her
       heart; but take her brain with her. If she is an alcoholic and
       that young, she really should seek some help for that, and try
       to stay away from older men.
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       Re: So I'm really worried
       By: Raven` Date: December 30, 2015, 7:50 pm
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       I second Jay.
       The first sister probably has something going on or isn't
       feeling the best. I recommend, like Jay said, to get closer to
       her, but not overly close as you don't wanna scare her. Show her
       she's loved and maybe she'll tell you why she wants to... well,
       do that to herself. Or, even better, she'll change her mind
       completely and stay with you.
       On the second sister, there isn't much you can do. She's almost
       an adult, and I've seen bigger age gaps than a simple six years.
       But, I do see why you're frightened. So I think you should
       listen closely and keep a watchful eye. If something is out of
       place... well, I know nobody likes being a tattle tale, but you
       should then tell someone.
       If you want better advice, I recommend going to a school
       guidance counselor. Or, who's even better, a SAP counselor. Now,
       I don't know if you have one or if they go by a different title,
       but if so, here's an explanation. A SAP counselor has all the
       qualities of a normal guidance counselor - but they can not give
       out any information to anyone. Any meeting with them is
       confidential. Say, if you went to a teacher about your sisters,
       they would have to report it. The SAP counselor does not and
       will most likely not.
       All in all, I hope everything turns out fine. If you ever need
       to talk, I'll be right here. I'm sure we all will. I will be
       reinstalling Skype on my phone soon, so it should be easier to
       contact me.
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