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#Post#: 3420--------------------------------------------------
please help me with this......
By: sticky Date: March 18, 2013, 1:41 am
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I did something very very stupid with some one I hardly know.
Ok, so I was at a friends party and there were 3 girls and 4
guys. I was the youngest person there and I had told my friend
that I never made-out with anyone before, not even with my
boyfriend. I had kinda jinxed myself and made-out with my
boyfriend's best friend. My bf wasn't there but I feel so
horrible. I mean I was so mad at my bf because i found out he
had been bringing weed to this house after he promised me he
wouldn't touch it again. I don't know how to feel and I might
actually might want to see my bf's friend again..... I feel like
I should talk to my bf or break up with him like people keep
telling me to or....... ughhh! I don't know what to do!
#Post#: 3421--------------------------------------------------
Re: please help me with this......
By: bluestar7702 Date: March 18, 2013, 8:34 am
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Wow thats awful. You should talk to your bf's friend first to
see if it meant something or if he really likes you. tell your
bf something like ' hey, i did something wrong and i really want
your forgiveness' then he will most likely say ' what did ya
do?' If he says that then explain to him calmly, no sobbing and
stuff, what you did and that you are super sorry. If he dumps
you thats what happens :( also when found out your bf's friend
likes ya or not then if he does then there ya go. Things get
better!
#Post#: 3423--------------------------------------------------
Re: please help me with this......
By: sticky Date: March 18, 2013, 12:17 pm
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yeah.... i just don't want to hurt anyone.
#Post#: 3426--------------------------------------------------
Re: please help me with this......
By: Rebelia. Date: March 18, 2013, 4:27 pm
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[font=georgia]if i were you, i wouldn't date someone who does
drugs, really. it's not good for you at all. first, i would beg
him to stop. if he doesn't, then i would break up with him.
so his best friend ... yikes, big problem. how did it happen? i
might be able to help out a little. i've been cheated on before,
so i know that it hurts a lot. so i don't think you should tell
your boyfriend, but if you're still going to be with him, then i
don't think you should see his best friend again. i found out
the hard way; i saw them kissing in the hallway [i was
delivering papers for my teacher, they'd skipped class]. it
really hurt, and i was a mess for several weeks. tricky
situation ... hope this helps a little. x3[/font]
#Post#: 3830--------------------------------------------------
Re: please help me with this......
By: Flameflare Date: March 31, 2013, 1:04 am
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Well you seem to be in a bit of a "boo-boo" shall i say. . . .
Personally i would speak to the guy who received the making out
session, tell him that theres nothing going on between you and
you are going to talk to your boyfriend.
If you want a decent relationship it's best not to keep secrets
your partner needs to be your best friend as well. So after
talking to your boyfriends friend go talk to your man and tell
him straight out you didn't know what you where thinking at the
time, your sorry for what you did and its up to him of what
happens next.
I believe by telling your partner out right what you have done
allows them to really think about what they want to do now they
know. You might have to tell him and possibly convince him that
theres nothing between you and the other guy; the other guy
should back you up if he was any sort of friend to your
boyfriend.
I would suggest leaving the boyfriend to think about it for a
day or two, ask him to think about it. So dont talk to him- no
phone calls, texts &facebook twitter or whatever. He will
contact you if he was any sort of a man; and he will tell you
his choice.
If he really cares about you he will allow it to slip over just
this once && he should understand that your mad at him for doing
weed. . .again. . .
Either way it should be his choice if he breaks up with you or
not; because really your the one that went in the 'wrong' with
this situation; but he also did the wrong by grabbing some weed
(assuming he's underage as well).
Either way you both need to sit down and think about what you
both want to do about it.
I hope this helped from my own past experiences. I can and am
trying to get my boyfriend on here; he would be more then happy
to give you what he thinks all guys would prefere to be told
things. c:
I wish you and your partner luck with over coming this small
bump in the road !
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