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he asked me out...
By: briartink Date: February 14, 2013, 8:38 am
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[font=trebuchet ms]hey there.
so today, my crush just asked me out. I want to say yes so bad,
but I don't want to go out with him behing my family's back.
This is my first time someone asked me out before, and I have no
idea how to tell my parents. sadly my big sister can't help any
because she had a secret bofriend.
I want to tell them so bad, but I don't want to hurt my parents'
feeling by having them see their girl grow up, but I now I wont
be a little girl anymore. so I've decided to tell them, [s]or
at least my mom since my dad might get a bit overprotective
^^;[/s] but I have no idea how to start the conversation, can
someone help me figure out what to say? thanks.
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Re: he asked me out...
By: Rebelia. Date: February 21, 2013, 10:33 pm
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[font=georgia]ah yes.
i've been through this. i didn't want my mom and dad to know ...
then my brother read my texts and told them.
my mom's response to this was, "aww! that's so cute!" my dad's
response? he gave me an hour-long lecture over facetime about
why i shouldn't date teenage boys. i get asked out a lot, && i
say no to most because i'm not interested in dating, though a
few times i said yes. [s]omg i sound like a brat[/s] i think you
should tell your parents - your mom at least. from my
experience, dads are [usually] extremely overprotective. but
it's something to think about. if you don't want to tell them,
keep it a secret, or you could "accidentally" let it slip out or
leave your phone on and see some text messages to him, something
like that. c:[/font]
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Re: he asked me out...
By: dew Date: February 22, 2013, 5:11 pm
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[center][font=georgia]just tell your mom flat out~
when i tell them something i use tears to make an emphasis on it
&& to make it emotional. dads aren't the best people to tell
right away, so gain your mom's support first. c:[/font][/center]
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Re: he asked me out...
By: Flameflare Date: February 23, 2013, 5:08 pm
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When my current 2year boyfriend asked me out my mum was all very
excited and jumping all over the place. But probably because of
our age and us preparing to move out etc. My father was more up
tight and protective about it, but he pretty much said "I
respect your choice, but please don't make the wrong decisions.
If this boy hurts you ill have to hurt him now wont i" this got
us into an argument but after about an hour he simply admitted
he wasn't ready to be a grandfather xD
They can't really do anything that effects your choice of
partner all they can do is support you, so tell them flat out;
if it seems like they need a minute walk away and they will come
talk to you when they are ready. :)
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