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#Post#: 2025--------------------------------------------------
Formal apology to NTS
DIR By: Jewsus
Date: June 1, 2015, 2:14 pm
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It has come to my attention that I have been forgetting to make
a formal apology to everyone for shutting down the server and
being somewhat of a total douche bag. I wont go into the
details of why this happened as it is kind of personal but
needless to say I am most regretful of my actions and deeply
sorry to <3 Nalah <3 and anyone else for the hurt I caused at
the time. That being said, Nalah and I are now friends again
and I plan on staying that way. So I don't plan on doing
anything that dumb again to sabotage such a special friendship.
I hope to once again become a positive force in the community on
<3 Nalah's <3 wonderful server and still to this day I am very
glad i stumbled into her server so I got to meet such a lovely
person. I still have a long road to go in regaining the trust of
some players but I hope in the future with some hard work and
dedication that I can eventually do this... and if I can do
anything to make <3 Nalah <3 happy then I will even if it
requires I move mountains, filter all the salt out of baby
crocodile tears or even build a tower of cakes to the moon... As
far fetched as these things sound if she asked me to do these
things I would give it a go and do it happily because well...
That's what a good friend's for!
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Re: Formal apology to NTS
DIR By: Jewsus
Date: June 2, 2015, 11:18 pm
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Well cant say I didn't try :(
Not sure how me shutting server off for one day = this level of
hatred and distrust.
If you really have a problem with me I am not sure why you don't
just act like an adult and or someone with a backbone and come
talk to me about it. Any issue can be resolved but it requires
the parties with a problem to talk about it. Maybe you should
try talking to me instead of just abusing your staff powers to
try make me feel unwelcome. Peoples with said problems with me
I am online all the time so if you want to discuss this like
adults please feel free to contact me at any time.
Sure this server isn't all about Nalah but it is her server and
she is the reason I join to build things. If you have a problem
with me trying to make a friend happy then you're not really
helping by making this into an issue when there is none...
Simply put if this was not Nalah's server I probably would not
join. So for me the server is more about her in my eyes me than
it is for anyone else. The people there can be quite nice and I
do like to talk to them and chill out but my main reason to be
in server at all is to make nice things for the owner. This
being said if anyone aske me for help then I will gladly help
but I will not sit by silently while I am being persecuted for
something I have already been forgiven for by Nalah. Please
stop your abuse of staff commands and just leave me alone to do
my thing. Its not like me building things is harming you in any
way whatsoever so just leave me be please... You know who you
are sitting in silence constantly using commands on me trying to
make me feel unwelcome... Well just stop it man because all
you're doing is making a mountain out of a molehill and this is
creating a drama where there doesn't need to be.
#Post#: 2069--------------------------------------------------
Re: Formal apology to NTS
DIR By: Christian
Date: June 2, 2015, 11:46 pm
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If u are getting abused by a staff member with no reason feel
free to report him, our actions have to be above any personal
grudge or anything like that, by me i have no trouble at all
with ya or any1 in our server, but aside the fact that Nalah is
the owner of the server, she made it for the ones who use it,
those actions were beyond Nalah's hands, but again, neither Her
or me hold any grudges to him, im speaking for myself, dunno
about other staff members, but if any1 is abusing you using
his/her staff members its your duty to report him/her.
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Re: Formal apology to NTS
DIR By: Jewsus
Date: June 3, 2015, 12:07 am
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There are one or more not entirely sure the number of
protagonists but for the most part its one guy that I can tell.
I have asked for him to cease and desist. Personally I don't
really care for the actions he is taking because its quite
childish and all it is doing is annoying Nalah as far as I can
tell. I have talked to her about it at length in steam and she
just wants people to get along. I just want people to get
along. Cant we all just get along! The ball is in their court on
this one. I have extended the proverbial olive branch its up to
them to now show some kind of maturity and discuss this so we
can come to a point of conclusion.
#Post#: 2077--------------------------------------------------
Re: Formal apology to NTS
DIR By: Abraxas
Date: June 3, 2015, 6:37 am
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Jewsus, you weren't kinda a knot head (insert your phraseology
here) you WERE a knot head. So you got the acceptance of Nalah,
wonderful. If your seeking the approval of the server that is
going to take a little more time and effort on your part. (Maybe
you should have thought about your actions more carefully that
way you would have had less people to make reconciliation to.)
Let me give you some ideas on how you can do this. Spend time
building 20 people's houses according to their specifications.
Spend time making 10 people feel special. Spend time pvping and
fighting bosses with someone. I guarantee if you do some of this
stuff you will make those people happy. Then you will have a
greater acceptance within the majority of the server and be more
welcomed. (Can't believe I have to spell this out for you since
you seem to imply that you gave up after only 3 days with the
words "well I can't say I didn't try.) If Nalah is really all
that drew you here, work on your own world and send her your
work. But if it's more than that don't be surprised if you have
to go through a little pain first. And while I can see your
point, the childishness you are receiving I would say mirrors
the childishness you displayed. Namely abuse of commands. Though
to be fair the abuse that would match what you have done would
be some sort of ban. So don't go playing the poor me card for an
action you displayed. Suck it up like a man and know that these
are some of the consequences of your actions. Or in other words
take accountability for your actions.
#Post#: 2097--------------------------------------------------
Re: Formal apology to NTS
DIR By: Jewsus
Date: June 3, 2015, 12:19 pm
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Pretty sure I just shut the server off for a day I don't see how
that affected so many peoples lives in such a horrible way. For
my rank to be constantly messed with every time I join and the
culprit staying hidden in the shadows like a coward cant even
come forward and man up to their actions. If the server owner
wants me to be in "her server" then shouldn't you to accept
that... If it was your server then I would accept that its
yours and I would accept that the owner wants or does not want a
player in server... And if this was my server I would request my
staff to give the person a chance. I've done it enough in my own
server... giving people a second chance that is. And im pretty
sure the responsibility for my actions isn't for the staff in
NTS to make more drama and abuse their power to intentionally
make me feel unwelcome over an issue that's been resolved a long
time ago. All it does is make me message Nalah (who wants me in
her server) asking if she can restore my rank so I can simply
build... After all in your reply are you not asking for me to
build also... Well that's a whole bunch easier when I'm not
being abused just for joining and trying to do something nice...
Speaking of manning up... If you wanted some kind of resolution
then you should of talked to me after the actions had taken
place not waited months for it... I am here to do the hard yards
I don't expect abuse from staff because it makes you just as bad
as I was when I shut down server for a day... Is that right to
justify it by making me feel unwelcome for weeks? And you seem
to forget all the hard work I have already done in server... It
seems teaching Nalah how to build massive pixel arts doesn't
mean anything (I teach others too if they ask)... The current
map spawn is from one of my maps as was the last spawn... So
please dont tell me about hard yards buddy because thats exactly
what I am doing...
#Post#: 2098--------------------------------------------------
Re: Formal apology to NTS
DIR By: Jewsus
Date: June 3, 2015, 12:28 pm
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When I was an admin in NTS I sometimes spent upwards of 40 hours
a fortnight in server all active time not afk like I see a lot
of staff (and i was running my own server fulltime) so if you're
going to talk to me about "hard yards" then please do some too!
Come on server at lest 30+ hours a fortnight and do not afk
spend it all active in helping players and or building...
#Post#: 2099--------------------------------------------------
Re: Formal apology to NTS
DIR By: Jewsus
Date: June 3, 2015, 12:42 pm
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By the way Abraxas this has been going on for longer than 3
days... Nalah suggested I make an apology here and if she asks
I wont refuse so I did. She thought and I agreed that it would
be a good idea to get it out because some staff clearly have an
issue with me. But instead of resolving the issue its all out
hatred and no common sense... so here I am here to talk about
this and come to some kind of resolution to the problem. If this
was your server and you wanted someone to be a part of it and
your staff said we don't want that person here because they
upset us once a long time ago! Who are all these upset people
and why don't they make themselves known so I can make them feel
happier to be in server with me active and building? Is it
really up to you who Nalah has on her server especially if she
wants them to be there? If she's happy with it and you consider
yourself her friend why don't you accept it and be happy that
she's happy to have me there? Or is that to much to ask... For
you to want a friend to be happy?
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Re: Formal apology to NTS
DIR By: Abraxas
Date: June 3, 2015, 12:45 pm
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I wondered how you would react to my post, now I know. My post
can be taken one of two ways. As a way to help your credibility
and help you back to NTS or as an attack. You choose to take it
as the latter. You may not feel that what you did was a big deal
but it was to a lot of our higher staff. Thanks for validating
their feelings and what they feel is important... Oh wait... You
didn't. Maybe you can be so whimsidasical when it comes to the
use of commands but we don't and won't. Your apology is
insincere and just proves what I thought about you was right
from the start. Namely that things have not changed to much on
your part. Your fawning apology over nalah says a lot as it was
your fawning that got you in this mess in the first place. As
for what you did to help the server, to use an old phrase once
given to me "you are replaceable in terms of skill and talent.
What is not replaceable is character." So forgive me if I make a
little light of your work. (It is excellent craftsmanship to be
sure) but I'd rather have a server full of bad builds but good
character rather than a server full of good builds and bad
character. You decide which you want to be. If you are sincere
than you will take my suggestions because if you think my logic
through you will find that it really will help.
#Post#: 2104--------------------------------------------------
Re: Formal apology to NTS
DIR By: Jewsus
Date: June 3, 2015, 1:41 pm
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I came back to do nice things not have staff abuse their
commands in the name of some "justice" so how does messing with
me for weeks on end do anything in the end it doesn't does it? I
am thinking no its just going to create another drama? This
time one not of my making... and as for the parties that are so
butt hurt about me I have stated simply that you can come talk
to me not hide like a coward. If you want a personal apology
then you're not going to get one by being aggressive. I don't
see how fanning the flames with a bottle of kerosene is
helpful... I have come to server to build and earn trust back
why is it so hard for staff to leave me alone and not harass me
while I do that or is that to much to ask? I am not in server
for your trust specifically. I am not there to cause harm so
you can take that anyway you want and just stop harassing me
when I join because it makes you no better than me when i shut
down server... in fact it makes you worse because you do it in
the name of some sycophantic notion of justice... And its for
far longer than one day so how about you grow up and let it
go... Be the bigger man...
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