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       #Post#: 5627--------------------------------------------------
       Other relationships to Nezumi or Shion
       By: Anilyan Date: August 29, 2015, 4:59 am
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       As is said in the epilogue of the novels, at least 4 years
       passed before Nezumi return to Shion, maybe more. That means
       they reunite after turning to adults, and I was thinking it
       would be odd if, after adult, they still being virgin - I read
       the sexcanon topic and many of you, me too, agreed that it's
       unlikely they had sex when they lived together. So I was
       imagining that, during the time they were apart, they probably
       tried other relationships, not so meaningful as the bond between
       they, but something normal and little.
       [s]I don't know if I'm explaining it well, I'm still learning
       English...[/s] I want to know your opinion about it :) It's hard
       to imagine them with someone who's not each other, but I guess
       it is part of "growing" and I bet both would understand after
       reunite why they did that and won't be jealous. What kind of
       people do you imagine Shion and Nezumi with? What gender?
       (personally, I think they don't care much about the gender).
       #Post#: 5628--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Other relationships to Nezumi or Shion
       By: lawlya Date: August 29, 2015, 5:45 am
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       Hi :) Don't worry too much, your English is just fine ^^
       I strongly headcanon Shion to be demisexual which basically
       means he wouldn't have the desire to have sex with anyone he
       doesn't share a meaningful bond with. Though I could imagine,
       Shion being as he is, trying sex for the sake of it. I don't
       know I'm very conflicted with this topic myself and never got to
       a solution.
       On one hand, I can imagine Shion to experiment with his sexual
       desires and trying sex but coming to the conclusion that he
       doesn't want to have any with anyone that isn't Nezumi at the
       moment. And therefore he would stop after a while. On the other
       hand, I also can't see Shion doing that because let's be honest:
       He could seriously hurt the feelings of the other party just
       because he's not all that invested in the relationship since
       he's in love with some other person. And on top of that, there's
       a high chance that he wouldn't even have the desire to be
       sexually active so ... I kinda swing either way.
       As for Nezumi: I think he would try to be with other people,
       mainly to spite himself and try to forget Shion (which isn't a
       really nice reason to sleep with somebody, let's be honest).
       Whether he successes or not is something different. I think he
       would have problems letting someone get so close to him without
       knowing and trusting them and if he succeeds, he still thinks
       about Shion so the whole ordeal would have been pretty much
       useless.
       So, ehm ... they might try but they'd both stop after a while
       realising it's not what they want and that it's not fair for the
       other person involved?
       #Post#: 5629--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Other relationships to Nezumi or Shion
       By: Ahiku Date: August 29, 2015, 7:35 am
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       [quote] it would be odd if, after adult, they still being virgin
       [/quote]
       We live in a society where sex sells. It’s everywhere and normal
       and when you don’t do it at a certain age, you’re not “normal”.
       But I think it’s not odd when you’re still a virgin even though
       you’re an adult. Some people don’t want to have sex, other
       people want to have sex but nobody wants to have sex with them.
       X’D There are so many difficult types of sexuality…
       But it’s interesting to think about it, especially in relation
       to the society of No. 6.
       Of course there are also different types of people. For example
       people like Fura-san, who buys sex in the West Block. We know
       that they don’t have prostitution in No. 6. That means, if you
       don’t get a lover or partner or at least an ONS, you’re probably
       out of luck.
       Then, you also have people like Karan. She was apparently a bit
       wilder in her youth (otherwise I can’t explain why she liked
       Shion’s horrible father…), but since she has her son and his
       asshole father left the city, she probably never got laid again.
       ^^° Even though there seem to be a lot of men who are interested
       in her, but she even told Safu:
       [quote=NO. 6 - Vol 2 Ch 4 (b)] "Women can go on living without a
       man, you know." [/quote]
       Okay, we don’t know what she did when they still lived in
       Chronos and Shion was in school, but I don’t think she met some
       guys. And according to Shion he always lived alone with his
       mother.
       Well, then we also have people, society would consider as
       “normal”… like Renka and Getsuyaku, who live in a relationship,
       or Safu who seems to be a cis hetero girl. But homosexual
       couples also seem to be accepted in No. 6. (I mean, no one ever
       said something about Nezumi and Shion… Karan never said. “Omg,
       my son is gaaay D:” and I highly suppose that she knows Shion
       loves Nezumi. Safu asked Shion if he’s gay, but I think it was
       not in that: “OMG ARE YOU GAAY D:” way, it didn’t give me a
       negative expression.
       In West Block, people seem to accept it even more. Inukashi or
       Rikiga never said a word, and I’d say even Rikiga saw that
       there’s…something… between Shion and Nezumi. X’D Especially
       Nezumi is not shy in regard to showing his affection, e.g.
       holding hands or even just getting emotional. Then we also have
       that cleaner guy who tried to hit on Shion and well, even though
       he didn’t like it, it was not because the cleaner was a man. ^^°
       The West Block is of course more open, sexually. Prostitution is
       common and Nezumi learned quickly that he can use sex…or sex
       appeal as a weapon to manipulate people.
       I have two theories in regard to Nezumi… the first one is, that
       he’s still a virgin. Some people think that he probably got
       raped, or that he uses sex as a tool to get whatever he wants.
       But he’s a good actor and he’s not stupid. I dare to say that he
       could use his sex appeal as a weapon even though he didn’t have
       sex yet. He has books, he has theoretical knowledge, and to get
       some information it’s probably enough to play a bit with his
       “victim”, maybe a little kiss here and a little whisper there…
       But “real” sex is way too dangerous. STDs, vulnerability… it’s
       just not really safe and Nezumi really wanted to survive. I
       guess for someone who has such a strong survival instinct, it’s
       nothing he’d do just for fun. I could imagine he has some other
       experiences… (Like jerking someone off or something ^^° if it’s
       really, really necessary…) But well, apart from that he had
       other problems than taking care of his sex life. XD That’s why I
       think it could be possible that he’s still a virgin.
       The second theory is that he had sex for whatever reason, maybe
       even some not very nice experiences, but I guess altogether; it
       wasn’t too bad, since sex seems to be a positive thing to him.
       (When he tells Shion that he needs to survive because he didn’t
       even have sex yet… or when he tries to talk with Shion about
       Safu and her sex demand, or whatever…that he’s so skinny he
       shouldn’t get naked in front of his lover…) He’s actually really
       interested in Shion’s sex life. LOL. Ok, one reason is teasing
       Shion (who really doesn’t want to talk about it, since he’s
       always changing the topic), maybe a little hint of jealousy? XD
       Because Shion was closer to sex than Nezumi… or maybe because he
       likes Shion although he doesn’t know it yet…? XD Well, I don’t
       know. My point is just, that it doesn’t seem as if sex is
       something bad to Nezumi. And I think if he really had a very
       traumatic past concerning rape and abuse, I don’t really think
       he’d talk about it like that. Otherwise, it could also be a
       coping mechanism. Who knows… but I think and I want to think
       that he’s still a virgin, maybe not that innocent, because he
       did some other stuff, but without sexual act…
       Hm… I think Nezumi is bi. I’ve read that some people think he’s
       asexual, and I really think that he doesn’t have a very huge sex
       drive… otherwise he’d just nail Shion when they share a bed all
       the time.
       I agree with Lawl’s headcanon about demisexual Shion and also
       the point that he’d probably like to try it out, just because
       he’s so curious, but wouldn’t do it, because he doesn’t love the
       other person and doesn’t want to hurt them. But when you see
       Shion in Beyond, I could also imagine that he has other problems
       than sex. XD He’s just working and nothing else. If Safu were
       still alive, I could imagine he’d do it with her, just because
       he promised it and he said that his body would react, but it
       wouldn’t be good… they’d both hate it. ^^° Shion thinks way too
       much and I think it’s really something very, very special and
       emotional to him and nothing he’d do very often. His sex drive
       doesn’t seem to be that huge. XD But it’s there as long as it’s
       about Nezumi, just think about the death kiss in the corpse pit.
       ^^°
       Nezumi… hm…also 2 theories… If he’s still a virgin, I totally
       see him trying it out when he’s on the tramp, because…why not.
       XD He’s curious and sadly…he tries to forget Shion. But I think
       he’ll feel empty and not that great and… well…I don’t know. It
       feels good, but it’s not super great.
       The other theory… he wasn’t a virgin anymore… he knows how it
       feels like and doesn’t really need it, so he doesn’t do it,
       because… god, too messy and you have to get close to other
       people then and god, it’s way too exhausting and they could
       steal his clothes or whatever.
       But I guess if he’s doing it with Shion one day, it will be the
       first time he really feels something for his partner and it will
       probably overwhelm him and scare him to death. ^^°
       (Ah…and now Inukashi, since I’ve been talking about all of them…
       I think they are totally asexual. ^^)
       Oh god, I wrote way too much, stop me. ;_;
       #Post#: 5631--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Other relationships to Nezumi or Shion
       By: Weisel Date: August 29, 2015, 8:55 am
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       My only input is that I think Shion's way too depressed to have
       any kind of sex drive. I think maybe there'd be the slim chance
       of "trying out sex" but otherwise I don't think he'd have much
       if any interest is experimenting with that.
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       Re: Other relationships to Nezumi or Shion
       By: Ahiku Date: August 29, 2015, 8:59 am
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       Yeah, that's also what I think when I consider his chapter in
       "Beyond"...
       Too stressed, too depressed... Maybe also too sentimental.
       He seems to feel better in the epilogue, though, but he's still
       (and apparently happily) waiting for Nezumi.
       #Post#: 5633--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Other relationships to Nezumi or Shion
       By: Anilyan Date: August 29, 2015, 9:46 am
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       Your answers helped me organizing my own theories, thank you :3
       I was thinking he would try to do sex with someone at least
       once, and it wouldn't felt bad - it would be with someone close,
       not just as a friend but in a way he feels sexual attraction.
       However, he will understand that something was missing, some
       deepness to the relationship, and maybe feel a bit guilty also.
       He can't and don't want to deny is feelings for Nezumi, and will
       understand that is better to him to wait.  However, as Lawlya
       said,
       [quote]He could seriously hurt the feelings of the other party
       just because he's not all that invested in the relationship
       since he's in love with some other person.[/quote]
       Shion really cares about others feelings, he isn't much social
       in spite of being gentle, and I guess all the work he gets after
       Nezumi's departure will make it worse. Not just sex, having a
       relationship with someone needs attention and time, something he
       probably is losing little by little. I don't imagine him losing
       is gentleness and principles as some people thought after
       reading the chapter "Shion's days", because we can see him
       smiling in the epilogue, and I believe somehow he will manage to
       get a little of free time and accept all the things that had
       happened until then. Peraphs he accepts also that he really
       don't want to do sex with anyone else than Nezumi, and he will
       wait for that too. I hadn't imagined Shion as demisexual yet,
       but it really fit what we know about him. However, I like the
       idea of Shion "trying once" just to make certain.
       [quote]If Safu were still alive, I could imagine he’d do it with
       her, just because he promised it and he said that his body would
       react, but it wouldn’t be good… they’d both hate it. ^^°[/quote]
       Maybe not hate, but maybe not also like. Ahiku made a good point
       remembering Safu. Shion didn't feel that kind of attraction for
       her, but he also didn't reffuse, what makes me think that, even
       if demisexual, he could try it for some reasons.
       [quote]I want to think that he’s still a virgin, maybe not that
       innocent[/quote]
       It's what I want to think about Nezumi too. Some people imagine
       a kind of "dark past" to him, putting in that terms - if he
       didn't make things to seduce and play with someone and obtain
       what he wants, he may have been abused. But he is good fighting,
       even when a children. As was shown in Beyond, he finished the
       group of men (those men who followed Shion's father, and wanted
       to "have fun" with Nezumi after notice how he's pretty) quickly,
       looking used to that kind of ask. So I believe he never crossed
       the line, for questions of desire and also sake, at least before
       his departure.
       As Ahiku said, sex seems to be a positive thing to him. And
       while travelling, I imagine he could try to have sex with
       someone he met, maybe even getting a fellow traveler. He is
       really trying to forget Shion - even if contradictory, as he
       remembers him all the time, like when he was underwater, or when
       didn't kill Shion's father because had imagined Shion saying to
       don't kill for his sake - and having sex with someone else (I
       keep saying someone because I also believe Nezumi is bi) would
       be a way of convincing himself that he is making progress.
       However, after a while, he will realize that it's not what he
       really wants.
       [quote]so he doesn’t do it, because… god, too messy and you have
       to get close to other people then and god, it’s way too
       exhausting and they could steal his clothes or whatever.
       [/quote]
       [quote]But I guess if he’s doing it with Shion one day, it will
       be the first time he really feels something for his partner and
       it will probably overwhelm him and scare him to death[/quote]
       Haha, it seems like him >.<
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       Re: Other relationships to Nezumi or Shion
       By: Ahiku Date: August 29, 2015, 10:34 am
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       [quote]Maybe not hate, but maybe not also like. Ahiku made a
       good point remembering Safu. Shion didn't feel that kind of
       attraction for her, but he also didn't reffuse, what makes me
       think that, even if demisexual, he could try it for some
       reasons. [/quote]
       Yes, but I think he didn't refuse because, even though he had
       Nezumi in mind, he didn't think he'd see him again. In the end
       he never really wanted to have sex with Safu. He said to Nezumi:
       [quote=Shion]"I would have grown up into a mild, rational,
       obedient adult, without even knowing there were so many emotions
       inside of me. I would never have known what it was like to cry,
       or get angry, or feel resistance toward something. I met you,
       and I realized how much abundance I had. And I'm proud that I
       know now."[/quote]
       That's why I think that he "wanted" to find Safu 2 years later.
       He still had Nezumi in his mind, but he thought he'd never meet
       him again. Safu was about to leave the city and the only
       conclusion to him was that he should find her then, have sex
       with her... maybe even marry her. She's his best friend, his
       closest friend and I'm pretty sure he loves her as well, just
       not in that way. ^^° But it's like he said... he had to think
       rational and obedient and he was mild... he'd probably just do
       whatever she wants, even though he was not feeling that way for
       her. It would be the most rational decision to marry her. She's
       his friend, they like each other, they are both super
       intelligent and could have really smart children together. It
       would be something the city would approve as well. (Maybe.... I
       mean he was not allowed to go back to Chronos, but maybe he'd be
       allowed if he's starting a family... no idea.)
       Then, he also had the bee in his neck and the bee suppressed his
       true emotions, even though they were already there when he was
       still in No. 6. I mean his mother and even Safu knew that he has
       feelings for a certain mouse.
       [quote=Safu]"If I hadn't met you, I wouldn't have known what it
       was like to yearn after someone. I would never have known what
       it meant to love.... I'm glad I was able to know. I was born,
       and I was able to meet you. I don't regret a single thing. Hm,
       well, that might be a little bravado. You did tell me once that
       I had a bad habit putting on a brave face."[/quote]
       [quote=Safu]"You feel the same way I do, don't you? You're glad
       you were able to know. You wouldn't be able to live anymore
       without knowing what yearning and love is like."[/quote]
       That's why I think they would hate it, if Safu were still alive
       and they would sleep with each other. Because she's still be in
       love and she'd know that Shion is not in love with her. It would
       hurt her. Shion would just sleep with her, because he promised
       her to sleep with her and I could imagine he'd feel very bad for
       breaking his promise, unless he's finally grown up enough to
       tell her that it's not possible. ^^° It would just end bad, he'd
       probably hate himself...he'd feel guilty, they both would feel
       very bad.  But yeah...without the whole story, without Nezumi
       showing up again...without the bee acting up, I think they would
       have married, but I guess they both would not end up super
       happy.
       --
       Ah, concerning Nezumi... lol I could imagine he's sleeping with
       other people when he's traveling, but every time he share's his
       bed with someone else, Shion comes to his mind. I mean, he's
       always thinking about him and I guess it's even worse when he's
       having sex. X'D He's haunting him, god just imagine Nezumi
       starting to scream in the middle of sex and running out of the
       room. XD Or moaning Shion's name instead of the name of that
       random person.
       (Somehow I don't think Nezumi would travel together with another
       person. He's a loner and... it would be sad, since it was
       special that he managed to live together with Shion. Traveling
       with someone else and then even sleeping with that person would
       mean emotional bonding, attachment and that he's really about to
       forget Shion and their special bond... ;_; Because...it would
       mean he's letting someone else in his heart.) I think it would
       hurt Shion a lot, because Nezumi didn't want to take him along.
       (Let's be honest, Shion didn't really want to stay in No. 6. ^^°
       And I don't see why he's the one who has to rebuild it. o_o°
       He's just 16... he should finish his studies and enjoy his life
       a bit before he starts to work ^^° And there are also other
       people... he's not alone and the city doesn't belong to him.
       o_o° I'm sure he also would like to travel a bit... and of
       course he'd like to be together with the one he loves.) Nezumi
       freed himself and put his own chains on Shion... <_< I'd even
       say he manipulated him a bit. I mean Shion feels so responsible
       for the city... hm...
       Not very nice.
       Well, that's why I really hope Nezumi would not travel with
       someone else... (at least not for a longer time XD I can
       understand it when he meets someone and they go to the next city
       together or something like that... I'm pretty sure he'll meet
       some people and talk to them every now and then. ^^°)
       God, thinking about this makes me sad. XD
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       Re: Other relationships to Nezumi or Shion
       By: lawlya Date: August 29, 2015, 11:48 am
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       Okay, I missed a lot of good points so here I am going through
       the answers chronological xD Bear with me.
       [quote]I have two theories in regard to Nezumi… the first one
       is, that he’s still a virgin. Some people think that he probably
       got ****d, or that he uses sex as a tool to get whatever he
       wants. But he’s a good actor and he’s not stupid. I dare to say
       that he could use his sex appeal as a weapon even though he
       didn’t have sex yet. He has books, he has theoretical knowledge,
       and to get some information it’s probably enough to play a bit
       with his “victim”, maybe a little kiss here and a little whisper
       there…
       But “real” sex is way too dangerous. STDs, vulnerability… it’s
       just not really safe and Nezumi really wanted to survive. I
       guess for someone who has such a strong survival instinct, it’s
       nothing he’d do just for fun. I could imagine he has some other
       experiences… (Like jerking someone off or something ^^° if it’s
       really, really necessary…) But well, apart from that he had
       other problems than taking care of his sex life. XD That’s why I
       think it could be possible that he’s still a virgin.[/quote]
       Yeah, that would definitely be a possibility. I headcanon Nezumi
       to at least have some ... physical experience beyond kissing but
       real sex, I'm not sure. Though your theory strongly relies on
       the fact that STDs are still a thing in No.6.
       I mean, they have superior medical treatments, I think you could
       savely assume that STDs aren't a problem in society anymore?
       Additionally, he's really confident in his experiences while
       talking to Shion about sex and if he's still a virgin, I imagine
       he would rather bite his tongue off than admitting that xD So
       we'll probably never know ...
       And you can eliminate the danger of vulnerability. Well, I'm
       conflicted but that's my standard with No.6 headcanons, so ... I
       can imagine both.
       [quote]The second theory is that he had sex for whatever reason,
       maybe even some not very nice experiences, but I guess
       altogether; it wasn’t too bad, since sex seems to be a positive
       thing to him.[/quote]
       I actually never thought of that! Good point. I never
       headcanoned Nezumi to have had bad experiences with sex; he's
       just too damn cautious to get caught and raped but this strongly
       suggests that he indeed never did o.o
       [quote]But I guess if he’s doing it with Shion one day, it will
       be the first time he really feels something for his partner and
       it will probably overwhelm him and scare him to death.
       ^^°[/quote]
       Yep, definitely.
       (Okay, I just answered Ahiku in the end but let's be honest:
       That was one hell of an essay o.o!)
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       Re: Other relationships to Nezumi or Shion
       By: Ahiku Date: August 29, 2015, 12:24 pm
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       [quote]Though your theory strongly relies on the fact that STDs
       are still a thing in No.6.[/quote]
       Maybe not in No. 6, but do they also have superior medical
       treatments in the West Block? I mean, most people are starving,
       so I doubt that they could afford expensive medicine. But STDs
       are just one example...
       [quote]And you can eliminate the danger of vulnerability.
       [/quote]
       Hm...I don't think you can eliminate it completely. o.o I really
       think you're in a vulnerable situation when you're penetrating
       someone or when you're getting penetrated. (Even though being
       the active part is probably better to keep in control of the
       situation. And Nezumi needs to be in control, otherwise it's a
       life-threatening situation...) When he's on the bottom, he could
       get badly injured and it's definitely harder to fight like that.
       And I guess he's hardly...100 % on alert and ready to fight
       while doing it, no matter in which position. o.o
       So maybe he never was the bottom part, unless he was forced to
       be that, but I guess such an experience would scare him to
       death.
       [quote]Additionally, he's really confident in his experiences
       while talking to Shion about sex and if he's still a virgin, I
       imagine he would rather bite his tongue off than admitting that
       xD So we'll probably never know ...[/quote]
       Well, he's an actor. XD And he loves teasing Shion. And of
       course he'd never admit it... X'D Tbh, I'd laugh so hard... it
       would just be so bold. ^^° Too bad we'll never know it. ;_;
       Asano-senseeeei...please tell us~
       [quote](Okay, I just answered Ahiku in the end but let's be
       honest: That was one hell of an essay o.o!)[/quote]
       Sorry ;___;
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       Re: Other relationships to Nezumi or Shion
       By: lawlya Date: August 29, 2015, 1:41 pm
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       [quote]Maybe not in No. 6, but do they also have superior
       medical treatments in the West Block?[/quote]
       I know but West Block wasn't always so ... West Blockery? And
       people have to come from somewhere and once you invented a cure
       for diseases like that they die out pretty quickly (take the
       pox). But yeah, STDs aren't the only diseases you could get
       through sexual intercourse, I'll give you that ^^
       [quote]Even though being the active part is probably better to
       keep in control of the situation. And Nezumi needs to be in
       control, otherwise it's a life-threatening situation...[/quote]
       Yep, I wouldn't have thought Nezumi has had sexual intercourse
       with a man before. I mean, like penetrating. Men are just ...
       likelier to be able to overpower him. He has his mice to stand
       guard. You can take precautions. It's still risky so it would
       have been a trade-off of risks and gains but if the situation
       calls for it ...
       It was just an idea though - I totally see the logic in your
       argumentation, not doubt about that xD
       [quote][quote](Okay, I just answered Ahiku in the end but let's
       be honest: That was one hell of an essay o.o!)[/quote]
       Sorry ;___;[/quote]
       That was totally meant as a compliment xD
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