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My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby.
By: magbytes120 Date: June 30, 2017, 1:23 pm
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want to have a failed marriage, not so early.
My marriage is only 18months old. This is my wife's first
Pregnancy, but I am having serious concerns about the paternity
of the baby.
I trust(ed) my wife with all my heart and soul. She was away on
a Job training for 6 months. The training finished on May 19th
and we made love same day. She told me she last saw her period
in May 16th so we both assumed she was in her safe period by May
19th before we made love. Actually we didn't want pregnancy or a
baby yet because we are strained by resources for now.
My wife started complaining of strong tummy pain, plus her
period hadn't shown up by June 12, so we went for a Pregnancy
test and she was confirmed Pregnant. In fact the Lab attendant
told me she is very pregnant. Days after I went through her chat
while she was asleep and came across her chat with some guy, the
chat was very suspicious. Actually the said guy is a
Gynecologist, so she had told him she was Pregnant immediately
after the test so as to get medical advice. In this chat the guy
called my wife "luv", "dearie", talked about she visiting him,
and my wife's response was to play along. At some point she even
said she can't wait to visit the guy. The height of it was when
the guy asked "how is our baby doing?"
I could not control my emotions after reading their chat, so I
confronted my wife. She claim the guy was her best friend, that
they met at her training. Actually she has always freely spoken
to the guy via phone in my presence before this event so I had
no suspicions until I read their chat. We quarrelled and she
cried and cried swearing that she has never been with any man
but me. She said she was heart broken I am doubting the
paternity of her Pregnancy.
On June 26th, we were at the hospital for ultrasound scan and
medical check up. The Ultra sound scan report says the pregnancy
was 7weeks and 6days on June 26th. Now remember we first met on
May 19th after about 6 months, also remember May 19th was three
days after her period ended, she was supposed to be in her safe
period. Now Let's assume she conceived on May 19th, between May
19th and June 26th is not upto 7weeks and 6days. Again I
confronted her with these facts and she's been very emotional,
she threatened that we must do paternity test after the baby is
born to prove me wrong, she also warned that she will make my
life hell after that test for doubting her faithfulness to me.
Please I don't know what to do next, my doubt is not fading
because the numbers and events don't add up, I need useful
suggestions please. Kindly note that I trust and love my wife, a
part of me believes the baby is mine, its the maths that don't
add up, and her chat with her Gynecologist best friend that
keeps fueling my doubt. What is the best way to handle my
situation?
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