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How I taught Ameera about class,gender and sexuality this week.
By: AminaMohamoud Date: November 4, 2018, 2:46 pm
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Hi Ladies,
I know it's been three weeks since I've last posted. It can be
quite hard to write when your busy teaching your seven-year-old
about the world and your one-year-old is just about starting to
speak.
I have noticed some trolls on the forum, I'd like to assure
these trolls that my seven-year-old gets more education from
home than any education system. The world can be your best
teacher, anyway right? Why not teach your child about life
early. This Saturday I taught her about race and discrimination.
I told Ameera to repeat after me:
"Race is just a social construct"
Now I know that some of you will think I'm crazy to teach my
daughter about race. I think it's crazier that my melanated,
coarse-haired daughter will have no clue why the world treats
her differently. I think it's even more absurd that I let her
out into a cruel world which will force her to hate herself. How
about we teach our kids to be decent human.
Also, a big shout out to Shirley Shelley post ' Charlie wants
to be Charlene...I think'. These aspects of identity and gender
should be explored. Last week I was carrying out some literacy
skill tests with Ameera. She passed and was so keen to learn new
adjectives.
"Androgynous"
She is so cute, she could barely pronounce it. I replied
"Yes baby, this is when someone is partly male and female in
appearance."
"Mummy I think I androgynous"
After correcting her sentence, I fully understood the
irrelevance of forcing gender roles on children. I will end
this blog by telling you mummies a short story on how I taught
Ameera about class systems and systematic oppression. While
distributing the money for a game of monopoly, I gave Ameera
thirty pounds and kept a larger sum of money. Every time she
landed on jail Ameera would have a strop. In the end Ameera
shouts:
"Mummy this game isn't fair"
I was patiently waiting for this moment, this slight moment of
realisation and I simply replied.
"Exactly Ameera. That is how class systems work, people at the
bottom are left with no money and lack of opportunity. Just like
this game many of them end up in jail because if wrong choices"
"No fair" she replied.
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