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       AMOUR (2012)
       By: agate Date: January 5, 2014, 1:18 am
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       WARNING: CONTAINS SPOILERS
       This story is set almost entirely within the confines of the
       apartment inhabited by an aging couple who have been dedicated
       to teaching music all their lives.  Seeing the two of them
       interacting as Anne’s health fails, just the two of them, during
       so much of the movie puts the focus on what it must be like to
       be too paralyzed to take care of yourself–or to be a loving
       companion standing helplessly by as a partner’s condition
       worsens.
       Anne, the wife, has had unsuccessful carotid artery surgery and
       has been left paralyzed on one side. It is understood that her
       situation will only deteriorate.
       I have no problem with a movie’s showing this grim situation
       close up and in detail.
       It’s not an in-your-face “Here’s paralysis! Here’s what living
       with someone paralyzed is like!” story, though. It’s a movie
       about the husband Georges’s growing awareness that Anne’s life
       is pretty much gone and that he himself may not be up to the
       demanding job of caring for her. We can see how much he loves
       her and  cares for her–and she for him. They have had a good and
       happy life together.
       And she has given him her tacit permission by stating that she
       doesn’t want to go on living like this.
       But the movie opens with an event that we assume all along will
       be the final outcome–the view of Anne’s dead body–and yet it
       tacks on an ending-to-the-ending by suggesting that the whole
       story may have been (probably was?) all in Georges’s
       imagination. Anne is alive and well and washing dishes in the
       kitchen.
       Or are we to think that having smothered Anne with her pillow
       has completely unhinged Georges so that at the end–before he
       turns on the gas or whatever he does to end his own life–he is
       hallucinating with visions of the days when life was going along
       in its usual way? I don’t think so. There has been no evidence
       of Georges’s failing mental faculties.
       The movie begins by giving us a couple of important unanswered
       questions, and we expect to get the answers by the end. One is
       how she actually died–naturally? By her own hand? With Georges’s
       assistance?
       These turn out to be irrelevant questions entirely because–hey,
       it was all just a dream. This seems to me a cheat, a cop-out, a
       refusal on the movie-makers’ part to give us the story.
       There is another question, though, that comes up as the story
       unfolds, and that is how Georges assists her death. Being such a
       kind, loving man, he would have chosen some painless, quiet way
       of helping her to die, wouldn’t he? An overdose of something,
       perhaps?
       Instead we see him smothering her with her pillow. Perhaps it
       was the one way he could think of that wouldn’t be detected as
       murder. In any event, her death did involve some struggle and
       probable pain on her part.
       Looked at in another light, though, maybe the ending isn’t such
       a cop-out. Maybe we’re being told that this is how George is
       mapping things out in case this situation arises–his wife’s
       near-total incapacity and deteriorating condition. This is what
       he would  do IF… and he would make sure that somewhere in their
       conversations she would give her assent to euthanasia by stating
       that she doesn’t want to live like that.
       There is the matter of the several paintings that appear, each
       occupying the full screen, shown just before Georges smothers
       Anne, and just after he’s said, “Forgive me.” The paintings are
       Romantic landscapes, just as the music the couple seem to have
       been fond of–Schubert, for instance–is Romantic, and one
       commentator on this movie has said that the paintings are
       unremarkable ones that are among those on the couple’s apartment
       walls. I haven’t tried to find the paintings in the scenes of
       the apartment though it might be possible to do so by looking at
       each scene very carefully.
       The unsettled question is why they are shown at this point in
       the movie, which has no other views of paintings, no mention of
       paintings, in fact no views of nature anywhere.
       Maybe that is the point. Georges must realize at about the time
       when he slaps Anne that their situation is falling apart
       hopelessly. Maybe the paintings are a way of showing us the vast
       world out there that he and Anne have been increasingly shut off
       from. Or maybe they are simply showing us yet another part of
       the rich world these two have created through the years–their
       music, their photos, the paintings on their walls, their
       personalities so quiet, modest and trusting that they can’t
       imagine why anyone would want to break into their apartment.
       When I first saw this movie I assumed that the corpse glimpsed
       in the first scenes is Georges’s body but reviewing it I see
       that it isn’t.  It is Anne, and he has taken a dark dress out of
       the closet to clothe her in it, and carefully snipped the
       blossoms off the flowers in a bouquet a visitor has brought to
       surround her head.
       In death, though, she looks somewhat like Georges, and the
       question has to arise: Just where IS Georges? When the Fire
       Department/Police come in, they get no answer when they ask if
       anybody is home. They begin stripping tape from doors, tape we
       find out later Georges has applied.  Will they find him dead in
       the spare room? Or did he walk away from the apartment, perhaps
       to his death somewhere else? Or does he live on alone? We never
       know.
       –Which is good. We’re at least aware that he has that clear
       option–of following his wife in death through suicide.  Somebody
       has stated that this movie has nothing to do with aging–that it
       could just as easily have been made about a younger couple.
       When I think about Georges and how he isn’t there, how he might
       have decided to kill himself as well, I don’t think it would
       have been the same movie at all if it had been made about a
       younger couple.  The viewers wouldn’t assume that Georges might
       have killed himself. It would have been highly inappropriate and
       jarring in the extreme. But we have seen the Georges of  this
       movie already starting to fail, finding it difficult to get up
       from bed, difficult to take care of Anne.  It is sad but quite
       possible that the police will find Georges’s body in that
       apartment as well.
       –Whatever else it is, the movie is a profoundly touching closeup
       of a couple’s love for each other.
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