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10 Things You Should Never Say to a Guy over Text message
By: Smartjohns Date: November 18, 2016, 8:53 pm
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Relationships today are largely done over Whatsapp and chat and
it's pretty darn convenient too.
However, no amount of emoticons can ever be a substitute for the
real deal.
Which is why, there are some things you do not want to be
telling a guy over text, just to prevent complications or in
some cases, because it's the decent thing to do.
Here are ten such texts that you must never send to a guy.
1. "We need to talk.
"If you send these words to a man, then you might as well have
sent him a text saying "It's over", because that's what he is
most likely to be thinking. Even if he doesn't think that this
is what you meant by it, "We need to talk" sounds urgent and
official. It sounds like, whatever the topic of the conversation
is going to be, it's certainly not going to be pleasant.
2."My period is late."
Do NOT send the "I'm late..." text. This is not a text message
conversation! Having a late period is a big deal and you do not
want to have this discussion over SMS.
3."Do you really love me?"
You really shouldn't ever send a text like this, because this
does sound clingy and desperate. Guys do like their space
sometimes and they hate the thought of being pushed into saying
things. If he loves you, he'll tell you when he's ready, and he
probably won't do it by text.
4. "It's over."
Breaking up with someone via a text is one of the big no-nos of
texting etiquette. If he's not expecting it, then hearing the
news is going to be bad enough, without it coming in the form of
a cold and blunt text.
5. "What have you been up to?"
This text is going to reek of two possible things. Either you
are desperate to see him again or you don't trust him! "How was
your day?", would be a far better way to find out what he's been
doing recently and it won't have him thinking that you are
checking up on him.
6. "I see you."
Do.not.be.creepy! Even if you spot your crush from across the
mall, do not ever send an "I see you" text! It is too weird.
7. "Are you ignoring me?"
If he's been ignoring you, he's not going to respond. And you're
not doing yourself a favour by asking if he's ignoring you
because he's still not going to respond. Just let it be.
8. "I love you." (for the first time)
Don't you dare break out the L word for the first time in a
text! Love deserves a face to face conversation.
9. Screenshots of past conversations
Sending him a screenshot of a past conversation may seem like a
good idea to prove your point at that time. But if they've
already been resolved, then you're only raking up unnecessary
issues and adding fuel to the fire.
10. Sarcastic messages
Sarcasm isn't easily understood even when the recipient is
sitting in front of you. To expect a guy to understand it over
text where he can't make out if you are joking or serious is a
little over the top. It's a situation ripe for misunderstanding.
Courtesy: idiva.com
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