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       #Post#: 9634--------------------------------------------------
       Hagar
       By: Kerry Date: November 30, 2014, 9:55 am
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       I don't wonder why Sarah made Hagar and Ishmael leave; but I do
       wonder about how they were forced to leave.
       Genesis 21:9 And Sarah saw the son of Hagar the Egyptian, which
       she had born unto Abraham, mocking.
       10 Wherefore she said unto Abraham, Cast out this bondwoman and
       her son: for the son of this bondwoman shall not be heir with my
       son, even with Isaac.
       11 And the thing was very grievous in Abraham's sight because of
       his son.
       12 And God said unto Abraham, Let it not be grievous in thy
       sight because of the lad, and because of thy bondwoman; in all
       that Sarah hath said unto thee, hearken unto her voice; for in
       Isaac shall thy seed be called.
       13 And also of the son of the bondwoman will I make a nation,
       because he is thy seed.
       14 And Abraham rose up early in the morning, and took bread, and
       a bottle of water, and gave it unto Hagar, putting it on her
       shoulder, and the child, and sent her away: and she departed,
       and wandered in the wilderness of Beersheba.
       Bread and water?   That is all?   No money?  No men to protect
       her and the child?   I don't understand this because earlier
       we're told Abraham cared about Ishmael and didn't want to send
       him away; but here he seems almost heartless.   True, he had
       God's promise that Ishmael would survive, but would it have been
       a sin to give them more than bread and water?
       15 And the water was spent in the bottle, and she cast the child
       under one of the shrubs.
       Why?   So she wouldn't see him die, we learn:
       16 And she went, and sat her down over against him a good way
       off, as it were a bow shot: for she said, Let me not see the
       death of the child. And she sat over against him, and lift up
       her voice, and wept.
       Is this not sad?
       17 And God heard the voice of the lad; and the angel of God
       called to Hagar out of heaven, and said unto her, What aileth
       thee, Hagar? fear not; for God hath heard the voice of the lad
       where he is.
       18 Arise, lift up the lad, and hold him in thine hand; for I
       will make him a great nation.
       19 And God opened her eyes, and she saw a well of water; and she
       went, and filled the bottle with water, and gave the lad drink.
       20 And God was with the lad; and he grew, and dwelt in the
       wilderness, and became an archer.
       21 And he dwelt in the wilderness of Paran: and his mother took
       him a wife out of the land of Egypt.
       Note that it does not say Hagar prayed.  The Jewish tradition
       says she was still a pagan at this time; and they say too that
       her "wandering in the wilderness" was spiritual  as well as
       physical.   So we see Ishmael's crying being heard and then God
       appearning to Hagar.
       Now what think you of this?  Was it not harsh of both Sarah and
       Abraham to treat Hagar and Ishmael so?     They say what goes
       around comes around.  Now skip forward to the story about the
       binding of Isaac.  The two stories are similar.
       Hagar takes Ishmael into the wilderness.  Abraham takes Isaac to
       a mountain.   There is a difference there though since Abraham
       had some servants with him for part of his journey.   They also
       had animals to ride and food to eat since we are not told they
       were hungry.  So far, Abraham had it easier than Hagar did.
       Then Hagar hides Ishmael and goes a distance since she doesn't
       want to see him die as she expected.   Here Abraham has it
       harder since he's not sure if God is going to require him to
       kill Isaac; but both parents are facing the possible death of
       their children.
       Then both Hagar and Abraham hear the Voice of God.  Hagar sees a
       well while Abraham sees a ram.    Both children are predicted to
       become nations.  Both children then marry; and Isaac marries
       someone from his own clan while Ishmael gets a wife from Egypt,
       the land his mother came from.
       #Post#: 9637--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Hagar
       By: Brad Date: December 1, 2014, 10:09 am
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       My guess is that Ishmael did speak to the Lord asking for help,
       not just cried out as in sobbing.   He saw his fathers faith,
       and tried to copy it.   That being said, it might well have been
       the first time he called on the Lord, as he was not as
       interested in spiritual things, he only called when there was no
       other hope.   But his mother on the other hand, despite being
       around the family of faith, was not talking to the Lord.   So it
       didnt rub off on her.
       But Ishmael's faith didnt seem to amount to much, as he got
       stronger, he went back to putting his trust in his own strength.
       #Post#: 9638--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Hagar
       By: Runner Date: December 1, 2014, 2:19 pm
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       Interesting. If we go back earlier...
       Maybe she was thrown out because she wasn't a 'nice' person to
       live with?
       She had been told by the Lord to submit herself to Sarah...but
       she didn't, she mocked her , until Sarah threw her out.
       She did know the Lord as four times the lord spoke to her..
       She wouldn't have had to wander in the wilderness if she had
       obeyed the angel of the Lord, and submitted to her mistress. I
       am sure her bitterness toward her mistress was seen by the
       teenage boy and he probably disliked his little brother because
       of it. She passed on her attitude. So I believe much of her life
       was brought about by resentment and disregard for the advice of
       the Lord.
       Gen 16: 4  And he (Abraham) went in unto Hagar, and she
       conceived: and when she saw that she had conceived, her mistress
       was despised in her eyes.
       And Sarai said unto Abram, My wrong be upon thee: I have given
       my maid into thy bosom; and when she saw that she had conceived,
       I was despised in her eyes: the Lord judge between me and thee.
       6 But Abram said unto Sarai, Behold, thy maid is in thine hand;
       do to her as it pleaseth thee. And when Sarai dealt hardly with
       her, she fled from her face. 7 And the angel of the Lord found
       her by a fountain of water in the wilderness, by the fountain in
       the way to Shur.
       8 And he said, "Hagar, Sarai's maid, whence camest thou? and
       whither wilt thou go? And she said, I flee from the face of my
       mistress Sarai."
       9 And the angel of the Lord said unto her, Return to thy
       mistress, and submit thyself under her hands. 10 And the angel
       of the Lord said unto her, I will multiply thy seed exceedingly,
       that it shall not be numbered for multitude.  11 And the angel
       of the Lord said unto her, Behold, thou art with child and shalt
       bear a son, and shalt call his name Ishmael; because the Lord
       hath heard thy affliction. 12 And he will be a wild man; his
       hand will be against every man, and every man's hand against
       him; and he shall dwell in the presence of all his brethren.
       13 And she called the name of the Lord that spake unto her,
       "Thou God seest me": for she said, 'Have I also here looked
       after Him that seeth me?'
       14 Wherefore the well was called Beerlahairoi; behold, it is
       between Kadesh and Bered. 15 And Hagar bare Abram a son: etc
       etc...
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       Re: Hagar
       By: Kerry Date: December 1, 2014, 3:44 pm
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       [quote author=Helen link=topic=916.msg9638#msg9638
       date=1417465196]
       Interesting. If we go back earlier...
       Maybe she was thrown out because she wasn't a 'nice' person to
       live with?
       She had been told by the Lord to submit herself to Sarah...but
       she didn't, she mocked her , until Sarah threw her out.
       She did know the Lord as four times the lord spoke to
       her..[/quote]
       I'm not sure Hagar mocked Sarah.
       [quote]She wouldn't have had to wander in the wilderness if she
       had obeyed the angel of the Lord, and submitted to her mistress.
       I am sure her bitterness toward her mistress was seen by the
       teenage boy and he probably disliked his little brother because
       of it. She passed on her attitude. So I believe much of her life
       was brought about by resentment and disregard for the advice of
       the Lord.
       Gen 16: 4  And he (Abraham) went in unto Hagar, and she
       conceived: and when she saw that she had conceived, her mistress
       was despised in her eyes.
       And Sarai said unto Abram, My wrong be upon thee: I have given
       my maid into thy bosom; and when she saw that she had conceived,
       I was despised in her eyes: the Lord judge between me and thee.
       6 But Abram said unto Sarai, Behold, thy maid is in thine hand;
       do to her as it pleaseth thee. And when Sarai dealt hardly with
       her, she fled from her face. 7 And the angel of the Lord found
       her by a fountain of water in the wilderness, by the fountain in
       the way to Shur.[/quote]
       The word "despised" there can mean anything from slighting
       someone to cursing him.   Notice too that the text says Sarah
       "saw" she was "despised."   Perhaps Sarah was misinterpreting
       things as people do when they're insecure.  Perhaps Hagar was
       only slighting Sarah a little but Sarah misread it and thought
       she was despised?   Perhaps it was all in Sarah's head?
       Hagar also would have known that since she lacked the legal
       status of wife,  she could be thrown out on her own while
       Abraham kept Ishmael.  This could have made uncomfortable around
       Abraham and Sarah; and if Sarah picked up on that, she may have
       misread things.
       I do think Hagar tried to submit to Sarah.   The Rabbis say that
       she "reverted" to pagan gods when thrown out the second time.
       That would mean she had been worshiping the real God after her
       first encounter with an angel; and perhaps she felt abandoned by
       God when she was  thrown out again with Ishmael.  So she began
       to doubt God. I agree that Ishmael probably "inherited" some of
       the same tendencies.
       [quote]8 And he said, "Hagar, Sarai's maid, whence camest thou?
       and whither wilt thou go? And she said, I flee from the face of
       my mistress Sarai."
       9 And the angel of the Lord said unto her, Return to thy
       mistress, and submit thyself under her hands. 10 And the angel
       of the Lord said unto her, I will multiply thy seed exceedingly,
       that it shall not be numbered for multitude.  11 And the angel
       of the Lord said unto her, Behold, thou art with child and shalt
       bear a son, and shalt call his name Ishmael; because the Lord
       hath heard thy affliction. 12 And he will be a wild man; his
       hand will be against every man, and every man's hand against
       him; and he shall dwell in the presence of all his brethren.
       13 And she called the name of the Lord that spake unto her,
       "Thou God seest me": for she said, 'Have I also here looked
       after Him that seeth me?'
       14 Wherefore the well was called Beerlahairoi; behold, it is
       between Kadesh and Bered. 15 And Hagar bare Abram a son: etc
       etc...
       [/quote]It is said that after Sarah died, Isaac helped patch up
       things between his father and Hagar.  Indeed it's said in the
       oral tradition that Abraham married her and she was renamed
       Keturah.   That name means "incense" and as it was explained to
       me,  Hagar's life had been bitter but had been changed to
       something sweeter like the fragrance of incense.
       The Bible seems to contradict itself by calling Keturah a wife
       in one place and a concubine in another; but at first she was
       only a concubine; but after Sarah died, she became a wife.
       Genesis 25:1 Then again Abraham took a wife, and her name was
       Keturah.
       1Chronicles 1:32 Now the sons of Keturah, Abraham's concubine:
       she bare Zimran, and Jokshan, and Medan, and Midian, and Ishbak,
       and Shuah. And the sons of Jokshan; Sheba, and Dedan.
       #Post#: 9641--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Hagar
       By: Kerry Date: December 1, 2014, 3:49 pm
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       [quote author=Brad link=topic=916.msg9637#msg9637
       date=1417450175]
       My guess is that Ishmael did speak to the Lord asking for help,
       not just cried out as in sobbing.   He saw his fathers faith,
       and tried to copy it.   That being said, it might well have been
       the first time he called on the Lord, as he was not as
       interested in spiritual things, he only called when there was no
       other hope.   But his mother on the other hand, despite being
       around the family of faith, was not talking to the Lord.   So it
       didnt rub off on her.
       But Ishmael's faith didnt seem to amount to much, as he got
       stronger, he went back to putting his trust in his own
       strength.[/quote]How does the story end?    In the end,  Ishmael
       and Isaac are seen together to bury Abraham.  If the Jewish
       story about Isaac playing peacemaker between Abraham and Hagar
       is true,  that would have inclined Ishmael also to forgive and
       forget.
       #Post#: 9642--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Hagar
       By: Brad Date: December 1, 2014, 10:44 pm
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       [quote author=Kerry link=topic=916.msg9641#msg9641
       date=1417470548]
       How does the story end?    In the end,  Ishmael and Isaac are
       seen together to bury Abraham.  If the Jewish story about Isaac
       playing peacemaker between Abraham and Hagar is true,  that
       would have inclined Ishmael also to forgive and forget.
       [/quote]
       Well, she did seem to influence Ishmael greatly.   It would have
       been nice if he buried his grievances at not being the no. 1 son
       spiritually.
       #Post#: 9657--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Hagar
       By: George Date: December 4, 2014, 2:28 pm
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       This is off topic yet on the same subject, It is believed by
       Muslims that Islam(In its purest form) is this nation that God
       promised of Ishmael. What says thee of this claim?
       #Post#: 9664--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Hagar
       By: Kerry Date: December 5, 2014, 6:11 pm
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       ^ Most mosques have no discrimination by race, nationality, etc.
       Some are so concerned about not allowing discrimination sprout
       up that they don't allow people to choose their spot when
       praying.   Your spot in the mosque depends on when you entered.
       The first person in always takes one spot, the next person is
       always next to him, and so on.   That way can't arrange
       themselves in the mosque by groups.
       Some do  see Islam as connected with Ishmael though.  In some
       places, a darker skin lets people know your ancestors probably
       were mixed in with slaves from Africa.   I'm not sure how
       Muslims really think about it.  On one hand they seem to say
       race and nationality don't matter; but then they tend to connect
       Islam to Ishmael.
       #Post#: 9755--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Hagar
       By: coldwar Date: December 25, 2014, 9:46 am
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       I think Abraham knew that what he gave Hagar would become
       sufficient, perhaps somehow knowing that her journey would bring
       her to faith, which indeed it did. In fact, you could look at
       the bread and water as Christ's body and blood, remembering how
       Christ spent 40 days with no bread or water in the wilderness,
       and angels ministered to him also, as they did for Hagar.
       #Post#: 9761--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Hagar
       By: Kerry Date: December 25, 2014, 7:07 pm
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       [quote author=coldwar link=topic=916.msg9755#msg9755
       date=1419522378]
       I think Abraham knew that what he gave Hagar would become
       sufficient, perhaps somehow knowing that her journey would bring
       her to faith, which indeed it did. In fact, you could look at
       the bread and water as Christ's body and blood, remembering how
       Christ spent 40 days with no bread or water in the wilderness,
       and angels ministered to him also, as they did for Hagar.
       [/quote]I can't go that far.   I would say that God can use the
       evil we do for the good.   I also believe that we humans can use
       the evil in the world and turn it into the good.
       Thinking about this more,  I still think Abraham was callous,
       perhaps out of feeling flustered, but it suggests to me that
       Hagar and Ishmael didn't hold a grudge against him since they
       were eventually reconciled with him.  When we forgive or are
       willing to exert a forgiving influence, I think God can work
       through us as He worked through Joseph. The evil his brothers
       intended was turned into the good -- but only because Joseph was
       willing to forgive them and to  allow God to work.
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