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       #Post#: 34164--------------------------------------------------
         ~Just Saying ~
       By: Justaname Date: June 4, 2023, 9:59 am
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       I’m sure all of us have been on numerous forums over the last
       few decades …well I have for sure. And still on a few.
       Some lovely ones of great fellowship and even lasting internet
       friendships ….and on ,,
       Other forum finding much conflict and some of the strangest of
       belief systems!
       Yet one thing I still find very repetitively , is that many
       people seem to be only contented to pick on what is wrong with
       other people’s beliefs , yet they never share what God has said
       to them personally , or what He has done for them.
       It seems that their only strength lies in telling other people
       what is not, and what is wrong.
       That , as I see it , is not ‘the gospel’ , neither is it the
       GOOD NEWS …which we know is what Gospel means .
       Needless to say …when I butt heads against this constantly I
       find I always have to ask the person if they will ever give us
       any good news about who God is to them and what He has done for
       them . As they only seem to care about what is wrong with the
       belief of others.
       For myself , at 81 I can say that my life has been a rich one,
       not in substance but in my relationship with Father …His
       dealings, His blessings , His constant presence…
       Seen miracles, heard the best of preachers , heard His Voice ,
       seen visions , had dreams, been healed numerous times… and just
       the blessing of knowing that “He IS”.
       Bottom line…one day we will all gather at His Seat , and
       have revealed to us , which things we believed correctly and
       which things we got wrong .  I think we are in for some
       surprises!
       Yet, I’ve never ever believed that God cares about ‘correct
       doctrine’ …. We see many biblical characters who got things
       wrong!  Adam, Abraham, Lot, Gideon , Jonah , David , Peter ,
       even Paul…and in Hebrews 11 we see God commending them , not
       remembering their fall.
       So I have confidence that God , as He tells us, is a heart God
       …At the last great gathering , He will measure our heart and our
       love, not our doctrine or mistakes .
       Just saying…
       #Post#: 34178--------------------------------------------------
       Re:   ~Just Saying ~
       By: Kerry Date: June 5, 2023, 1:31 am
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       [quote author=Helen link=topic=1558.msg34164#msg34164
       date=1685890763]
       I’m sure all of us have been on numerous forums over the last
       few decades …well I have for sure. And still on a few.
       Some lovely ones of great fellowship and even lasting internet
       friendships ….and on ,,
       Other forum finding much conflict and some of the strangest of
       belief systems!
       Yet one thing I still find very repetitively , is that many
       people seem to be only contented to pick on what is wrong with
       other people’s beliefs , yet they never share what God has said
       to them personally , or what He has done for them.
       It seems that their only strength lies in telling other people
       what is not, and what is wrong.
       That , as I see it , is not ‘the gospel’ , neither is it the
       GOOD NEWS …which we know is what Gospel means .
       Needless to say …when I butt heads against this constantly I
       find I always have to ask the person if they will ever give us
       any good news about who God is to them and what He has done for
       them . As they only seem to care about what is wrong with the
       belief of others.
       For myself , at 81 I can say that my life has been a rich one,
       not in substance but in my relationship with Father …His
       dealings, His blessings , His constant presence…
       Seen miracles, heard the best of preachers , heard His Voice ,
       seen visions , had dreams, been healed numerous times… and just
       the blessing of knowing that “He IS”.
       Bottom line…one day we will all gather at His Seat , and
       have revealed to us , which things we believed correctly and
       which things we got wrong .  I think we are in for some
       surprises!
       Yet, I’ve never ever believed that God cares about ‘correct
       doctrine’ …. We see many biblical characters who got things
       wrong!  Adam, Abraham, Lot, Gideon , Jonah , David , Peter ,
       even Paul…and in Hebrews 11 we see God commending them , not
       remembering their fall.
       So I have confidence that God , as He tells us, is a heart God
       …At the last great gathering , He will measure our heart and our
       love, not our doctrine or mistakes .
       Just saying…
       [/quote]I believe the things in the Bible were given to us to
       teach us how to love God and other people better.  Ideas need to
       be used to help us make things better.  Ideas need to get lined
       up with reality.
       Deuteronomy 29:29 The secret things belong unto the Lord our
       God: but those things which are revealed belong unto us and to
       our children for ever, that we may do all the words of this law.
       And everything in the law needs to be seen through the lens of
       Love.  That is the spirit of the Law.
       This idea helps me love God more since what He has revealed
       shows me His Love for us.
       #Post#: 35038--------------------------------------------------
       Re:   ~Just Saying ~
       By: Justaname Date: May 19, 2025, 10:52 am
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       being reluctant to start yet another new thread , I think I’ll
       post this here.
       I was awake for 4 hours during the wee hours ..sleep
       wouldn’t come.
       I tried to remember all the names of the other children
       in my school class when I was about age 6 …
       Then I got onto the topic of “ Perfect love casts
       out fear …” I mused on that for a while ( being a child and an
       adult where most of my life has been dogged by one fear or
       another . )
       So I was wondering WHY it says “Perfect Love casts out fear..”
       Why doesn’t it say. That Faith casts out fear ?  Or -Trust casts
       out fear , worship casts out fear .  Why and how can it be that
       * love cast out fear ?!!   How is that done ?
       #Post#: 35039--------------------------------------------------
       Re:   ~Just Saying ~
       By: Kerry Date: May 19, 2025, 1:41 pm
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       [quote author=Helen link=topic=1558.msg35038#msg35038
       date=1747669966]
       being reluctant to start yet another new thread , I think I’ll
       post this here.
       I was awake for 4 hours during the wee hours ..sleep
       wouldn’t come.
       I tried to remember all the names of the other children
       in my school class when I was about age 6 …
       Then I got onto the topic of “ Perfect love casts
       out fear …” I mused on that for a while ( being a child and an
       adult where most of my life has been dogged by one fear or
       another . )
       So I was wondering WHY it says “Perfect Love casts out fear..”
       Why doesn’t it say. That Faith casts out fear ?  Or -Trust casts
       out fear , worship casts out fear .  Why and how can it be that
       * love cast out fear ?!!   How is that done ?
       [/quote]I can tell you how I read it.  From the context,  I read
       it as being fearful of some imaginary flaw in God the way we
       often wonder about what flaws people we meet might have.  The
       context seems to be about loving God and others in whom the
       Spirit is acting.  A person whose actions are being guided in
       the here and now by the Holy Spirit could not possibly harm
       others, so we ought not to be afraid.
       Some things and people should make us afraid.  Fear is a good
       thing if it keeps us out of trouble by warning us of potential
       dangers.  If you see a poisonous snake,  I wouldn't advise
       trying to pet it to show it how much you love it.  Perhaps faith
       would work better with a snake, having confidence we can take
       care of it.
       In another way, Faith, Hope and Charity are linked together I
       think.  If you increase one, it tends to increase the other two.
       Now if I started off afraid of the snake but found out I could
       deal with it -- that would certainly also decrease my fear and
       maybe I could find something to like about it.  Doing it once
       would increase the hope that I could do it in the future too.
       The easiest way to increase all three is to work increasing
       Love.
       Being afraid of God should send us a signal then that we are
       imagining a flaw in Him.  God is Perfect.  I know the Bible
       reads the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; but the
       word for "fear" there should be translated as "awe."
       Now yes, there can be some "fear" in "awe" too.  If you are
       standing at the top of a tall cliff, you may be in awe of the
       view -- but you shouldn't walk off the cliff.  Such are my
       thoughts. I'm still thinking about your other post.
       
       #Post#: 35040--------------------------------------------------
       Re:   ~Just Saying ~
       By: Justaname Date: May 19, 2025, 3:32 pm
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       thx Kerry .  I’m still musing on this . Maybe I should have
       ended my post with asking HOW does perfect love cast out fear.
       Most times in my life , the fear ( which can be suffocating
       ) raises its ugly head because my body has been attacked by some
       sickness.  I’ve been on the edge of death twice . Once in ‘68
       and once in ‘83 .
       I felt no fear either time  I knew that it was touch and go
       both times and if something didn’t happen I’d be gone.
       My ‘besetting’ fear is not actual dying bit or being dead
       , it’s more the dread of a long painful scary process .
       I can’t get my head around *why love is said  to
       deal with it!  Not faith , belief ,positive thinking, but love!
       Why love and how is it done. Love has so many shapes and sizes .
       And we haven’t even started talking of  the PERFECT love!
       
       #Post#: 35041--------------------------------------------------
       Re:   ~Just Saying ~
       By: Kerry Date: May 20, 2025, 2:14 am
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       [quote author=Helen link=topic=1558.msg35040#msg35040
       date=1747686720]
       thx Kerry .  I’m still musing on this . Maybe I should have
       ended my post with asking HOW does perfect love cast out fear.
       Most times in my life , the fear ( which can be suffocating
       ) raises its ugly head because my body has been attacked by some
       sickness.  I’ve been on the edge of death twice . Once in ‘68
       and once in ‘83 .
       I felt no fear either time  I knew that it was touch and go
       both times and if something didn’t happen I’d be gone.
       My ‘besetting’ fear is not actual dying bit or being dead
       , it’s more the dread of a long painful scary process .
       I can’t get my head around *why love is said  to
       deal with it!  Not faith , belief ,positive thinking, but love!
       Why love and how is it done. Love has so many shapes and sizes .
       And we haven’t even started talking of  the PERFECT love!
       
       [/quote]Not sure about the HOW of it all; but I believe Love
       acts like a solvent.  Imagine having two rocks.  They won't fit
       together exactly.  If you can dissolve small parts of both, then
       they will.  The two become one.  In the Body of Christ, there
       are many, many members.  Bits of "self" need to be sacrificed.
       Health problems distract us from the spiritual world; and the
       imperfect physical body in pain surely does.  Something has to
       give, and the imperfect physical body fights the spiritual body.
       
       I believe the correction of the body involves something like
       crucifixion.  That fallen physical body needs to give up but it
       can be a hard fight.
       It's so complicated.   We are also told bear each other's
       burdens.  In the end, each of us has to bear our own burdens;
       but until perfection is achieved, the stronger spiritual being
       will bear some of the burdens of weaker spiritual beings.  That
       makes it easier for the child to develop strength without
       falling flat out of weakness.  All things work together for the
       good in the end -- although that is so hard to see now.
       Perhaps the dread of suffering is what Job had to get over.  His
       wife told him to curse God and die; but he stuck in there.
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       Re:   ~Just Saying ~
       By: Heartsong Date: May 20, 2025, 10:44 am
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       [quote author=Helen link=topic=1558.msg35038#msg35038
       date=1747669966]
       being reluctant to start yet another new thread , I think I’ll
       post this here.
       I was awake for 4 hours during the wee hours ..sleep
       wouldn’t come.
       I tried to remember all the names of the other children
       in my school class when I was about age 6 …
       Then I got onto the topic of “ Perfect love casts
       out fear …” I mused on that for a while ( being a child and an
       adult where most of my life has been dogged by one fear or
       another . )
       So I was wondering WHY it says “Perfect Love casts out fear..”
       Why doesn’t it say. That Faith casts out fear ?  Or -Trust casts
       out fear , worship casts out fear .  Why and how can it be that
       * love cast out fear ?!!   How is that done ?
       [/quote]
       I wasn't taught good things about God when I was a child. I was
       only taught fear and punishment and burning in hell which caused
       nightmares as a child. But still I felt a closeness to God that
       brought me comfort and made me feel loved and protected when the
       worst things imaginable was happening to me and around me.
       I watched my husband and daughter who both had congestive heart
       failure die a slow painful death so I know what you're talking
       about. I don't want to die that way either.
       Aside from having cancer which honestly I wasn't afraid at all
       when I was diagnosed or surprised because I was already feeling
       really bad so I knew it had to be something serious making me
       feel way. There was an incident when my blood pressure collapsed
       and I was having chest pains and long story short I came close
       that time and I remember I was in bed and could no longer feel
       my body and no pain or worry or fear and all I felt was like I
       was covered with the love of God and that was the greatest
       feeling I've ever had in my life. It felt like I was leaving my
       body and moving forward somewhere that I couldn't quite see but
       I knew it was there. To be honest, I didn't want the paramedics
       to bring me out of that state but they did.
       Ultimately for me it has always been the love of God that has
       made it possible for me to survive even when fear of something
       beyond my control, understanding and strength was happening to
       me and I was asked, "Where's your God now"? But they didn't
       understand anything about love at all. All they knew about was
       evil, hate, and violence and using fear as a method of control
       and they enjoyed seeing someone being afraid. Love conquers all
       and overcomes evil, fear, hate and darkness. By the way, I'm
       seeing this on a much larger scale now out in the open no longer
       in secret places. It's being accepted and encouraged. I
       recognize it for what it is.
       #Post#: 35043--------------------------------------------------
       Re:   ~Just Saying ~
       By: Justaname Date: May 20, 2025, 1:10 pm
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       Thanks so much Cathey , for the testimony of Gods keeping power
       during times of stress and sickness. That is so encouraging.
       If I’m honest ( which we all should be , but not always
       want to be ) I have to say I’m not afraid of death , but I
       am afraid of pain and constant discomfort which is so
       debilitating and distracting from ‘ Abiding in Him.
       I’m sure brave people can pull it off , but I’m a
       confessed coward where pain is concerned . I find it all
       consuming.
       Thx for the encouragement . x
       Kerry , that post was so very helpful …it has given me
       things to muse upon.
       Agree , I think with me LOTS of my self-life is not yet dead to
       the soulish self , before Adam fell, I think he was heavily
       spiritual and secondly soul , After the fall the top weight was
       soul and the spiritual life was then dominated by the fleshly
       self.
       ( or something like that )
       As I’ve aged I find my fleshly self is very aware , and
       the spiritual side kinda squashed by bodily demands and  things
       dominating.
       I even resent having to watch the clock to remember which pill
       to take next !
       Little did we know as kids how easily we hopped out of bed and
       ran down to breakfast! Haha…I can’t remember the
       last time that I ran!
       I know that none of this bothers God !
       I liked your use of the two rocks .
       I think my problem is I was asking myself what love God was
       talking about …ours toward Him or His toward us…I
       can see I got that wrong …love is not a
       ‘thing’ to be held as a tool, but it is all
       encompassing life itself as it says - God is love .
       Maybe it means “perfect love casts out fear”
       ,  as in “ God being perfect and being Love Himself , His
       total possession of us delivers us from all fear . What is
       required of us is perfect surrender …which is really what
       each of us heard on the first day of our salvation when we came
       to the faith .
       
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       Re:   ~Just Saying ~
       By: Kerry Date: May 21, 2025, 5:42 am
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       [quote author=Helen link=topic=1558.msg35043#msg35043
       date=1747764632]
       Agree , I think with me LOTS of my self-life is not yet dead to
       the soulish self , before Adam fell, I think he was heavily
       spiritual and secondly soul , After the fall the top weight was
       soul and the spiritual life was then dominated by the fleshly
       self.
       ( or something like that ) [/quote]
       Yes, something like that indeed. I follow the principle that if
       something sounds impossible in earthly terms, it is probably
       describing something heavenly. Much of Genesis is like that. I
       think Adam and Eve had spiritual bodies and shone.  When they
       fell, their bodies went dark.  They were indeed naked in a new
       way.   Interesting too is that Genesis 3:21 is mistranslated.
       It should read "coats of skin" and not "coats of skin."   "Skin"
       there is singular; but translators had a picture in their minds
       of God killing animals to make coats for them.  I think that was
       the point they entered physical bodies.
       [quote]
       As I’ve aged I find my fleshly self is very aware , and the
       spiritual side kinda squashed by bodily demands and  things
       dominating.
       I even resent having to watch the clock to remember which pill
       to take next ! [/quote]I'm a little naughty to being precise
       about the time.  It was driving me nuts.  I take four meds and
       five vitamins or other supplements; and sometimes I take the
       meds at one time and the others later since all that water makes
       me fill so full. My doctor wanted me to drink a gallon of water
       a day.  I think I'd explode!
       
       [quote]I liked your use of the two rocks .
       I think my problem is I was asking myself what love God was
       talking about …ours toward Him or His toward us…I can see I got
       that wrong …love is not a ‘thing’ to be held as a tool, but it
       is all encompassing life itself as it says - God is love .
       Maybe it means “perfect love casts out fear” ,  as in “
       God being perfect and being Love Himself , His total possession
       of us delivers us from all fear . What is required of us is
       perfect surrender …which is really what each of us heard on the
       first day of our salvation when we came to the faith .
       [/quote]So was Adam and Eve made out of physical dust or
       spiritual dust?  If Man is meant to be stones in the Temple,
       built on the Foundation Rock, I say it was spiritual dust.
       Rocks and stones are quite interesting in the Bible.
       The "carnal" heart is like a hard brittle stone in spiritual
       terms.   It is stubborn and resists change.  The "spiritual"
       heart we are to receive are yielding.  I draw that distinction
       from:
       Ezekiel 11:19 And I will give them one heart, and I will put a
       new spirit within you; and I will take the stony heart out of
       their flesh, and will give them an heart of flesh:
       #Post#: 35047--------------------------------------------------
       Re:   ~Just Saying ~
       By: Justaname Date: May 24, 2025, 10:14 am
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       quote Kerry …   “From the context,  I read it as being fearful
       of some imaginary flaw in God the way we often wonder about what
       flaws people we meet might have.  The context seems to be about
       loving God and others in whom the Spirit is acting. “
       I went back to your other post and found that I missed or
       overlooked , this gem the first time.  Probably because I was
       looking for a “something” that I could grab hold of and use as a
       tool against the enemy when attacks come.
       I think I am slowly seeing more of “God is Love “.  When we
       think that we already know something , we stop looking.
       I thought that I knew and understood that God is love , but
       I now can see that I have hardly scratched the surface of the
       depth of the love of God.  Which brings me back to - how much do
       I believe , am I a truly a believing believer , or did I give
       mental assent and check it off as done!
       The depth of Gods word is an amazement .
       “ further up and deeper in,..”
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