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Is it possible to have a respectful discussion?
By: RobertLonie Date: July 7, 2012, 9:51 am
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Hello,
Well, I guess my first question has to be whether or not a
forum like this is possible. I realize people can be passionate
about a variety of topics. It can be difficult to separate a
person and their ideas. However, We come from many different
walks of life. We know little, if anything of each other's
personal history. it is possible for a person to have two or
more conflicting beliefs. This is how discussion can help, by
talking about what we think, what we know, and how we feel.
Not every topic will appeal to each of you. Some may strike
a more personal chord. As I am beginning this forum by inviting
all of my friends to join the discussion, hopefully, this will
start us all on some common ground. Please respond if you have
anything to add. Please refrain from insulting others and their
opinions. Attacking others does not further the conversation. It
instead puts people on the defensive. The debate shifts from a
discussion about something, to a dicussion about someone.
Likewise, try not to nitpick grammar. This is a discussion
board, not an English class. As long as the intent and message
are clear, focus on the message.
My biggest concern is how we interact with one another as
we try to come to an understanding. I have seen so many forums
breakdown into shouting matches. "I'm right, You're wrong, I
win, You lose." it is my wish to discuss our different opinions
and how we came about them. This means listening (reading)
attentively. With all of us coming out as winners, because we
understand each other better.
So, what do you think?
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Re: Is it possible to have a respectful discussion?
By: awood1 Date: July 7, 2012, 10:53 am
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yes debate is always a good thing if handled with respect ;D
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Re: Is it possible to have a respectful discussion?
By: MumsyLo Date: July 7, 2012, 11:29 am
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Debates and conflicts can be good. As we reach a compromise we
make the world a better place for all to live. This forum could
be fun and thought provoking :)
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Re: Is it possible to have a respectful discussion?
By: Senior Date: July 7, 2012, 2:23 pm
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Seems to me this method of understanding flies in the face of
popular social norms. Knowledge is trivialized and emotions are
used to mask ignorance. Consider talk radio: Rush Limbaugh, Bill
O'Reilly, Don Imus, Michael Savage, Sean Hannity, Laura
Ingraham, Glenn Beck, Al Franken. I could list more but, I
think you get the point. this is the calm, rational discussion
that is prevalent today. Feelings and emotions are hardwired
into each and every one of us. I know this to be true because I
too have suffered from my own feelings and emotions.
A detached rational discussion is difficult as pulse rates go
up, breaths come shorter and, the desire to be heard shuts down
our own hearing. I do not have an opinion, I have many
opinions. These opinions form my understanding or
mis-understanding of world events. I can not force you the
believe that blue is green or yellow is red. guess that's my
two cents... 'till I get more change. ;D
Purple = Sarcasm
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