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       ARE PHYSIOLOGICAL REASONS ENOUGH JUSTIFICATION FOR A BREAKUP IN 
       A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP?
       By: lolafoundation Date: April 5, 2017, 9:09 am
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       ARE PHYSIOLOGICAL REASONS ENOUGH JUSTIFICATION FOR A BREAKUP IN
       A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP?
       I attended a sister’s conferences sometimes ago, it was a life
       changer. A female minister was invited and she gave a powerful
       talk on the danger of sex before marriage…, in the course of her
       message she gave us an illustration of something that happened
       in her local church. She said ‘…sister and brother “lagbaja” are
       Christians and were in a committed relationship, we just
       realized that this brother decided to breakup with the lady…For
       like two month, the brother insisted that he’s tired of the
       relationship and they should go their separate ways.
       What could have happen? Was the question that ran through my
       mind, it took a lot of coaxing and convincing for him to
       actually tell me what the problem was? And this was the
       explanation the brother gave mi o   ‘I touched her breast and
       noticed that the boobs are flat and sagging’.   orisirisi
       excuses wetin you no fit hear!!!!.
       Many sisters at the conference ground laughed at this brother
       explanation….I also laughed because it was not only funny but
       pointless and ridiculous…and the question that came to my mind
       was “are physiological reasons enough justification for a
       breakup in a committed relationship? or is there more to it?
       Anyways  it’s not just men who say this to their partner,
       because women say it too…have you heard something like “my
       partner is sluggish for my likening. I prefer someone who is
       very active, she is just too fat nowadays, I dislike the acne
       eruption on her face, he has got curved legs, her “bum bum” is
       just like that of a 5yrs old girl. Etcetera….Etcetera. As if
       they were blindfolded when they proposed to themselves….Oluwa
       have mercy o.
       I realized that most individuals are never satisfied and that
       means if you are dissatisfied in life, you will be dissatisfied
       in any relationship. It’s important to remember you cannot force
       someone to feel something, in any stage of relationships each
       person is only in charge of themselves……when it is going good or
       when it is going terrible…….And when are we going to have men
       and women that will say “ I care for your personality and not
       just your looks”.
       I love you for sticking with me and I will see you in my next
       post and like I do say; don’t fall in love with the wrong
       reasons!!!  Read more www.lolafoundation.com.ng and you can also
       visit our facebook page on www.facebook.com/lolafoundation  #
       Coachlola
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