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IS YOUR PARTNER ENTITLED TO YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA PASSWORDS IN A COM
MITTED RELATIONSHIP?
By: lolafoundation Date: April 3, 2017, 8:53 am
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IS YOUR PARTNER ENTITLED TO YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA PASSWORDS IN A
COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP?
This question is so important that you have to discuss it with
your partner; even when you’re yet to be married. Do you have
access to your partner social media accounts? Do they have
access to yours? Why or why not? Does not providing your
password automatically mean you’re hiding something? What are
your thought on this?
Some few days ago I was listening to a man, narrating how he
caught his wife cheating on him through her mobile phone via
WhatsApp messages!!! He said, We had been married for 10yrs and
have 3 kids together. we have been living peaceful together, I
love my wife very much that I do ensure that she lack nothings.
I am a very responsible and God fearing man. According to him,
My wife works in another state and often comes back weekends; so
on this fateful day, she came back on Saturday, I and the
children were so excited to see her and we enjoyed ourselves
together, on Sunday evening I decide to turn on the generator so
we could charge the electronics and watch the T.V because there
was no electricity……..so she decided to switch-off her mobile
phone and charge it.
The next morning was a Monday, she was ready to go back to her
station, so I accompanied with her luggage and convey her to the
garage where she boarded a vehicle that took her to her PPA. A
few hours later I received a strange call from an unknown
number…so I picked up the call and I realized it was my wife
calling, she had forgotten her mobile phone!!! I told her not to
worry, that I will keep it and on Tuesday I will bring it down
to her.
A few hours later, she called me back and said” Darling please
do not turn on my phone, just keep it for me please I am begging
you” I felt so uncomfortable with this statement as many thought
flipped through my heart…. So by evening, I decided to turn on
her phone and see what she is hiding from me. I did not see
anything strange on the phone, but my spirit said I should check
through her WhatsApp message…then I realized she had been
cheating on me. i saw romantic messages, dirty and flirtatious
messages on her phone….i was depressed throughout the midnight.
The following morning I decided to go see her in her place of
work, on getting there she welcomed him and the first thing she
asked was her phone…..i gave her the phone , she collected it
and hurriedly left……she came back a few minute and she look so
happy.
I decided to confront her…. immediately she yelled at me... She
brought out the phone and threw it at me asking me to show him
the messages!!! I pick up the phone and flipped through her
WhatsApp messages...lo and behold she had deleted the message
…..I was shocked, I apology to her because I realized I had no
evidence against her….I made a big mistake!!!
Have you asked your partner if they’ve always been faithful or
their thoughts on cheating?
I realized that most times before you fall into the sin of
cheating there are some indiscretions you over looked, ignored
or somehow excuses you give until the inevitable happens!!!....
The inappropriate likes on **** Facebook pictures, the extra DM
on twitter, the extra flirtatious laugh and touch you entice
each other, unworthy stuff you discuss, they are playfully at
first, until that invisible feeling emerged. I called these
outright deceitful actions or what do you think?
Yes!!! I was away and that was why you have not been seeing my
post on Lola foundation recently by God’s grace I’m back …I did
achieved a lot while I was away though.….i got certified as a
professional counsellor and have been counseling more people
and I’m almost rounding up my master degree program. I love you
for sticking with me and I will see you in my next post and like
I do say; don’t fall in love with the wrong reasons!!! Read
more www.lolafoundation.com.ng. #Coachlola
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