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How do I deal with my crush?
By: lolafoundation Date: December 4, 2016, 5:28 am
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[size=36pt]How do I deal with my crush?[/size]
He is my best friend, our friendship is purely platonic, but of
recent I started having a crush on him, but I lack the confident
in telling him how I recently feels about him.am thinking of how
devastated it would be for the two of us, if we start dating and
then breakup, this might create unnecessary rifts in our
friendly relationship I can’t meet another guy as awesome as him
so I don’t want to lose him, I have been thinking of how I can
turn this crush into a romance? But i can’t still figure out the
strategies to apply. I don’t want to assume and think that he
have feelings for me. I need a way out.
Thank you Lola for the opportunity to share relationship
experiences on your blog (www.lolafoundation.com.ng) and a
shout out to all my family’s and love ones: whishing them Merry
Christmas and a happy new year in advance.
(Anonymous)
Response;
Wow, I should thank you for the blog love *wink* Now before I
get to the heart of your question, I have to address this. You
said “I can’t meet a guy as awesome as him” so I want to ask
you, what if he rejected the idea of having a romantic
relationship with you, does that connote the end of your love
life???. No one is awesome except God, I realized you are saying
all these because you haven’t really had a serious relationship
together, and I can tell you authoritatively that the very
moment you are in a serious relationships, that is only when you
can say, he is awesome or not. you don’t judge a book by its
cover, but by the content.so stop saying that you can’t meet
someone as good as him, of course you can, if only you will stop
mandating God to follow your desires, but rather allow God to
lead you, because he will never mislead you, If God is big to
serve, he is more than enough to trust.
The first thing is that there’s nothing wrong in having a crush
on someone, the problem is how well we can manage those
feelings, not to have a negative consequences on our love life.
Relationship is vast and marriage is huge!. Have you told God
about this? And if yes, what is he saying, am afraid you already
have an idol in your heart about the guy you wanted. But is
never too late to make things right. Don’t be deluded by your
mental state of imagination and thought, better get down on your
kneel to pray for God consent.
Perhaps, I will say you don’t tell him you love him, if you are
sure that he only want to be your friend, otherwise that could
damage your friendship, and you might feel regretful and
disappointed with yourself . Go back to God, start there and
figure out what exactly he want and saying about your crush. And
always remember that God has a great thing in store for you.
CoachLola (lolafoundation16@gmail.com)
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