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Tips you need to know about Relationships
By: lolafoundation Date: May 4, 2016, 6:40 am
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1. You have to first have a good relationship with God so much
that you enjoy the peace of God in your heart and life.
2. To those just entering into a relationship; you must be
prepared to start with a good foundation, which is possible
through faith and trust in God and believing that you don’t
always have to learn in the hard way, and because everyone is
doing it, doesn’t mean it’s good, so ready to cut down on those
regret; through preparedness.
3. To those who had been in a previous relationship, it requires
that you have a re-think of the mistake you could have
ignorantly committed, it could be that you ignorantly misplaced
your priority, or there are something’s you did not know but
pretended to know, It is essential that you reevaluate your
losses, mistake, or error as the case may be; if you have been
abused, or you felt like a victim, looking deeply into your
short comings and learn from them.
4. Always say YES to holiness, there is no shortcut to it, it
works like magic, don’t let the temptation around you dictate
how you live your life, without holiness your relationship will
become contaminated, and as for you wanting a committed
relationship, you should be more careful since you don’t want to
be address as a serial dater even as a guy, the girls should
always remember that when you catch a guy with your body you’ll
have to keep him with your body, so it is time to act. And say
yes to holiness.
5. Always believe in God’s purpose for your life; You don’t have
to be or try to be like another person, you are yourself,
according to Rick Warren the author of the purpose driven life,
he said “you are born by God purpose and for his purpose” so I
wonder why you may want to live for another man purpose. Your
relationships value is what you choose to believe in and not
something someone gives you. Believe in God’s mandate for your
life, when people life become so unbearable they finally end up
coming back to God, so it should always be a reminder that you
can’t do without God’s purpose, knowing this will help you to
enjoy an overwhelming joy and fulfillment. Don’t uses people
lifestyles to live your life; you may not be as lucky as they
were.
6. Always learn to trust; I know it is hurtful most especially
when you believed someone and later find out that you have been
deceived, It make you feel foolish and humiliated ,but what
other choice do you have? Without trust there can be no
relationships, so you ask God for the grace to keep on trusting
and hopefully God will use your trust to make your mate more
trustworthy if need be.
7. Don’t be afraid of your past. The greatest lesson are learnt
from past mistakes in fact such mistakes are raw materials in
God’s hand to mould you into something more unique and
incomparable, there are times you tell people about your inner
thoughts and feeling, believing they will never be used against
you, believing you will be loved and accepted anyway, maybe even
more so because of your honesty, but irrespective of how
annoying or traumatic your experiences are, try to realize that,
you cannot build anything on regret. So develop a resilient
spirit that can never be pull down.
8. Always pray to God about your relationship; hope you realize
that we are now living in the time of conclusion of all things,
anyway it may not have anything to do with the natural order of
things, but I want you to know that they will be affected. Don’t
take everything for granted by believing people experiences are
normal, there is a spiritual reason for why things are happening
the way they are, if you believe or not, so to revert such heart
breaking situation in your relationship learn to keep the enemy
from aborting God’s plan in your relationship.
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