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       To Ponder
   DIR By: Helen
       Date: May 28, 2015, 8:03 pm
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       //Man Pushes Wife To Save Himself From A Sinking Cruise Ship.//
       A teacher was tutoring a class of students when she relayed a
       story about a cruise ship capsized while at sea, and on the ship
       was a couple that managed to make their way to a lifeboat but
       realized there was only space for one. You’ll never guess what
       lesson they learned from the story.
       A cruise ship met with an incident at sea. On the ship was a
       couple, after having made their way to the lifeboat, they
       realized that there was only space for one person left.
       At this moment, the man pushed the woman behind him and jumped
       onto the lifeboat himself.
       The lady stood on the sinking ship and shouted one sentence to
       her husband.
       The teacher stopped and asked, “What do you think she shouted?”
       Most of the students excitedly answered, “I hate you! I was
       blind!”
       Now, the teacher noticed a boy who was silent throughout, she
       got him to answer and he replied, “Teacher, I believe she would
       have shouted – Take care of our child!”
       The teacher was surprised, asking “Have you heard this story
       before?”
       The boy shook his head, “Nope, but that was what my mom told my
       dad before she died to disease”.
       The teacher lamented, “The answer is right”.
       The cruise ship sunk. The man went home and brought up their
       daughter single-handedly.
       Many years later after the death of the man, their daughter
       found his diary while tidying his belongings.
       It turns out that when parents went onto the cruise ship, the
       mother was already diagnosed with a terminal illness. At the
       critical moment, the father rushed to the only chance of
       survival.
       He wrote in his diary, “How I wished to sink to the bottom of
       the ocean with you, but for the sake of our daughter, I can only
       let you lie forever below the sea alone”.
       The story is finished, the class was silent.
       The teacher knows that the student has understood the moral of
       the story, that of the good and the evil in the world, there are
       many complications behind them which are hard to understand.
       Which is why we should never only focus on the surface and judge
       others without understanding them first.
       Those who like to pay the bill, do so not because they are
       loaded but because they value friendship above money.
       Those who take the initiative at work, do so not because they
       are stupid but because they understand the concept of
       responsibility.
       Those who apologize first after a fight, do so not because they
       are wrong but because they value the people around them.
       Those who are willing to help you, do so not because they owe
       you anything but because they see you as a true friend.
       Those who often text you, do so not because they have nothing
       better to do but because you are in their heart.
       One day, all of us will get separated from each other; we will
       miss our conversations of everything and nothing; the dreams
       that we had. Days will pass by, months, years, until this
       contact becomes rare… One day our children will see our pictures
       and ask “Who are these people?” And we will smile with invisible
       tears because a heart is touched with a strong word and you will
       say: “It was them that I had the best days of my life with.”
       #Post#: 5193--------------------------------------------------
       Re: To Ponder
   DIR By: Rita
       Date: May 28, 2015, 11:05 pm
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       Yes, so often we judge on what we think we see, not on what we
       actually know - but that can actually happen with God as well -
       we think he is not hearing us, we judge on what we do not see
       happening, and yet the bigger picture would reveal so much more
       if we could see it at the time x
       Rita
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       Re: To Ponder
   DIR By: Helen
       Date: May 29, 2015, 9:45 am
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       Amen Rita...thanks for response. :)
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       Re: To Ponder
   DIR By: James
       Date: May 29, 2015, 2:14 pm
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       Only just saw this it did not come up on "unread posts".
       Very good story and good truth behind it, the question is how
       does one not make a snap appraisal of a situation?  Life demands
       that we all rush about trying to be somewhere else, when did
       living become so much of a race to be at the next place before
       we have even finished up where we are?
       [color=black]For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in
       this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. 15But if ye bite
       and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of
       another.
       I was thinking of this verse today and the thought came into my
       head do not judge, I need to think a little more on this to see
       where the Lord will lead.[/color]
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       Re: To Ponder
   DIR By: Pat
       Date: May 29, 2015, 3:13 pm
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       My mother taught me to always see the other persons point of
       view; she never jumped to conclusions and I never heard her
       judge anybody.
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       Re: To Ponder
   DIR By: Amadeus
       Date: June 3, 2015, 5:46 pm
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       --- Quote ---
       > James:
       >
       > ...the question is how does one not make a snap appraisal of a
       situation?  Life demands that we all rush about trying to be
       somewhere else, ...before we have even finished up where we are?
       --- End Quote ---
       Yes, the life of carnal man demands of us, but if we without
       seeing or anticipating any results lean heavily on God trusting
       Him without always understanding, He will accomplish the right
       thing for us, whatever it may be. Do we automatically respond to
       situations? Yes, but if a person expends 90% of his time and
       effort on pleasing his own flesh according to habits formed in
       his lifetime, what else should we expect?
       We must, when it is not a quick automatic response that is
       needed, practice making a more godly response. I believe... that
       if we really work in that direction and regularly ask God to
       help us do it His way especially when there is no time to think
       long and deeply... that He will help us.
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       Re: To Ponder
   DIR By: Helen
       Date: June 3, 2015, 8:24 pm
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       --- Quote ---
       > Quote Amadeus. "We must, when it is not a quick automatic
       response that is needed, practice making a more godly response.
       I believe... that if we really work in that direction and
       regularly ask God to help us do it His way especially when there
       is no time to think long and deeply... that He will help us."
       >
       --- End Quote ---
       I have so missed your wise words John. :)
       I need to have that "as a frontlet before my eyes." A principle
       to live by indeed!!
       My mind has been cluttered this last month of two with just
       keeping one foot in front of the other...I confess, in some
       areas I have just got out of the habit of "leaning."
       I much appreciate your faithful reminders. It stirs my heart
       again.
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       Re: To Ponder
   DIR By: Amadeus
       Date: June 3, 2015, 9:11 pm
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       May God richly bless you Helen in natural body as well in His
       Spirit. Give God the glory!
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