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       #Post#: 44--------------------------------------------------
       That Other Family Table I
   DIR By: StoryGod
       Date: December 13, 2019, 12:05 pm
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       Tikvah sat still as a stone on the bus back from White Plains.
       Despite the heat, her cheeks were pale. She stared out the
       window. Corianne sat next to her, glad that Albina was tired,
       hungry, and not nattering on endlessly. Corianne tried to figure
       out what had happened. Tikvah was emotional. She cried easily.
       She had a long phone call in the bathroom in WalMart. The phone
       call was in a foreign language. Tikvah said she was from
       Rockland County, but she dressed funny, which made her like a
       foreign student. Well, that made the foreign language make
       sense, but not the rest.
       Well, maybe it did make sense. Families were a major source of
       heart ache. It had taken weeks for Corianne to get over her
       mother taking a job in the Emirates. She and the stepmother,
       Cherie, had faught endlessly because Cherie was narrow minded
       enough to think all kids were basically widgets produced in the
       child factory, and Corianne was not much of a widget. "Why do
       you have to make things difficult?" Cherie cluelessly
       complained. It had taken a whole school year and a retched
       summer, for Corianne to wear out her welcome. It was done and
       over with, but Tikvah was probably just beginning things, though
       it was true, Tikvah's situation could be entirely different.
       Albina and her charges got off the bus in front of the Duane
       Reade. "You are better off buying sundries here than online,"
       Albina said to [Color=#004bdd]Suri[/color], the girl with the
       lovely braids. They were still lovely even after a whole day.
       "Now we have a long walk," the broad shouldered girl complained.
       "Can you tell me what a sundry is?" Albina made a non sequitur.
       Broad shoulders blinked. "Something you buy in a drug store,"
       copper head picked up from the conversation. "Nice try," thought
       Corianne who raised her hand.
       "Little things that aren't food like soap, shampoo, toothpaste,
       scouring powder."
       "Did all of you hear that?" Albina asked.
       There were tired grunts of assent. "Why shouldn't you buy
       sundries online?" Buying sundries online sounded like a
       perfectly good idea to Corianne, though what she still wanted
       was a pajama keeper.
       "OK, what happens when you buy something online?"
       "You pay for it with your debit card," Copper Head answered.
       "And then...."
       "If it gets excepted Amazon takes the money out of your debit
       card account."
       "And then...."
       "It gets delivered..."
       "How soon..."
       "In a few days."
       "And what if it's toothpaste?"
       "It's the same as anything else."
       "What if you're out of toothpaste?"
       "You gotta wait."
       "And how many toothpaste tubes do you neeed?"
       "One..." Copperhead blinked.
       Albina took a breath. "OK, tonight one of you is going to try to
       order a tube of toothpaste on Amazon while the rest of us watch.
       You don't really have to order it. You can cancel but I want all
       of you to see."
       Corianne realized Albina's lesson had failed, but what ten year
       old kids had experience with Amazon?
       Corianne mused about this as the group made it's way back up
       Hartsdale Ave. to Hillcrest to Ridge Road. Corianne called to
       the girls to walk only two abreast which meant Corianne walked
       near the end with Tikvah who was utterly consumed in her misery.
       Albina made the broad shouldered girl tap open the gate to let
       them all in at Kotiah-Yovanovitch and then it was off to
       Landon-Burchard-Durren for dinner. It was quarter of six, and
       there was no line. Tikvah begged to go to the bathroom and wash
       her hands. Corianne thought that would be a good idea too. "You
       aren't going to call anybody?" she asked.
       Tikvah shook her head. The two girls climbed the stairs and
       found Albina and the rest of the crew waiting "Tikvah," Albina
       called out. "Want to find a table for us tonight?"
       Tikvah blinked She glanced around and then headed straight past
       the beverage bar to the two square tables by the window except
       one was taken by two semi-adult girls eating happily. Tikvah
       turned tdo the right and found two empty tables nearby. "OK,
       let's put these tables together." Tikvah and Albina began
       shoving one table while broad shoulders and
       [Color=#004Bdd]Jupita[/Color] pushed the other into place.
       "Maybe Tikvah was just hungry. That could be part of it,"
       Corianne told herself. "Let's look at tonight's menu. They
       change it every day."
       Tikvah silently tagged along.  It was only a single menu this
       evvening:
       LBD Dinner 8/30/20
       Main Line
       Roast Turkey
       Blackened Pork Chops
       Salmon Filet
       Spinach Feta Baraka
       Dressing
       String Beans
       Carrots
       Cold Bar
       German Potato Salad
       Cranberry Sauce
       Fresh Fruit
       Assorted Baked Desserts
       Specialty Station 1
       Pizza by the Slice
       Specialty Station 2
       Sizhuan Stir Fry
       Beef Fried Rice
       Have a Great Week!
       "I'm going to get the salmon?" Corianne squeezed out clueless
       small talk.
       Tikvah sighed. "You want to talk about it later?" Corianne
       asked. "This is a really public place," she reasoned aloud.
       "Pork," was the only word Tikvah said.
       "You don't have to eat it if you don't like it. It's probably
       real spicy cause it's blackened."
       "That's what adults say," Tikvah found her tongue.
       "It's true. We get choices here."
       "I'm having pizza," Tikvah said. "See you at the table."
       "Well," thought Tikvah. "That was kind of an improvement." She
       got on the hot line, but then remembered to start at the
       beverage bar first. Then she headed to the hot line for salmon
       and both vegetables and got peach pie or dessert. "I'll get fat
       as a house in this place," thought Corianne. The hot afternoon
       was a distant memory, though Tikvah's voice echoing through the
       women's bathroom in Walmart still eched through her head. "Do I
       have a crazy roommate?" Corianne wondered.
       Tikvah had red plain pizza, coconut cookies, and milk on her
       tray. She sat next to Corianne, and Corianne noticed Tikvah was
       slowly, silently crying. "OK, I need everyone's attention,"
       Albina began. "After we get done with our little Amazon
       experiment, we have a whole evening ahead of us before I call
       curfew and light's out. What would you ladies like to do."
       "Can we play games?" asked a small girl with curly hair
       "What kind of games."
       "Just game games."
       "Board games?"
       "No, games like in school or camp."
       "What kind of games?"
       Tikvah smiled, and yes it was fun to watch an adult be clueless.
       "Rover Red Rover or Red Light Green Light," Tikvah spoke up.
       "I was thinking Wolves and Bunnies," small and curly answered.
       "How about limbo bar or Little George Washington," suggested
       Suri
       Corianne stared down at her salmon dinner. Fish twice a day was
       great, but children's playground games were totally stupid.
       "This is worse than the schools in Indiana," she thought as she
       felt a black pit open up in her stomach. "Is crying contagious?"
       she wondered.
       Albina's voice came from far away. "Do you want to play in the
       pent house, Rapinoe-Conolly-Brinker or outside.
       "Is there a playground?" Suri wistfully asked.
       "There's a soccer field we can use."
       "And this is what I came all the way from Indiana for," Corianne
       sighed, and Dad would not care, Cherie would say "Go along to
       get along," and Mon was too far away. Crying, did not have to be
       contagious.
       #Post#: 49--------------------------------------------------
       Re: That Other Family Table
   DIR By: StoryGod
       Date: December 16, 2019, 9:24 am
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       Corianne decided to have cereal that morning like Tikvah. They
       even had Grape Nuts, not in the big pour out containers, but in
       boxes on the shelf along with endless energy bars which
       according to Corianne's mother were just candy or cookies. There
       was even honey for the Grape Nuts and fresh nectarines and
       cranberry juice cocktail. Corianne realized she had not had
       Grape Nuts in ages, because Cherie, the stepmother, forgot to
       buy them.
       Tikvah found Reeses balls on the top shelf. She had grapefruit
       juice and milk with her breakfast. The two of them found the
       table, Suri had chosen.. Albina was holding court, in the way
       that adults in authority just love to talk. "...we need to set
       up a schedule of activities for today. A lot of you didn't enjoy
       your shopping and banking tour, so today we can just have fun.
       What would you like to do?"
       "Let's go to Playland," suggested the copper headed, African
       American girl.
       "Do you know how much that costs?" Money was a great way for
       adults to say no.
       "I think you better open your app," suggested a small girl with
       very, curly hair.
       "You mean my phone," copper head replied. Other kids also
       reached for their phones. If Albina were a teacher, she would be
       the kind who liked to show people. Had Albina been a teacher,
       Corianne wondered. Tikvah was the first one to find the Playland
       home page and how much it cost. "$30 unless you are a
       Westchester resident or very short," she announced.
       "That's almost a week's allowance," copper head caught on.
       "I guess we play games then," Suri announced.
       "We don't have to play games," Albina countered. "There are
       activities in the art rooms and in the Anderson-Randazzo [The
       handicraft building]. There's an on-campus nature walk, and one
       of the Suite Advisors is teaching inprov drama, plus there's a
       stage makeup demonstration. The pool is open."
       "Let's go swimming," Corianne suggested. Swimming beat games any
       day of the week. Suri and Jupita responded with dirty looks.
       "How about an art or craft activity?
       "Most kids can't draw," broad shoulders explained.
       "Alright so what do we do."
       "Let's take a vote," Jupita suggested.
       That was how games won, for the morning. In the afternoon, the
       girls would obey Albina by trying improv drama. Corianne did the
       math. It only took three game loving girls to get one or two
       other kids to make a majority. The girls who liked art or wanted
       to go on nature walks or swim, would never have a chance. Who
       said the world was fair.
       #Post#: 53--------------------------------------------------
       Re: That Other Family Table
   DIR By: StoryGod
       Date: December 17, 2019, 6:34 pm
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       There was a long line for dinner in the dining hall. Tikvah and
       the other girls from their suite eased into it.
       "Just don't make us do that again," wailed Jupita. That as
       improv class. Tikvah decided that Jupita deserved to be in big
       trouble for mouthing off and walking away. So far, the other
       shoe didn't drop. Albina, the mora, was being uncommonly nice.
       Tikvah wondered if given a choice, whether she would go back to
       improv. class. There wouldn't be an improv class for a while,
       but dramatics would be an after school activity. Tikvah
       remembered reading plays in her school in Brooklyn. She had
       liked it well enough, but real acting meant you became someone
       else, and you could forget who you are. You really could.
       Tikvah glanced at her friend, Corianne, who had zoned out. Too
       many big, strong girls loved sports to get much fun in the way
       of activities, unless they could sign up for them as
       individuals. There were all sorts of activities just as there
       were all sorts of subjects. All those subjects were what Tikvah
       had liked about her school in Brooklyn, and it was all those
       subjects that she'd miss when she got back to New Square. Yes,
       it was when, not if. "Patience," Tikvah told herself.
       The line inched up the stairs. "Every game doesn't have to put
       everyone out but the winner, and you don't always have to score
       points," Albina made adult, trickery talk, except she had gone
       to imrpv and been in the class with the rest of them, so that
       put something behind the trickery.
       "Yeah, but is the rest of the world like improv?" the copper
       headed girl asked.
       "Depends what you're doing." That was adult trickery.
       It was pretty obvious you didn't play volleyball or Mother May I
       all the time, but then again, a lot of activities were
       competitive. There was always a best, or  a shining star, a
       favorite, and then everybody else. Tikvah wanted to go back to
       New Square, as opposed to Muncey or Ramapo or Lakewood because
       her father had been among the best. The Skverrer were not
       Lubavitchers. They didn't just take any bal tshuva off the
       street and let him in. They let in tati. They also let in mommy,
       but that was a mistake. Mom loved dad. They married. They were a
       perfect pair...sort of, or for a while and then....
       But tati had proved himself a star in learning. He had turned
       his back on language camps and drama camps, and a secular high
       school where he was valedictorian and a year ahead. "When you do
       what HaShem wants instead of what Tikvah wants, it means
       something, really means something," he had once explained to his
       first-born daughter.
       "Hey dipshit the line is moving!" yelled Nelia who had broad
       shoulders and who could almost knock the skin off a volleyball.
       Tikvah entered the dining room doors with the usual trepidation.
       "Too many choice just confuse people," she told herself, though
       she knew she had heard it somewhere.
       "Let's get a table first!" Albina called out. "Nelia, Jupita,
       it's your turn.!" That meant they sat near the burlap covered
       wall but blessedly close to the window.
       "Let's check out tonight's menu," Corianne told Tikvah.
       "You always get fish," Tikvah replied.
       "You always get cereal."
       "That or pizza, but maybe they won't have pizza. It's good to
       know."
       Corianne agreed.
       LBD Dinner 8/31/20 -- Labor Day
       Main Line
       Baby Back Ribs
       Bar-b-que Chicken
       Popcorn Shrimp
       Southern Fried Tofu
       Corn on the cob
       Herbed zucchini
       Cold Bar
       Sweet and Sour Red Cabbage
       Tailgate Coleslaw
       Fresh Fruit
       Assorted Baked Desserts
       Specialty Station 1
       Pizza by the Slice
       Specialty Station 2
       Hunan Stir Fry
       Chicken Fried Rice
       Happy Labor Day!
       "What kind of an animal do baby back ribs come from?" Tikvah
       asked Corianne.
       The girl shrugged. "You can ask the servers."
       "That means I wait in the line for nothing."
       "You won't eat the chicken?"
       "It's treif."
       "I won't eat the chicken either."
       "Why not?"
       "Just not my thing. I think I'm having the stir fry."
       Both girls drifted toward the beverage bar. "Look, I'll wait in
       the hot line and ask, if you're scared."
       "I'm not scared. I'll handle it."
       So Tikvah got in the hot line for the first time. When the line
       reached the serving counter, and the server asked "what do you
       want?" she asked:
       "What kind of meat is in the baby back ribs?"
       "Ribs?"
       "Yes but from what sort of animal?"
       "Pork," the server did not miss a beat.
       "Can I just have an ear of corn then?" asked Tikvah.
       "Sure," the server smiled.
       Tikvah walked away with her corn on the cob on a small plate.
       They were serving pizza at the pizza by the slice station, and
       there was even plain, red pizza. There were no cookies on the
       cold bar, so Tikvah found her way to the junk food bar and got
       some animal crackers. Corianne was in line at the stir fry bar,
       and after that she picked up some Chinese baby corn at the salad
       bar and a piece of cake with cherry filling on top. They were
       the last kids back to their table, but Tikvah didn't care. She
       thought for the moment of her call to tati tonight. With
       unlimited data, she could speak to him as much as she wanted.
       "What'd you get?" Tikvah asked Corianne.
       "Pork stir fry with lots of peppers and cabbage," Corianne
       answered. "I don't keep kosher she confessed."
       Tikvah told herself she always knew the time would come.  Tikvah
       glanced up and down the table. If she and Corianne were alone,
       she would try to explain. Corianne was ignorant, and she needed
       to hear it. She was Jewish, even if she knew nothing about her
       faith and how to take care of her neshama. "Too bad I won't be
       here long enough to teach her," Tikvah told herself. Then she
       remembered to be patient.
       Meanwhile, Albina explained about Tuesday before labor day which
       was elective scheduling day. All middle schoolers were on one of
       six teams in their grade. Everyone ate lunch at the same time,
       so if your roommate or  friend was on another team, it was not
       so bad. There were 2,400 middle school students. That meant a
       lot of kids. Because Tikvah, and a small girl with curly hair
       both had electives that only met at 11am, instead of the usual
       3pm slot, they would be on Team 6. "Does anyone else plan on
       swimming for PE this marking period?" Albina looked up and down
       the table.
       "We get to pick what we do for gym?" Corianne asked a rhetorical
       question.
       "Yes."
       "I'd love to swim."
       "Would you like to do it at 11am?"
       One time seemed as good as any other, "but isn't that beginning
       swimming?" she asked.
       "They have all levels.  I can do an override to get you on Team
       6. It will be good not to start school with all strangers."
       "Thank you," Corianne answered.
       "Too bad none of this will last," Tikvah reminded herself.
       "OK, that's three of you, now for the rest of you. You need to
       pick a PE plus one elective, and Corianne, Tikvah, and you just
       need one elective. Open up your app and see what's available for
       Fifth Grade Team 6. There were four choices, art, music, metal
       shop, and mindfulness.
       Mindfulness sounded like another religion. Tikvah was glad
       Corianne was not interested. Art was the no brainer choice and
       both girls decided to go for it. The other girls had more
       choices. Tikvah did no envy them. "I won't be here for long,"
       she told herself again and again.
       #Post#: 63--------------------------------------------------
       Re: That Other Family Table
   DIR By: StoryGod
       Date: December 21, 2019, 8:29 pm
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       Tuesday lunch was going to be a group affair. Connie was a
       chatty and sociable type whose suite ate with several other RA's
       including two who were male. It seemed only natural for Connie
       to invite Albina to join the group. "How are we going to get the
       tables together?" Albina asked. "With my luck, Kadie, will again
       be in the group," Albina thought.
       "We just pair up the tables and put them near each other. It
       makes a nice big family," Connie explained.
       Albina realized she was trapped. She wondered if she should warn
       Connie that she just turned her charges loose at meal time and
       didn't care what they ate as long as they had something on their
       tray. The food was decent, and most of the girls liked what they
       ate.
       At long last, the group got in the dining hall. Two male Suite
       Advisors were already inside, and the boys at one of their
       tables chowed down on identical meals. "Here we go again,"
       Albina thought. "Suri and Orielle, help Connie and me push two
       tables together." The hungry girls were good sports and soon,
       all of them were on their way to get lunch.
       LBD Lunch 9/1/20
       Main Line
       Turkey Reuben
       Spicy Italian Pita
       Surimi Salad ona Bun
       Corn Pudding
       Mixed Vegetables
       String Beans
       Cold Bar
       Potato and Egg Salad
       Pepper Hash
       Fresh Fruit
       Assorted Baked Desserts
       Specialty Station 1
       Pizza by the Slice
       Specialty Station 2
       Hunan Stir Fry
       Chicken Fried Rice
       School Starts Tomorrow!
       Albina began at the beverage bar where Tikvah and her roommate
       were in their usual pre-meal huddle. Albina decided the menu was
       not for her and grabbed a large bowl at the salad bar. She
       filled it with spinach and peppers and cherry tomatoes with
       ranch dressing and picked up a very full bowl of potato and egg
       salad. Then she dug a fresh fall apple out of the basket, just
       in time to bump into Corianne doing the same. "No pie today?"
       asked Albina. "They don't have any I like," she complained.
       Corianne already had peppers and cherry tomatoes in a salad bowl
       with some kind of vinaigrette on her tray. Getting the cold food
       first made sense.
       As Albina passed the hot line she bumped into Connie with four
       of her girls. "Where are your girls?" asked Connie. "All over
       the place getting food. The first ones are probably at the table
       eating."
       Connie shook her head. Albina smiled and headed back to her
       table. All the girls except Jupita were back. That was odd.
       Albina turned to Suri though she asked the question to the other
       six girls as well. "Does anyone know where Jupita is?"
       Suri spoke up: "She got that sandwich in the pita and it was
       really disgusting, so she had to throw it away." Just then
       Jupita  arrived. She had pepperoni pizza on her tray and a soup
       bowl full of cheese doodles. "They just put new stuff in the ice
       cream freezer," Jupita told everyone.
       "There," thought Albina feeling vindicated.
       "Now that everyone's here," a male Suite Advisor with a black
       mustached like hog bristles, told all and sundry, "Let's plan
       the afternoon's activities."
       Albina knew where this would lead and it was not swimming,
       crafts, or dramatics. She gamely offered to coach Concentration
       and got an offer to call out Twister and/or help set the limbo
       bar. "I find women have patience with girl games." "It's muscle
       memory," Albina replied.
       A female Suite Adivsir with a tortoise shell plastic hair band,
       announced that everyone would have to cover, while each group
       that hadn't gone yet, went to elective registration. Albina said
       her group was scheduled for 4:45. That meant she would be useful
       even if she did let her girls "run wild" in the dining hall.
       After lunch, which the Suite Advisor with the tortoise shell
       hair band insisted ended with her lingering over coffee, the
       joint group drifted back to the gym. "You did really good with
       that girl who had to throw her sandwich away," Connie told
       Albina. "I know SA's who hate it when their kids waste food, and
       having a kid complain about food... that hurts the whole suite.
       Of course some of the problem is they offer too many choices."
       "They do?"
       "Yes, kids don't know what to get."
       "I think my girls have been learning. They've had three days to
       learn the lines and bars."
       "You know they're going to change on Friday."
       "Terrific."
       "Maybe. I have to keep telling myself, there's kids from all
       over the country and all over the world here. They have to have
       something for everybody."
       "Pretty much..."Albina answered.
       "At least nobody in my suite has a food allergy," Connie said. I
       know one SA who keeps an epi-pen in her kit.
       "I have one girl who's a flight risk?"
       "Spousal kidnapping."
       Albina nodded.
       "That must be rough."
       "Not really. She's good in other ways."
       "What will these kids do when they take their pizza away?"
       "Suffer," Albina smiled. They were nearly at the gym and Albina
       planned to introduce an oldie-but-goodie Chinese jump rope game
       called Dumb Dumb Dodo. It was a calling game, and played with a
       few comparative strangers, it would be positively brutal.
       Brutality in small measures was a very good thing.
       #Post#: 73--------------------------------------------------
       Re: That Other Family Table
   DIR By: StoryGod
       Date: December 25, 2019, 6:13 pm
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       Albina shouldered her suite's pantry box. It wasn't really a
       box, just a big vinyl bag, somewhat boxy that had a thick
       shoulder strap. It was a deep aqua or muted turquoise and on its
       vinyl exterior in indelible, Sharpie ink was written PANTRY BOX
       11-B Al-Saigh, should the precious container ever become lost.
       Several of Albina's girls were armed with empty soda bottles the
       could fill at the beverage bar. As for the box, it would soon be
       full of plastic bags of junk food and perhaps fresh fruit or raw
       veggie sticks, depending on the girls' tastes. Dinner was early.
       Nights were long. Girls get hungry, and there were not vending
       machines. Therefore it was time for a pantry run.
       A pantry run also helped Albina get the afternoon's meeting out
       of her mind, at least for the moment.  Albina shepherded her
       girls into the line. She had kept them in the suite until
       5:45pm, making them do homework for an hour after a brief game
       of concentration, which meant a nearly free evening to do
       anything that took their fancy. Most likely, they would head for
       the penthouse where there were computers, craft supplies, a
       Suite Advisor manning the stereo for social and/or line dancing
       and a kind of open gym with either kick ball or floor hockey.
       The penthouse was secure, Albina reminded herself as she
       surveyed the girls. All eight of them were there.
       "We should have gone earlier," wailed Jupita
       "Why?"
       "Everything will be gone."
       "The line would be longer."
       "You don't care what you eat cause you eat salad bar."
       "What's wrong with salad bar."
       Jupita snorted.
       "We'll do a pantry run after we eat. I want to see you girls
       bring home some snacks tonight," Albina announced. Shayla shook
       her head. "What kind of snacks can we get?" Nelia asked.
       "Whatever is out there and can go in a plastic bag. Junk food,
       fruit, sliced vegetables, and soda or juice or ice tea."
       "And a lot of the goods in the Junk Food bar are packaged so
       just get them off the shelf. If there's no stool ask for it.
       Short people rule the world."
       "That's what you think," quipped Jupita.  When the group finally
       got in the double doors, Jupita made a bee line for the junk
       food bar before Albina called her back. "Jupita and Tikvah,
       let's pick out tables and put them together." The girls knew the
       routine. "Now no one rush dinner, understand." She glanced over
       all the girls. Tikvah was lost in thought. Dinner was a
       challenge, but she rose to it. That was a good sign, Albina told
       herself, but it did not change the twenty minute call to
       Rockland County on Sunday or that Tikvah had been crestfallen
       afterward or that she had checked her map application in the
       middle of the call. Given the girl's spousal kidnapping in
       April, the emotional phone call and map lookup were cause for
       concern.
       "If she vanishes, I'm going to be blamed," Albina thought. She
       knew that was not just, but she was scr------ed. "After dinner,
       if I'm still up for it, we are going to have to talk."
       Meanwhile, Albina went out to survey the menu. She doubted there
       was much she wanted, but she was a finicky, mature woman. In a
       world of ten year olds, someone in their twenties is mature.
       LBD Dinner 9/2/20
       Main Line
       Ranch Chicken Enchiladas
       Beefy Shepherd's Pie
       Pollock with Red Salsa
       Black Bean Burgers
       Corn
       Brussels Sprouts
       Cold Bar
       Marinated Cole-Slaw
       Canned Peaches
       Fresh Fruit
       Assorted Baked Desserts
       Specialty Station 1
       Pizza by the Slice
       Specialty Station 2
       Cantonese Stir Fry
       Shrimp and Cellophane Noodles
       We hope your week has started well!
       The buns on the black bean burgers would be godawful, thought
       Albina. There were black eyed peas on the salad bar. She could
       have salad with beans and a couple of pieces of bread and
       butter. She'd need energy to help with the pantry run.
       Six of her girls had already beat her back to the table. Suri
       and Tikvah were the last arrivals. Albina noticed chocolate
       sandwich cookies with chocolate fudge filling on her tray. "I
       see you found the junk food bar," Albina started conversation.
       "It's good they have it. I don't always like the desserts.
       Albina, are pork rinds really made from pork?"
       "Yes," she replied. "There's pork lots of places here, but it's
       labeled. Is that a good compromise?"
       Tikvah thought about it "I'm not sure," she answered. "Honesty,"
       thought Albina. "That's the wedge I need."
       During pantry run Rupinder, a small girl with a bowl bob that
       almost reflected blue because it was so dark and shiny, asked
       Albina if it was legal  to take canned peaches on a pantry run.
       "We don't have a container for them," Albina explained.
       "But...you can always buy one."
       "Where?"
       "We can get containers at the Container Store or Walmart in
       White Plains."
       "How much would something like that cost?" asked Jupita
       "Between two and six dollars."
       "You want us to spend our own money," Suri thought aloud.
       "You'll get the container back at the end of the year and can
       reuse it."
       "Do we take the bus to White Plains again?" Suri asked.
       "That's the way we usually get there."
       "Can we go to the bank and other stores too?" asked broad
       shouldered Nelia
       "Certainly."
       "When do we go?" Corianne asked.
       "Sunday afternoon, if you get all your weekend homework done."
       "What if we don't have weekend homework?" Jupita asked.
       "You do free reading or extra math problems." That settled
       matters. That meant a deadline. That meant a child would face
       the truth and sooner rather than later.
       #Post#: 78--------------------------------------------------
       Re: That Other Family Table
   DIR By: StoryGod
       Date: December 27, 2019, 12:02 pm
       ---------------------------------------------------------
       "Corianne, Tikvah, it's your turn to find a table," chirped
       Albina.
       "There's no way out of this," thought Corianne who was still
       jealous of Tikvah's success at mechanical drawing. "If I at
       least knew why or where she learned it, that would be better,"
       Corianne tried to reason with herself. She also imagined
       spending the whole half year until electives switched at the
       drafting table while lucky Tikvah flitted through the machines.
       That would be unbearable.
       "Where do you want to sit?" Tikvah had no idea of Corianne's
       feelings.
       "You pick," Corianne just wanted time to think, but she was not
       getting that time. Tikvah  picked a spot on the other side of
       the dining room from where they usually sat. It was a long trip
       to the beverage bar that was first stop and a longer trip to the
       main line, but for Tikvah all meals were a challenge of
       avoiding what was forbidden, and for Corianne they were a
       challenge of navigating choice. For either of them a few extra
       steps did not matter. For those who simply scarfed down the same
       old same old, that was their problem.
       Once the two tables were pushed together, Tikvah and Corianne
       set off for the beverage bar, and then it was time for the menu
       reading ritual. From there, they would split, Tikvah in search
       of cookies, and Corianne toward whatever looked half way good or
       the salad bar. Of course Tikvah could have a question... Today's
       menu was:
       LBD Lunch 9/3/20
       Main Line
       French Dip Sandwich with Gravy
       Chicken Veggie Kebobs
       Shrimp Sashimi Platter
       Edamame Egg Roll
       Cornell Beets
       Sweet Corn
       Cold Bar
       Bok-Choi Salad
       German Potato Salad
       Apple Sauce
       Fresh Fruit
       Assorted Baked Desserts
       Specialty Station 1
       Pizza by the Slice
       Specialty Station 2
       Mongolian Stir Fry
       Pepper Steak Fried Rice
       Keep up the Good Work!
       Corianne went with the pepper steak fried rice and some bok-choi
       salad and a fresh apple for dessert since most of the pies had
       pudding in them, and it was mostly iced cake or cup cakes. She
       did not have Tikvah's liking for boxed cookies at the junk food
       bar. Tikvah emerged with plain red pizza, milk, and chocolate
       chip cookies.
       "That's not pork is it?" Tikvah asked Corianne.
       "It's beef. Pepper steak is a beef dish."
       "OK..." Tikvah sounded far away. Corianne remembered last night
       Albina had given her a chewing out that made them all come back
       late from the weeknight station party in the penthouse. Tikvah
       had her own troubles. Maybe she deserved all the fun she would
       have in metal shop.
       #Post#: 93--------------------------------------------------
       Re: That Other Family Table
   DIR By: StoryGod
       Date: December 31, 2019, 11:30 am
       ---------------------------------------------------------
       "Tikvah, are you up to eating?" asked, the mora, Albina as they
       climbed the stairs to the dining hall. Tikvah found it a strange
       question, but when she thought about it, she was not hungry. Her
       face hurt a little. She was not sick to her stomach. It was just
       not the time to think about food.
       "Who wants to put the tables together?" Albina called out to the
       girls. Shayla and Jetta volunteered. They selected two tables
       for four near windows with a really good view of the quad.
       Tikvah realized it was time to go get food. No one was going to
       serve her dinner. She had a choice, that was only half a choice,
       in a fancy place that served ice cream.
       In Tikvah's mind's eye, she saw a tree. The branches forked and
       there was no turning back. "If I had run today..." Tikvah began.
       "I'd be in New Square now..." "And then," the memory of Albina's
       voice intruded. She was right, Tikvah concluded. That is why I
       am here, like the guests at the big party in the Book of Esther,
       drinking from the Bais ha Migdash' gold vessels and setting the
       whole horrible, story of Haman in motion, except in this dining
       hall the plates were melmine. There were cookies with hecshers
       on the packages and ice cream novelties in the freezer and
       pizza....
       LBD Dinner 9/6/20
       Main Line
       Beef Tornadoes with Mustard Sauce
       Chicken Breasts Florentine
       Tilapia Francese
       Cabbage Lasanga
       Rosemary Potatoes Duchesse
       Green Beans
       Cold Bar
       Marinated Tomato Medeley
       Creamy Summer Squash Salad
       Canned Apricots
       Fresh Fruit
       Assorted Baked Desserts
       Specialty Station 1
       Burger Bar
       Specialty Station 2
       Extended plant Protein for Salads
       Have a Happy Week!
       "Well that was a blow," thought Tikvah. The pizza had vanished
       on Friday night too. Living on cereal was possible. It was
       hardly a sacrifice when one thought about it. "I wonder what
       Francese is," Corianne's words ended Tikvah's musings.
       "Go ask," it was Corianne's own advice back at her.
       "OK, but lets get something to drink first."
       Tilapia Francese was made with wine which Corianne didn't like,
       and the chicken Florentine was made with spinach which was not
       the Jewish way of making chicken, besides all the chicken at
       Kotiah-Yovanovitch was treif.
       Corianne headed to the extended plant protein bar to make a
       vegetarian salad. Tikvah wondered if cold beans and raw
       vegetables would do it for her dinner. She thought about peanut
       butter and jelly. She walked over to the bread bar and then the
       condiment bar to assemble her sandwich. As with pizza, she
       needed to find a water fountain to wash for bread. Since there
       was no washing sink and she did not have a benscher, she was
       excused from the more complicated forms of grace, or so she
       reasoned.
       Corianne had some sort of cold brown spaghetti with chickpeas,
       cherry tomatoes, green olives, alfalfa sprouts and something
       they called ranch dressing that tasted an awful lot like
       mayonnaise. "You're eating hair," Suri said to Corianne as they
       settled into place.
       "You're eating dead cow!" Corianne replied.
       "Ladies," Albina intervened. She was trying to set up a night
       when they could all do laundry and wash their bed linen. She
       cared about the suite staying clean. Tikvah took  a bite of her
       peanut butter and strawberry preserves sandwich on raisin
       cinnamon bread. There was a lump in her throat when she tried to
       swallow. She really did not care about laundry.
       "We have metal shop tomorrow," Corianne reminded Tikvah.
       Tikvah remembered she would probably graduate from doing
       mechanical drawings to actually making something this week.
       She'd have three classes to do it. Soon Corianne would graduate
       too. The only question was what to make, and that was a lot more
       interesting than discussing laundry.
       Tikvah wondered what the bochur would have thought of the metal
       shop. Her father might find it interesting. He might ask his
       daughter if she considered making things out of metal women's
       work. She would reply that you could make jewelry and
       decorations. Down the hall both boys and girls worked fixing
       cars and motorcycles. There was nothing unJewish about learning
       to make stuff. That much Tikvah was sure about. Metal shop would
       not saw up or drill away Yiddishkeit.
       "What do you think I should do for my first project in metal
       shop?" Tikvah asked Corianne.
       "I don't know, probably some kind of decoration or a piece of
       jewelry."
       "If my mom were nicer, I'd make her jewelry."
       "Why not make jewelry for your dad."
       "Jewish men don't wear jewelry."
       "What about cuff links?"
       "What are those.  Jewelry men use instead of buttons to hold
       their sleeves together. They also wear class rings and lapel
       pins and tie tacks and bars. I've seen it. Does your Dad wear a
       tie to shul."
       "To shul and when he works, but jewelry is for women."
       "Women don't wear ties."
       "You have a point," Tikvah replied. "And every time someone asks
       Dad about his tie pin, he'll say his daughter made it. He'll
       have to tell the world he has a daughter he loves. Everyone will
       know that I can see my father," she thought. "Yes..." She took
       another bite of her peanut butter and strawberry preserve
       sandwich and felt profound relief.
       "Want to do stations after dinner?" Albina asked the table.
       "I'll staff Concetration and Chinese Jump Rope for the first
       half."
       Tikvah saw her suite mates smile. She could always read her book
       on light. The bochur would like that book for its pictures, but
       he probably did not read English well enough to understand it.
       He also would not understand the math. Tikvah only half
       understood it. She had had to ask Albina how to read powers and
       exponents. They had not yet had them even in enrichment math.
       Tikvah thought some more about the bochur. He was learned where
       it counted, but she already knew more general studies than he
       did, and yes women needed general studies to support husbands,
       brothers, and sons who learned. Tikvah wondered if she wold
       support someone like the bochur someday and something inside her
       recoiled. He was not the least bit cute, and he really needed to
       do something about his acne. Tikvah guessed he probably smelled
       awful. Her own father smelled of deodorant. Tikvah wondered if
       she could ask a husband she supported to see a dermatologist,
       wear clean clothes, bathe, and deodorize. She would ask her
       father that in private when she saw him next time.
       #Post#: 103--------------------------------------------------
       Re: That Other Family Table
   DIR By: StoryGod
       Date: January 4, 2020, 7:04 pm
       ---------------------------------------------------------
       Albina, the mora (She was in mora mode again), took everyone
       back to Al-Sigh 11B for a half hour or more of homework. "We
       either use this time productively or we wait in line." Put that
       way, homework was better, though Tikvah would have rather read
       her light book. She understood a bit about the very large and
       very small units used to measure electromagnetic radiation now
       and so understood what she was reading a lot better. Being in
       enrichment math paid off, but Tikvah knew she could not get away
       with free reading.
       Since her English story, like most short stories one had to read
       for English was just plain awful, and not particularly relatable
       when one came down to it, she decided to work on enrichment math
       which did not take part in the school's craze for word problems,
       ratios, unit conversions and other practical math. Enrichment
       math started off with set theory/symbolic logic. It required
       concentration because the more complicated problems (nested with
       parentheses) could get tricky. Corianne worked on her geography
       as the girls sat next to one another in a corner of the lounge.
       Tikvah felt bad when she had to go to dinner. Working on math
       was a nice flow that took her away from the low grade spiritual
       conflict she had fought daily for the past fifteen months in the
       "secular world." It was not the "modern world." Everywhere was
       both old fashioned and modern when one thought of it. Tikvah now
       remembered that if she had not been such a coward yesterday, she
       could have returned to New Square. All she would have had to do
       was run, jump into her Dad's car...and....
       "You know what would have happened," Tikvah told herself, as her
       stomach knotted up with memory. "There is only so much a kid can
       take," she decided, but the good mood from working on set theory
       had evaporated, leaving a piece of dark, smelly, crud in its
       wake. Worse yet, it was Tikvah and Corianne's job to find and
       set up the tables. This was supposed to feel like family dinner,
       but no family had a big restaurant menu.
       LBD Dinner 9/7/20
       Main Line
       Ham Tetrazinni
       Chicken Breasts Divan
       Crab Croquettes
       Broccoli Quiche
       Wax Beans
       Yale Beets
       Cold Bar
       Potato and Egg Salad
       Carrot Apricot Salad
       Canned Pineapple
       Fresh Fruit
       Assorted Baked Desserts
       Specialty Station 1
       Burger Bar
       Specialty Station 2
       Extended plant Protein for Salads
       Welcome to a New Week!
       And no mother who served pizza for dinner would take it away
       either. Of course there was peanut butter and fruit preserves,
       and plenty of cereal. Quiche was probably meatless. Ham came
       from pigs, and crab was... "Why is every meal a mine field!"
       "Weird," Corianne said of the menu.
       "What are you going to get."
       "Maybe the quiche. It's vegetarian."
       "But pie crust."
       "Why should that be different from pizza?"
       "No reason," Tikvah offered and she stood in the line with
       Corianne who in the end did not want the quiche either but got
       the wax beans and beets, neither of which Tikvah wanted or would
       have stood in line for. Corianne could eat off the cold bar and
       salad bar. She fixed herself chick pea, cherry tomato, and green
       olive salad with ranch dressing and also got a small bowl of
       potato and egg salad. Tikvah had peanut butter and strawberry
       preserves, which really wasn't so bad, three oreos, and lettuce
       with Thousand Island dressing and a few cherry tomatoes.
       Corianne was a hog for cherry tomatoes, when you thought of it.
       No one complained though. "They'll always put out new ones,"
       Corianne told Tikvah as they arrived last at the table. "We
       chickened out at the hot line," Corianne explained.
       "I don't blame you," sighed Jupita. "You should have gotten a
       burger."
       "Corianne wants to cut the cheese," commented Suri.
       "Where did that come from?" asked Albina who was caught flat
       footed.
       "Chick peas. They make you..." Suri caught herself. This was
       after all a table with a Suite Advisor.
       "That's disgusting," commented Rupinder.
       "You're right," Suri answered "Chick peas are disgusting."
       "So are those ready made hamburgers," Corianne responded.
       "So what do you want sirloin?" asked Suri
       "How about sausage or chorizo."
       "Isn't that pork?" Suri
       "I'm not vegetarian or kosher. I just like vegetarian food
       better than meat sometimes."
       "Weird."
       "And who are you to judge," the Suite Advisor awakened.
       "Some things are just weird," Suri pressed her luck.
       "I think eating hamburgers day after day is weird."
       "No you don't."
       "Look at what's on my plate Suri" Albina tipped her plate up.
       She had something that was brown on the outside and white on the
       inside set on top of zucchini, shredded carrots, black olives
       and raw mushrooms.
       "I don't know what that is," Suri was honest.
       "Baked tofu," replied Corianne.
       "Toe food."
       "Excuse me."
       "I'm sorry."
       "You're not. Tell me back home did everybody eat the same food
       and like the same food?"
       Suri had no answer. For Tikvah, the answer had been yes which
       was what made the cafeteria so daunting in a low level day after
       day stressful way.
       "Alright," Albina continued the lecture that had been coming
       since yesterday "Then it's the same way here. You have kids from
       all different backgrounds and all over the world."
       "Yeah but who eats beans for lunch and dinner?" asked Suri.
       "Someone who doesn't like what's on the hot line."
       "Then you get a burger."
       "Or a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, or cereal, or vegetarian
       salad. How many entrees does that make if we just look at broad
       categories." Albina really sounded like a mora now, but a high
       and mighty mora, maybe a rav.
       "You can add in the hot line to get a total," Albina added.
       "That's eight choices," offered Jupita. "It's a lot more because
       you can have different side dishes and desserts and drinks."
       "OK, Suri why do you think the dining hall staff serves eight
       choices at lunch and dinner."
       "Because some kids are weird."
       "And would you want us weird kids to starve?" Tikvah dove into
       the fray.
       Suri blinked. "You at least have cookies for dessert and
       you're... OK, but don't make me eat beans, or fish, or hair, or
       toe food."
       "Who would make you eat hair?" Tikvah was baffled.
       "She means alfalfa sprouts," Corianne explained. "They look like
       hair."
       "But hair is brain food," Suri sing-songed.
       "I thought fish was brain food," Albina picked up on the mood.
       "That was in the old days," Suri explained.
       "Well no one will make you eat anything you don't like but on
       Friday, the burgers disappear."
       "Just like the pizza," thought Tikvah.
       "That will be pretty bad," Suri realized aloud.
       "Maybe something else good will come along."
       "Like the toe food."
       "Yeah or maybe the pizza will come back."
       #Post#: 119--------------------------------------------------
       Re: That Other Family Table
   DIR By: StoryGod
       Date: January 8, 2020, 4:49 pm
       ---------------------------------------------------------
       Corianne decided the best defense was a good offense. "How was
       social studies Suri?" she asked.
       "It sucked," Suri replied. "And how's Team Project?"
       "Useful," Corianne answered liking the one word reply that
       wasn't either good or bad.
       "Tikvah was off by herself yesterday," Suri explained.
       "I have an indepndent," Tikvah boased. "I'm learning about
       angles. It's just arithmetic but it's fancy."
       "Math just sucks," commented Suri replied.
       "So does kick ball," Tikvah replied.
       "It's better than Beginner Aquatics. How's the water?"
       "I wasn't in the water today. I had metal shop," Tikvah reminded
       Suri.
       "Shit, it's not a gym day for you is it?"
       The line began to move. It moved four places and then stopped.
       "They'll be out of food by the time we get in," Suri complained.
       "But I'm sure there will be plenty of toe food."
       "Can't you even pronounce it right?" Corianne asked.
       "You know you girls are annoying," a nearly adult boy refused to
       mind his own business.
       "Ever hear of Clearasil or Clinique?" Suri asked the boy who had
       interrupted her polite conversation.
       "Isn't that makeup," clueless, nearly adult boy responded.
       "It's for zits. I hear when they serve pizza again, they're
       going to make it out of your face," Suri told the boy. "And you
       should shave. I can see your beard hairs and they're
       disgusting."
       "I didn't know they let brats into this school."
       "They let in assholes." Suri rocked on her heels.
       "They surely do," nearly adult boy answered.
       "Takes one to know one," Corianne piled on. Then the line had to
       move. They managed to get all the way to the top of the stairs.
       For a brief second, the dining hall door opened and a Suite
       Advisor poked out his face. He looked worried.
       "Could there be a riot or a food fight like in that movie that I
       can't remember?" thought Corianne.
       A few seconds later Ms. Albina, the  Suite Advisor, sauntered
       out. She mouthed numbers but did not say anything. "Are they out
       of food?" asked Corianne.
       "Not yet," Ms. Albina replied. "And it would only be a few
       things."
       "Burgers...boogers...burgers," Corianne let the "some things"
       dance in her mind. Some adult somewhere had said that revenge
       was a dish best served cold.
       #Post#: 120--------------------------------------------------
       Re: That Other Family Table I
   DIR By: StoryGod
       Date: January 9, 2020, 4:23 pm
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       "This is the first weekend with a lot of visitation," Albina
       chirped as Nelia and Lianne pushed together the tables and the
       other girls stood around supervising. That means two of you
       can't vote for activities because you'll be with your parents
       all day Saturday and Sunday. Corianne wondered who the lucky
       girls were. She knew it was not her roommate, because her father
       only had supervised visitation, due to a really, ugly divorce,
       the kind that would have made Corianne's mother's hairs stand on
       end.
       "What about me?" asked Tikvah.
       "Your father is coming to station party around 9pm on Saturday
       night, so you can still vote."
       "Is that fair?" Lianne a short girl with curly brown hair cut
       fairly short, but grown out full asked.
       "It is because you won't be here to do the activities," replied
       Albina. "So start thinking activities while you get supper.
       We'll discuss and vote over our food."
       LBD Dinner 9/11/20
       Main Line
       Irish Stew
       Tomato Basil Chicken
       Pacific Cod Supremes
       Chili Relenos
       White Rice
       Lima Beans
       Cold Bar
       Spinach Raisin Salad
       Carrot Money Salad
       Canned Pineapple
       Fresh Fruit
       Assorted Baked Desserts
       Specialty Station 1 -- Quick Bread Bar
       Dill and Cheddar Bread
       Banana Bread
       Specialty Station 2 -- Deep Fried Delites
       Mozzarella Sticks
       Fried Okra
       T.G.I.F.!!!!
       Tikvah decided the last line of the menu on the easel was a
       chilul HaShem. Still Friday was the end of the school and work
       week, which was why Albina had made them all fetch the pantry
       box after doing homework in the lounge.
       As for the menu itself, she could deduce that Irish stew was
       made with red meat, either beef or pork. Cod was a fish, and
       chicken was poultry, so Chili Relenos was meatless and probably
       spicy. Quick breads were bread, so they might be OK.
       "Your beans are gone," Tikvah told Corianne.
       "They're still on the salad bar, just no more tofu."
       "What are you going to get?"
       "Cod Supremes." It was an easy answer. Tikvah envied Corianne as
       she slunk off to make a peanut butter and strawberry preserve
       sandwich. She checked the junk food bar and found oreos with
       coffee filling among the endless varieties of boxed and bagged
       snacks on the high shelf accessible with a thoughtfully placed
       step stool. She got her milk and headed to the mora Albina's
       table. Corianne had cod supremes, rice, lima beans, some kind of
       carrot salad from the cold bar, a peace of peach pie and a tall
       glass of brown soda. Tikvah had extra cookies to make up for the
       lack of side dishes. "A good mother supplies cookies," she told
       herself. "A good mother also cares what her kids eat," she added
       mentally.
       Albina was a mora, not a mother. At the moment the Suite Advisor
       was holding forth on how parental visitation worked and how you
       had to set up the app to allow it. You still had to have your
       phone with you. None of this of course applied to Tikvah unless
       her mother arrived on campus and wanted to take her somewhere,
       but where.... Her mother had not mentioned coming to visit in
       two weeks, and this was going to be her father's second visit in
       a week. Tikvah wondered if her mother had washed her hands of
       her.
       The only consolation (And yes that was a wonderful word) was
       that Corianne's parents did not visit either. Corianne's mother
       was in the United Arab Emirates and her father was in Indiana.
       That was too far to drive more than a couple of times a year,
       and flying was expensive. Corianne was just unlucky, Tikvah
       decided, as she pushed thoughts of her mother out of her head.
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