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       PARENT AND CHILDREN PART 2
       By: Captshittu Date: August 14, 2017, 5:51 pm
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       [font=times new roman]PARENT AND CHILDREN PART 2[/font]
       BismilLaahir Rahmaanir Raheem
       Let's continue from the first Reminder. When Allah talks about
       enemity, HE didn’t combine wealth and children, he combined
       women and children. Allah says amongst your wives and children,
       are enemies on to you. Ibn Katheer says they may divert a man to
       disobey his Lord. Too much love for your wife and children can
       cause you to disobey Allah. When the wife is an enemy, she’ll
       make the children hate the father. Because of the power of
       motherhood. Allah says beware of them. Why would Allah say we
       should be aware of our wives and children? Some embraced Islam
       in mecca and wanted to do hijra to Medina but their wives and
       children blackmailed them emotionally and spiritually. They’ll
       say, if you go, you won’t know your son, etc. When they later
       joined the prophet, they found that those that came earlier were
       more knowledgeable. And so they went back home to admonish their
       wife and children. They’ll say the baby will not know his
       father, and I will not know you and you’ll be away for so long,
       etc. but Allah says if you pardon your wives and children and if
       you forgive, verily Allah is oft forgiving most merciful.
       Meaning that wife and children can trick you with emotional
       blackmail. Allah says amongst them meaning not all of them.
       Amongst them are enemies to you.  Are children as fitna or trial
       to you. Allah says I’ll try you with good and evil as trials.
       Quran Ch 31 v 35. Allah didn’t say amongst your wealth and
       children are fitna, he said indeed, in your wealth and children
       are fitna. If they’re good to you, their being good is fitna nd
       if they’re bad for you, they’re being bad to you is a trial. So
       you can be tried whether you’re a good person or bad person. In
       fact, if you’re a good person, Allah can try you more than
       someone that’s bad. Allah says a person is tried based on the
       level of his religiosity.
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