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       PARENT AND CHILDREN
       By: A Muslim Date: August 14, 2017, 5:33 pm
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       [font=times new roman]PARENT AND CHILDREN[/font]
       BismilLaahir Rahmaanir Raheem
       Please note that Not having a child isn’t a deficienciency
       otherwise our beloved prophet sallallahu​ alaihi wasallam
       wouldn't have had children with our mother Aishah may Allah be
       pleased with her. And Zakariah wouldn’t have waited for so long
       to have a child. And having a child does not make you better
       than anyone. Allah even mentions wealth because it means that
       its not by your making that you have wealth. The same way its
       not by your making that you have children. Allah says All rest
       with Allah. Its neither wealth or children that will qualify you
       to be closer to Allah. And I want you to notice something. Allah
       combines wealth and children to make you understand that its not
       about working hard or trying hard. Some think its because they
       have high potential and that’s why they have children. In other
       words, its all in Allah ‘s hands. Allah says he’s all knowing
       and he’s able to do all things. A person will use drugs for
       abortion and the child will refuse to go. Those are stubborn
       children. Some of the doctors will say if we do this, you will
       die and she’ll be forced to have the child. Some will just cough
       and have an abortion. And they want the baby so badly. There are
       about 5 types of children and then we’ll talk about types of
       parents. 1. Children as distraction. Allah says “do not let your
       properties or children or wealth divert you from the
       rememberance of Allah and whoever does that then they’re all
       loosers. Allah says beware of them. Some of your wealth and
       children are distracters. Some get wealthy and forget Allah and
       some have children and forget Allah. This is a very bad wealth
       that someone can have. Didn’t you see that someone that’s blind
       says if I had eyes, I’ll be reading quran everyday. You and I
       that have eyes, are we reading the quran everyday. Those gifts
       we have are distracting us from Allah. Some will say if I could
       hear, I’ll be listening to Quran from morning to night. You and
       I that have ears, do we listen to quran. A poor person would say
       Allah if I were to be rich, I’ll do this and that. This person
       has children and none of them know how to read quran. Some
       children are distractions on their own. Some are wealthy and
       spend it in the path of Allah.
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