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       How to inspire manners in your children
       By: Captshittu Date: August 8, 2017, 9:04 am
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       [font=arial black]How to inspire manners in your children[/font]
       1. When entering the house greet your children or even hug them.
       This should help develop their sense of love and self worth.
       2. Be good to your neighbours and never backbite. Never speak
       ill of other drivers when on the road. Your children listen,
       absorb and emulate.
       3. When calling your parents, encourage your children to speak
       to them. When visiting your parents take your children with you.
       The more they see you take care of your parents the more they
       will learn to take care of you.
       4. When driving them say to school, don't always play albums or
       cds. Rather, tell them the stories yourself. This will have a
       greater impact - trust me!
       5. Read to them a short story and  even a scripture a day – it
       doesn't take much time, but very impactful in creating strong
       bonds and wonderful memories.
       6. Comb your hair, clean your teeth and wear presentable cloths
       even if sitting at home and not going out for the day. They need
       to learn that being clean and tidy has nothing to do with going
       out!
       7. Try not to blame or comment on every word or action they say
       or do. Learn to overlook and let go sometimes. This certainly
       builds their self-confidence.
       8. Ask your children's permission before entering their rooms.
       Don't just knock and enter, but then wait for a verbal
       permission. They will learn to do the same when wanting to enter
       your room.
       9. Apologize to your children if you made a mistake. Apologizing
       teaches them to be humble and polite.
       10. Don't be sarcastic or make fun of their views or feelings,
       even if you "didn't mean it" and was "only joking". It really
       hurts.
       11. Show respect to your children's privacy. Its important for
       their sense of value and self-esteem.
       12. Don't expect that they will listen or understand the first
       time. Don't take it personally. But be patient and consistent.
       13.Pray with them. Show them how to pray. Lead by example.
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