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       #Post#: 20281--------------------------------------------------
       The Illusion of Choice
   DIR By: Qwakey
       Date: May 3, 2016, 10:56 pm
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       Hey Jed,
       I have been on the awakening path for some time now and have
       surrendered the idea of a separate self completely. However, I
       have been stuck on the issue of free will for some time. It just
       doesn't make sense. For example, you write on the forum that a
       seeker should avoid the distractions of sex, drugs, and
       chocolate. That seems fine in of itself, but it directly
       contradicts your assertion that there is no one who has free
       will or even exists! If there is no one who has free will, how
       can one be seen to have the choice between distracting
       themselves or not? And who is distracting who? If there is no
       one in truth, then such issues as distraction don't arise. The
       reason I bring up distraction is because it is very relevant to
       my "journey". I love smoking weed, but I don't know if its
       distracting me from truth. Obviously, truth comes first and I
       would give up weed in a heartbeat if needed. But if I don't
       exist, how can I give it up? Should I give it up? How do I
       reconcile all this with the truth of no-self and no free will?
       I'm debating whether to give up weed like I have a choice, and
       it seems like I have a choice, but do I really?  ??? ??? ???
       Very confused,
       Don't know who I am
       #Post#: 20286--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Illusion of Choice
   DIR By: Jed McKenna
       Date: May 4, 2016, 12:13 am
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       Dear Q:
       I don't recall saying avoid sex, drugs and chocolate. I may have
       said that they are avoidance strategies/tools, but don't recall
       saying avoid them.  It's a good idea to avoid avoidance though.
       But stop for a moment... that's not really important. What is
       really important is you should NOT give up smoking weed. You
       should smoke all the weed you can get and more. Smoke it until
       you feel like you have been tied to the blades of a helicopter
       that's hovering over Everest. You know that you don't want to
       quit it so why bother. Smoke you ass off. Who cares?
       In between smoking you should indulge in all the sex, drugs and
       chocolate you can get you mitts on.
       Please don't laugh at this, it's a serious matter and I am not
       joking. It's deadly serious.
       Love ya, Jed.
       #Post#: 20291--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Illusion of Choice
   DIR By: Qwakey
       Date: May 4, 2016, 12:43 am
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       Wow... not the advice I was expecting...   :o :o  Is the reason
       I should keep smoking weed because quitting wouldn't be a real
       decision? I would still mentally want to smoke if I quit now so
       I should just smoke, smoke, and smoke some more until I'm all
       smoked out and genuinely don't want to anymore?  Is that what
       you're getting at Jed? I do have the sense that eventually I
       won't find weed enjoyable anymore. It has become less and less
       pleasurable lately.
       btw still don't know how I could choose to smoke or not smoke if
       I don't exist...  :-\
       #Post#: 20295--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Illusion of Choice
   DIR By: Jed McKenna
       Date: May 4, 2016, 1:28 am
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       When it's time to quit, if ever, it will come on it's own. All
       your efforting will backfire. So, screw it, be the world's best
       stoner. Don't every think about quiting. Try choosing to smoke
       like the current bush fires in Northern Alberta. It's mostly
       weed burning up there anyways.
       CHOOSE TO SMOKE... Bob wants you to, Trudeau would want you to,
       I want you to, you want you to... don't pussy foot around, get
       good and f-ed up.No time like the present, pass that bong.
       (interesting ''bong'' in Cambodian means ''brother''). Your bong
       is your brother.
       Love ya, Jed.
       #Post#: 20300--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Illusion of Choice
   DIR By: Qwakey
       Date: May 4, 2016, 1:54 am
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       sounds like a plan Jed 8)  As Bob said: Dont worry, be happy
       man!
       #Post#: 20301--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Illusion of Choice
   DIR By: Jed McKenna
       Date: May 4, 2016, 2:00 am
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       Yah mannnn.... I can dig it.. be cool now.
       Write me at cambodianashram@gmail.com and put ''Give me link''.
       I'll send you a special song that I grew up on... well, I failed
       to grow up but had a lot of fun listening to it. I think you
       might like it.
       Love ya, Jed.
       #Post#: 20303--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Illusion of Choice
   DIR By: Qwakey
       Date: May 4, 2016, 2:07 am
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       done  :D
       #Post#: 20311--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Illusion of Choice
   DIR By: Qwakey
       Date: May 4, 2016, 2:24 pm
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       so here's where I'm at right now Jed: the body/mind organism
       that I think I am occurs in unchanging, eternal Consciousness,
       which is all there is. To use an analogy, the body/mind is like
       a flute that the musician (Consciousness) plays. The problem
       occurs when the flute thinks that it is the one who makes the
       music. The flute tries to control and artificially alter the
       music because it thinks that it is the composer. But it's really
       the musician who is blowing the flute, the flute has no control
       at all! So the flute is the instrument that the musician uses to
       make the wonderful symphony of life and the flute can't do
       anything except be played by the musician and enjoy the show.
       The flute thinks that it can choose things, but it's really the
       musician all along. Does this analogy make sense Jed?
       #Post#: 20321--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Illusion of Choice
   DIR By: Jed McKenna
       Date: May 4, 2016, 9:29 pm
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       ... to me... yup..
       Love ya, Jed.
       #Post#: 20322--------------------------------------------------
       Re: The Illusion of Choice
   DIR By: Qwakey
       Date: May 4, 2016, 10:49 pm
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       Jed I know that you're not consistent in any way (hobgoblin of
       little minds and all that) and I shouldn't take anything you say
       seriously, but is there a reason that  you told me that I should
       keep smoking weed? You've told many people on the forum to stop
       smoking weed.
       --- Quote ---
       > Get off the dope, it ain't called ''smart''.
       --- End Quote ---
       seems to be one of your favorite quotes... so kind of
       confused... I honestly thought you would tell me to stop
       smoking. I kind of know I'm going to stop soon, it's just a
       matter of when. It doesn't feel right anymore. I'm probably
       reading way to into this but I would appreciate a straight
       answer Jed...
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