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       Gayathry
   DIR By: bree
       Date: January 18, 2016, 11:36 am
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       Hi Jed,
       I'm not new to the forum :)
       I was not going to post on the forum. It won't really matter
       whether I post or not. But I have to say that I feel normal. Not
       that I fit in but just one , really ordinary person.Before I had
       a staggering picture of looking like a great person ( or what I
       thought was great), fame, be recognised etc.etc. No more. I
       don't energise that picture anymore. Literally stopped investing
       my energy into those pursuits.
       I stopped trying to defend myself. I simply go with the flow.
       Whatever happens let that happen. I'm open to anything.
       While I wonder if I would be ever able to emotionally defend
       something, I'm not sure. Will I ever gain trust of someone , not
       sure of that either.
       So this "Not sure" phase is currently going on. I'm not capable
       of following an abstract thought as of now. But I can carry out
       a little focus and do things here and there. It's not my
       personal "most" aware / "most" feared stage as of now, but I
       still have more thinking to do.
       Thought I would tell you that with a thanks :)
       Gayathry
       #Post#: 17476--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Gayathry
   DIR By: Jed McKenna
       Date: January 19, 2016, 12:59 am
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       Dear G:
       Thanks for sharing and welcome to the forum... one point.. you
       don't have more thinking to do, you have less thinking to do.
       '
       Love ya, Jed
       #Post#: 17491--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Gayathry
   DIR By: bree
       Date: January 19, 2016, 3:38 am
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       What happens if I don't think ?
       Might have to accept whatever that comes around, whatever that
       falls in the lap. Things don't come without a reason. But if I
       have to choose something, may be I should have enough
       information to make a wise choice right ?
       No. I'm afraid to live. I'm just afraid of making bad choices.
       #Post#: 17492--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Gayathry
   DIR By: Jed McKenna
       Date: January 19, 2016, 4:10 am
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       Stop think for a half hour and find out what will happen. Really
       do it, don't think about it.
       Love ya, Jed.
       #Post#: 17500--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Gayathry
   DIR By: bree
       Date: January 19, 2016, 8:12 am
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       It feels like a party . Feeling and Feeling  :)
       #Post#: 17501--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Gayathry
   DIR By: Jed McKenna
       Date: January 19, 2016, 8:31 am
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       Stick with it as long as you can.
       Cheers, Jed.
       #Post#: 17513--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Gayathry
   DIR By: bree
       Date: January 19, 2016, 3:14 pm
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       Dear Jed,
       Thanks for the little advice. That had helped me calm down.
       I feel that if I think again , I might go nuts. This I am sure.
       Endlessly I've compared my brains to others. I've always made
       myself feel like a failure. Fed the body the unpleasant
       feelings. As a result , I'm with a BMI 34, weighing 30 kilos
       over my recommended weight. I don't know what kills than a
       guilt.
       I'm cool now. Ill keep up with not to thinking thing.
       Thanks Jed , Love you
       Gayathry ;D
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       Re: Gayathry
   DIR By: bree
       Date: January 19, 2016, 3:28 pm
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       Just a memory/rant , you can ignore
       I've  taken spirituality seriously since I was a kid. Thought it
       would give me super powers to make more friends or just get
       people interested in me. My parents told me stories , and being
       from an orthodox religious Hindu family, scriptures were held in
       high regard. I always looked up to great teachers, people ,
       yogis who were bold ~ played with snakes, did things out of
       courage which normal people would otherwise not do. Mentally if
       I become like them , perhaps I might prove a point to all those
       who ignored or eliminated me, if I achieved big things or rescue
       the dying clan or take up a big crusade and make it heard. . A
       mission is waiting beyond, I have to shoulder a responsibility,
       I am important , and all that .. .
       I turned 16 , I changed my school , people who are equally or
       perhaps better endowed posed a great threat to my beliefs. But I
       love them because it is true , hate them because they are a
       threat. I'm drawn to challenges , hard situations since then ,
       but I also hate them. So , easy way ? Just talk about the
       challenging situations , like a good talker , but stay safe and
       let others tread before you. I am very very precious remember
       ... Since then , I've been thinking more and Acting less. I
       don't like to feel the uncomfortable , lonely and ignored..
       Rest ... feel and refresh .. Love you Jed
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       Re: Gayathry
   DIR By: bree
       Date: January 19, 2016, 11:43 pm
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       All those memories are stories. It has shaped my role on the
       planet. They are utterly useless . They don't even sell. I'm the
       only person who knows that.
       Feeling much better ....Because I'm feeling more than I think.
       #Post#: 17530--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Gayathry
   DIR By: bree
       Date: January 20, 2016, 4:43 am
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       More rant , ignore
       Those stories really don't matter at all. Baby I'm revolting
       against my surroundings. I really detest the fact that I am
       being raised to f*** and raise children !
       Matrimony or not ? At max what would happen ? The place where I
       live , probably I might have to earn my freedom. Freedom from
       Pussy cats.
       What ? Don't I have a better something to do ? Have some self
       respect ? Why others dominate my dream so much ?
       I'm ignoring and simply going with the flow. I'm a failure
       because I didn't adhere to the definition . That's convincing ,
       but this time I'm comfortably stuck.
       It won't make any sense. I'm not going to sleep anymore . I'll
       wake up ..
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