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       Simultaneously lost and found
       By: Meno Date: July 11, 2020, 10:00 am
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       Hi Jed
       I think I need to write; I am lost but totally know where I am.
       I have a desire to find out more, but what more is there to find
       out? Nothing I read anymore (spiritual stuff) captures my
       interest, or at least that I have tried, I am bored of hearing
       the same stuff, really bored and restless and I know what I need
       to do but I can't seem to do it. I don't know how to.
       The bubble burst for me about 6 years ago - thank **** It has
       been a desperate quest since I was a very young child. Life now,
       whatever that is (in the dreamworld), is pretty good (it rarely
       has been). Mostly I am pretty happy. When I am not, it is still
       fine and it passes quickly. But I can't see any signposts
       anymore. There is nothing telling me where to go - there always
       has been; even when I've felt totally isolated in a deep dark
       space, that is where I was at least. I have tried to rejoin and
       embrace the dream/ego, what else is there to do? Much as I think
       I would like to live in a cave I can't, I have older children, a
       perfect partner and a pretty enjoyable job. Is it really better
       in a cave? At least I would not have to deal with this mad world
       which is a massive bonus. I feel ready to die (not in a bad way)
       but is this really it? Like really, is this really it? How do I
       live in this dreamworld in a compatible way? There is nowhere
       else to go anymore and I don't even feel compelled to 'make the
       most of it' if I was told I had 6 months to live. It sounds
       hugely ungrateful but this is where I am at.
       Thanks for allowing me to do this - I'm sure it will be valuable
       even if it isn't  :)
       #Post#: 41901--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Simultaneously lost and found
       By: Jed McKenna Date: July 11, 2020, 10:50 am
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       Hi Meno:
       This human dream comes with infinite facets. Some are good and
       some bad, and that doesn't matter one single bit to anybody,
       other than a 'mind'. You, and everyone else, makes up meaning,
       we are 'meaning making machines'.... and we LOVE our
       machinations... and in our hearts we too don't give a tinker's
       damn about such dogma. In our hearts we are 'nature' and she
       let's it all happen as it happens, sans meaning. That's as close
       as anyone one can get to real love... by releasing all
       meaning... letting everything appear as it does.
       Sit down, take a deep breath and look around you, the idiocy is
       monumental and hilarious, acts of kindness are are rare but if
       you look, they are everywhere, disease ravages the world but you
       sound healthy as a horse.... nothing is as it seems and it seems
       we cannot understand nothing, we have to think we know something
       in order to move forward on anything while, in Truth, everything
       is coming to us... and if you think you are confused you think
       you are lost when the truth is you are very close to all
       answers.
       Be happy, be sad, be loving, be not-so-loving, don't think that
       anything matters to anyone/thing other than your mind. You still
       think you and what you are experiencing is important in some
       way. Nature doesn't care, so give me a hundred reasons why you
       should. Seriously.
       Do not think you understand what I am saying... that's just more
       thinking.
       Do you have the Full Body Breathing tape?
       Love ya and stay healthy,
       Jed.
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       Re: Simultaneously lost and found
       By: Meno Date: July 11, 2020, 12:17 pm
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       Thank you Jed - so many gems in there.
       Yes I do seem to think that my experiences are important in some
       way - the thought of them not being important is particularly
       enticing so I will try and 'be' with that, without thinking too
       much and trying to find meaning. I am out of touch with
       everything being meaningless; I've forgotten this in my day to
       day experience and am relatively detached from my heart.
       I do a breathing exercise (and breath holding) most days but
       haven't for a couple of weeks so....  I do not have your 'Full
       Body Breathing tape' but I am hoping you are going to send me an
       old fashioned cassette from the 90's, or 80's even - just
       kidding ;)
       Just one thing.... you said "....the truth is that you are very
       close to all the answers"  Are there actually any answers?
       How can there be?
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       Re: Simultaneously lost and found
       By: Jed McKenna Date: July 11, 2020, 11:38 pm
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       Hi Meno:
       You are brilliant, you raise a most important point. The mind
       want's answers and there is only one 'true' answer, and it is
       rather obvious, 'There is no answer'. There is a mystery though,
       and that mystery is best just left alone and accepted. As the
       song says ''Let it be, let it be''.
       You Full Body Breathing tape is on the way, an eight-track in
       the saddle bag of a Wells Fargo rider. I hear they are more
       reliable than their name sake bank... but that's just
       speculation. If you don't have an eight-track player I can loan
       you my old Volvo... that one still works (the player, not the
       Volvo).
       If you don't receive it by yesterday, please write me at
       cambodianashram@gmail.com.
       Take care and chill well.
       Love ya, Jed
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       Re: Simultaneously lost and found
       By: Meno Date: July 12, 2020, 10:35 am
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       Ha!  ;D Nothing would make me happier than receiving a breathing
       tape from a Wells Fargo rider (had to look that up  :-[)  I can
       imagine them pulling on their reins and grinding to a dramatic
       halt outside my little house whilst they dispatched the goods.
       I would then invite them in for tea (I'm English) and ask them
       about their crazy adventures and enquire as to how they crossed
       the Atlantic Ocean on a horse. Then your old Volvo would
       magically appear on my driveway and I would sit in it and
       breathe whilst listening to the tape - not bad for a Sunday; oh
       no it was yesterday, so Saturday.
       So I have been 'chilling well' today - reading a great book and
       intermittently reminding myself that there is no answer; I had
       forgotten; or my mind had. What a relief. There is no mystery
       today but when it comes I hope to welcome and delight in it.
       After all if we knew everything it would all be a bit boring.
       Thank you.
       #Post#: 41911--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Simultaneously lost and found
       By: Jed McKenna Date: July 13, 2020, 2:11 am
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       Send to Full  Body Breath  tape and some Chi Kung tapes that I
       follow and get value from.
       Let me know how  it goes.
       Love ya and stay well.
       Jed.
       #Post#: 41925--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Simultaneously lost and found
       By: Meno Date: July 15, 2020, 4:20 am
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       Hi Jed
       Thanks again for the tapes - much appreciated!
       In Mod One, when writing a list of things we want in life,
       should we include things that we already have? As these things
       may at any minute disappear of course (but they are still
       desired) .... or do we stick to things that we haven't got? It
       made me realise that at the moment, I have what I most desire
       but if it went then things might go a bit belly up. But there
       are of course a few other things that I still desire.... which I
       can list too.
       Sorry if I'm overthinking  ??? !
       Thanks as always  :)
       #Post#: 41931--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Simultaneously lost and found
       By: Jed McKenna Date: July 15, 2020, 11:09 pm
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       Maybe it's 'over-fearing'. The marvel of life is that anything
       may appear to arise in the next moment.
       Love ya, Jed.
       #Post#: 41936--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Simultaneously lost and found
       By: Meno Date: July 16, 2020, 4:46 pm
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       Oh yes there's definitely fear  :)! That's why I was wondering
       about including things that one has already.... as there is some
       fear around losing them - more so than wanting to acquire or
       wish for more, if that makes sense? It's still quite superficial
       but it's definitely there. So it would be good to look at this
       more deeply.... on one hand I feel pretty ok with death (it's
       always been the hugest and most deepest fear but this has been
       fairly absent for a while now) - yet on the other hand if I lost
       my washing machine I would probably have a panic attack - maybe
       a bit of an exaggeration  ;D but the paradoxes are there for
       sure.
       #Post#: 41938--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Simultaneously lost and found
       By: Jed McKenna Date: July 16, 2020, 10:36 pm
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       Paradoxes, parallels and conundrums.... somethings must be
       permitted to be as they are, sans understanding.
       Love ya, Jed
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