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Looking for a clear path to HA
DIR By: sans
Date: October 17, 2018, 10:36 am
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HI!
I read your trilogy back when I was 18 (21 now) and was very
lost and confused about life because I trying to fit in the
world and I was failing. It seemed as if the books were
well-timed. I have read all the books written by you except the
latest Jed Rants #1 & #2.
The Human Adulthood that you described in the books is what I
have to become for my life to be worth living. I agree with
everything you said about people being immature and I notice
that immaturity in myself.
I am doing self-autolysis by asking "who am I", which seems to
help but it is going slow.
My question is: how can I transition into HA?
Thank you!
Sans
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Re: Looking for a clear path to HA
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: October 17, 2018, 11:59 pm
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Hi there and thanks for your post.
H/A and T/R are very different. H/A is about an easier, happier
dream... and there is nothing wrong that that at all. T/R is
realizing that it's all a dream and the bigger ''You'' is that
dreamer. Well, that's a brief and rather limited definition.
H/A is the focus of the Nav Series, and it is not something that
one just slips into overnight. Society, culture and dozens of
other subtle influences do not see your maturity as supportive
of their collective bs. Hence, there is very little information
available, and what is available is pretty much ineffective and
a waste of time.
First thing you need to do, in an abbreviated form is accept
total and absolute responsibility for everything in your
experience. AND, responsiblity does not mean ''guilt''. You are
responsible for everything and guilty of nothing. Of course, the
logical extension of that is no one else is guilty as well.
Follow this by forgiveness of everyone and everything that ever
happened. AND, forgiveness doesn't mean you condone anything,
you just let it go and do that for your own freedom. I sometimes
call this ''constructive selfishness''. Do it for you and never
tell anyone else you are doing it. You have to mind you own
business because there are zillions of people waiting to mind it
for you.
Part of being adult is being patient. If I can relate a brief
personal story of mine. Many years ago my wife at the time, and
I, were discussing something of moderate importance. I don't
recall what it was. She has some interest of some kind and I had
a different interest. I said, ''O.K. lets do it your way.'' I
was sincere in this.
She said, half joking and half serious... ''You bastard, you
always get what you want''. Now, I feel more like I want what I
get, but she was pointing out something I did, perhaps a little
habitually at the time. I agree with all my heart and sit back
and wait. I always seem to get what I want... patience is the
secret.
Enough about me. I trust that might assist you in some small
way. Ask any other questions you might have
Love ya, Jed.
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Re: Looking for a clear path to HA
DIR By: sans
Date: October 18, 2018, 1:19 am
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HI!
Your reply helped me. Thank you so much :)
I understand that acceptance of everything, letting go of
stories and forgiving everyone else is a process.
I have started to let go and forgive as much as I can, along
with minimizing all the drama in my life, and I can already feel
a difference in the quality of my life!
However, there are stories I am not conscious of (eg:
childhood/past-life(?) stuff) and still have power over me
including things that I fear a lot. I want to go further and
make real transition into HA.
My question is: How can I make this process more effective?
I've been re-reading your books for almost 2 years and now
reading the rants your posted on this forum.
I agree that there is no effective information available about
proper human adulthood other than what you mentioned in your
books and on this forum.
Thank you, always!
Sans
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Re: Looking for a clear path to HA
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: October 18, 2018, 2:51 am
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There are a number of contemplations that I teach in the Series.
It takes time and effect but is very doable. Send me an email at
cambodianashram@gmail.com. We can talk further.
Love ya, Jed
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Re: Looking for a clear path to HA
DIR By: sans
Date: October 21, 2018, 12:42 am
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Hello Jed,
You said that most attachments are fear-based. Which I can see
in my own life.
My question is: Is it possible to have attachments that are not
fear based?
For example, relationships (romantic or otherwise) that are not
based on fear because both people are conscious (for lack of a
better word)
Thank you!
Sans
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Re: Looking for a clear path to HA
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: October 21, 2018, 7:49 am
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I understand your question... so two people are in love and they
both fear the other will leave. Is that not attachment. Fear and
attachments are closely attached. Now, can you love another
human and not be attached. Of course, but you had better be
free and very clear prior to entering into said relationship.
Easier to say than do.
Love ya, Jed.
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Re: Looking for a clear path to HA
DIR By: sans
Date: October 30, 2018, 2:32 pm
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Hello Jed,
Happy Halloween!
I wanted to ask about what to do when one feels that they don't
fit in the world, when on the path to HA? When everything feels
like a distraction?
And does it get better? How do I adapt to it?
In my case, I have difficulty being genuine and feel extremely
disconnected in the society.
(One exception being my closest relationship - my boyfriend, who
is a genuinely mature and kind)
Hope you can answer! :)
Thank you,
Sans
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Re: Looking for a clear path to HA
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: October 30, 2018, 11:40 pm
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Hi Sans:
Not sure I understand what you write. If you feel like you don't
fit in this world, you are experiencing reality. What's wrong
with that? It may feel different because you have certain habits
about how things should be. Things are definitely the way they
are, in reality, they are exactly the way they are, and on top
of that, they are nothing at all... a dream, a wisp of
nothingness.... and DO NOT try to make sense of it. Making sense
is an effort of mind to control the uncontrollable.
You have trouble being genuine you are a fraud, a lier and
deceiver. You think you are real and are efforting every moment
of you like trying to assert that. If you feel less that
genuine, so what? Who cares? Remember, emotions lie, but only
always.
Love ya, Jed.
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