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Enough of drama
By: getitgotit Date: September 19, 2017, 1:14 am
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Hello Jed!
I am actually coming here to search for help. Well... ::) I can
see who around me is not H/A -
But wow! I am in the midst of a bad Situation. My closest
relationship says I have borderline, I Need help and he does not
let go of that opinion and even tells others and wants me to
realize that I Need help etc etc - Drama, what can you do - ...
I want to be H/A, I just Need to find my way to H/A. I know that
you are not a self help Guru but yoiu might be able to give me a
tip to H/A..
If I go on like this, I will develop Cancer or age fast
Love,
#Post#: 31678--------------------------------------------------
Re: Enough of drama
By: Jed McKenna Date: September 19, 2017, 1:20 am
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Hi there:
To me, that ''closest relationship'' doesn't sound very healthy
or happy. What are you getting out of sticking around it?
Perhaps you do need help, help in getting that other being out
of your life.
It takes two to tango.
Love ya, Jed.
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Re: Enough of drama
By: getitgotit Date: September 19, 2017, 8:55 am
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Not much : some little time - almost none- which is
superficially harmonious and in love but with an underlying
sense of shame and fear of it turning around again
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Re: Enough of drama
By: Jed McKenna Date: September 19, 2017, 9:17 am
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I just posted a Rant on H/A. Have a read.
Love ya, Jed.
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Re: Enough of drama
By: getitgotit Date: September 21, 2017, 6:24 am
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I appreciate . What I also stay for is the lies. I went in for a
lie , I have a hard time being honest with him and I do not want
to leave him and still have lies .. that's that
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Re: Enough of drama
By: Jed McKenna Date: September 21, 2017, 1:09 pm
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How do you know if another is lying?
Love ya, Jed.
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Re: Enough of drama
By: getitgotit Date: September 21, 2017, 3:37 pm
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I cannot but if I feel a sense of honesty and sincerity within
me I feel it in the other where I do not care if they lie
because if they would it would be fine because I trust they know
or are ok as they are
#Post#: 31779--------------------------------------------------
Re: Enough of drama
By: Jed McKenna Date: September 22, 2017, 4:23 am
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Sounds like baffle-gab... but who am I do talk?
Love ya, Jed
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Re: Enough of drama
By: getitgotit Date: September 22, 2017, 4:45 am
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Don't hurt my feelings. I am currently at a place that I would
call : bla. I don't care much - feel peaceful - but still
holding on to the - gone- - and - fearful - relationship - how
to be true to myself?
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Re: Enough of drama
By: Jed McKenna Date: September 23, 2017, 3:28 am
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Find out precisely who wants to be true to whom? Then you will
''know''... :P :P :P ::) 8) 8) 8) :o
Love ya, Jed.
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