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#Post#: 2590--------------------------------------------------
Jed... for nice guys
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: October 9, 2014, 11:02 am
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For those members who are nice and care about what others think.
Pasted from a previous response.
NICE = BORING. You still give a s h i t about what people think
about you? Where in God's name did you come up with that? THEY
DON'T GIVE A **** ABOUT YOU. They are only recycling their
boring patterns of behavior back to you, and you think it's
real.........
MY GOD MAN, I know you can't be that stupid. STOP and think
about what you are valuing here. It's garbage, just data,
meaningless data, a tape recording of their personal pains and
insecurities. There isn't one person in a hundred thousand that
can offer you anything of value. They just don't have it so for
heaven's sake stop listening to them. You are looking for your
keys where the light is, not where you dropped them.
You are misdirecting your thoughts and energy. You may want to
pretend you are listening, which is what you already do because
you are busy worrying about what they think about you, just to
keep the conversation going, but never, ever believe them. THEY
DON'T HAVE A CLUE! (Your new mantra, repeat as often as possible
from now own. THEY DON'T HAVE A CLUE! or 'LOVE YOU YOU BUT...NOT
A CLUE!
You are the key to you and only you know the answers. All I can
do is point, sometimes at the goal, sometimes at the idiocy
that's blocking the view. Guess which 'pointing' this one is.
Love ya, and thanks for putting up with me. Jed. (indelicate but
well meaning)
#Post#: 2596--------------------------------------------------
Re: Jed... for nice guys
DIR By: GromerCop
Date: October 9, 2014, 12:46 pm
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OK, Rant, and you 'asked' for it...
Jed. Jed! Jed!! Jed!!!! GIVE ME A BASEBALL BAT!
WTF??????? What is happening here? Half asleep people making
half arsed movements towards whatEVER, and you are dancing along
with it?? Fun? Sure, ya wanna this to last till your retirement
age and beyond? It WILL, there'll be no shortage of fresh blood
in search for the Holy Grail anyway.. so what the hell? MURDER
them, directly, DIRECTLY, face to face, no pleasantries, no
apologies in the form of 'thanks for putting up with me'(??), no
nodding thoughtfully to the bullshit they shower you with... I
can nearly HEAR that 'soon to be' long flowing Guru beard making
its way out of your chin.. and the halo for good measure.
EVERYONE has a breaking point, go for the kill, bulls eye, blood
and broken bones, hearts, jaws and god knows what else. People
are here out of their own will. They can take it, or phuck off
(they won't, or some will, big deal!).
YOU..................... are too NICE, damn it! Patient, third
chances, it's a Show, yes, but fuck it!! make it a spectacular
one, you know how, so??? What's stopping you?
#Post#: 2603--------------------------------------------------
Re: Jed... for nice guys
DIR By: Jed McKenna
Date: October 9, 2014, 2:44 pm
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YES, YES.. thank you for your encouragement. I have been far too
nice for far too long and I sick and tired of being such a nice
guy. Now I really have my nickers in a knot and someone is going
to get my wrath... ooooooh... i'm felling it.... getting my mojo
back big time. Look out illusionary world. Up our nose with a
rubber hose.
Phew, I'm feeling better already. Now, just need a target for my
vexation.
Love ya, Jed... wait... not sure I love yah... just 'Jed'.
This must be what Spiderman felt like after that first bite or
Dracula after his first bite.
#Post#: 2608--------------------------------------------------
Re: Jed... for nice guys
DIR By: John Lamont-Black
Date: October 9, 2014, 5:04 pm
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I guess that I should step up to the plate here and have it
known that it was in replying to issues raised by me that seems
to have caused such irritation and launched the howls of
derision.
New to SA, Jed’s books I have been digging and searching and
screibbling quite furiously in the last 2 weeks or so. This
‘being nice’ thing seemed to be quit prevalent. This is an open
forum we call all see all posts if we wish and so for me the
being nice thing was both a discovery and offering it up there
was saying:
“look I’ve just noticed that I’m uncertain, boring and vain.
Prone to bouts of dishonesty and weakness and, … and it sucks.
Oh and I’m telling you lot about it.”
Not trying to hide it. This is one of the things I found – get
it out in the open.
It is the mark of the ‘nice guy’ that he tries to get people to
be nice to him. That’s the koan which arisies in this daily
life. Seems like it worked – for a while at least.
Look I’m sorry if this has upset the apple cart – well least I
would have been until that is, after a bit of further digging in
the last couple of days showed that opinons about things
including ‘others’ are the stuff of fantasy – they are not true.
Your post yesterday just made me smile ‘cos a few weeks ago I’d
have been hurt by it – this time it was a real good slap in the
face and just what I needed and could see that - almost kind of
funny.
Talking about the boring ‘yous’ well if 'you' bore me, then I'm
the one with the problem, your'e fine. If 'you' interest me,
then you have something I want; whether I get it or not, your'e
fine. Bored or interested, its all about me, the yous out there
are fine regardless who finds you boring or not - unless of
course the you’s are bored as well. If one is bored then wer'e
all bored.
Best, John
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Re: Jed... for nice guys
DIR By: GromerCop
Date: October 9, 2014, 5:46 pm
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Ahahahahahaaa!! 'getting my mojo back big time'..... can't stop
laughing here, you are funny to boot!!
They say in England 'Don't get your knickers in a twist.'
Look, dropping 'I love ya' and replacing it with 'Jed' works for
me. Kinda more true.. oh wait, not true either!! Darn!! Nothing
is true here.. or is it?? Now I'm confused, but not withdrawing
my love :P
You remind me - of me. Slip through the fingers and Poof! Gone.
Like hmmm... pause for thought.. wait!!! Can't think either! not
allowed, not allowed, not allowed, not. allow... ed, not. all
................ yeeaaah, that's better. Cheers, nurse.
Nevertheless.. consider it. You said yourself 'slice through the
knot'.
Thanks for the laugh, Jed Houdini:)
@J Nothing's upset the apple cart, you have no 'shoulds' to step
up to anything, and 'derision' is not what is. Relax!!
#Post#: 2612--------------------------------------------------
Re: Jed... for nice guys
DIR By: GromerCop
Date: October 9, 2014, 6:03 pm
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Still laughing!!
Kissles and huggles, and promise to keep you on your toes.
#Post#: 2620--------------------------------------------------
Re: Jed... for nice guys
DIR By: jacoba
Date: October 10, 2014, 2:15 am
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why don't you two guys play good cop - bad cop ? for us
frightened silly prisoners ?
have a rant, throw your wrath and then stick on the 'love you
Jed' ?
Have fun!
But you know uncle Jed, it's your desinterest in my fate which
leaves me all alone at sea
it's at this point my english has a nervous breakdown.
thank you and much love
fragile little old (l)(b)aby
#Post#: 2628--------------------------------------------------
Re: Jed... for nice guys
DIR By: GromerCop
Date: October 10, 2014, 3:55 am
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Love is impersonal, J.. It doesn't mean it's not here.
#Post#: 2633--------------------------------------------------
Re: Jed... for nice guys
DIR By: Sparrow
Date: October 10, 2014, 4:35 am
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I feel discriminated....... What about Ms. Nice? I'm wearing a
dress. Looked between the legs, twice, to make sure, no suit to
be found.....
Sorry about that...... I'd better go and lurk at 'mister ****,
i'm so afraid that's why i swing a slegdehammer at others
instead of keeping it to myself', i know where he is coming
from....
I guess, i'm not Ms. Nice .
May be Ms. Nice's don't exist. That's not nice, another illusion
flying away from my crabbing fingers
Please help me?
On second thought, please don't..... I'm just a girl, you know
them....
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Re: Jed... for nice guys
DIR By: BeAware
Date: October 16, 2014, 8:50 pm
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This is pretty relevant to me. I'm sick of being a nice guy.
There's nothing nice about me. I pretend to be nice because I'm
scared of upsetting other people. Being nice is nothing more
than a more childish, frightened form of self interest.
I see this, but for some reason it hasn't seemed to break the
pattern just yet.
Have a nice day everyone ;)
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