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       #Post#: 26044--------------------------------------------------
       Merry weather
   DIR By: Stark
       Date: December 16, 2016, 9:36 am
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       Hi Jed,
       was liar before, and fear before that. I'm in a new place so
       thought it was useful to seek advice. Im having a rocky time
       adjusting to having a life. That means low energy, im sleepy A
       LOT, motivation, i cant for the life of me finish my thesis or
       seem to get a solid job to support my own ass, so I'm supported
       by my parents. So balancing all that stuff, i feel writing a
       thesis means i cant at the same time hold down or find a job.
       And it seems unspiritual of me to just blame it on the job
       market.
       I feel like I'm an adult, but my life looks to me glaringly to
       point otherwise. Who's right? Other side of that question would
       be how to keep my mouth shut and is it important 100 % ?
       #Post#: 26047--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Merry weather
   DIR By: Jed McKenna
       Date: December 16, 2016, 4:17 pm
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       Welcome back.
       My first question to you is what do you feel so compelled to say
       that you can't keep you mouth shut?
       Love ya, Jed.
       #Post#: 26055--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Merry weather
   DIR By: Stark
       Date: December 17, 2016, 2:36 am
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       Well, I just can't seem to accept certain things and certain
       people characteristics. And before what i wanted were guts to
       say what i don't like. When i got guts then i realized it does
       not change anything maybe not even a bit. I cant even tell
       someone to take care with smoking, its still just being drama,
       what do i really know about smoking?? We're not influencers of
       change (goodbye obama), at least at a personal will level. So im
       struggling to accept being unimportant to people.
       Things i can do im lazy for, it all takes soo much time and
       daily effort to get good at something. Didnt see all that
       coming...
       #Post#: 26056--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Merry weather
   DIR By: Jed McKenna
       Date: December 17, 2016, 3:02 am
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       People are free to smoke, be jerks, whatever. Not your job to
       change them, you can always leave.
       Can't change yourself much... so how much luck do you think you
       will have with others?  ??? ??? ???
       Love ya, Jed
       #Post#: 26165--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Merry weather
   DIR By: Stark
       Date: December 21, 2016, 4:30 am
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       Ive been grabbing onto various stuff. Jobs, careers, education,
       hobbies, people, physical objects, wishes... And everything i
       grab hold of i remember now i have to work to upkeep. And that
       is just insufferable... On the other hand anything i want to do
       and just do, its just easy as a pie, perfect. Thought it, did
       it, gone. But a lot of stuff i just entangle myself into, so
       sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt, id say half of time,
       with the tendency to get less and less. Im trying to stay cleer
       of entangling in any bigger messes, one of the last times had a
       fine and possible court date over my head BUT it still worked
       out quite fine in the end...
       Also with people, sometimes socializing turns out to be my ego
       mess, and other times what i feel like a mistake ends me up in a
       nice seat to observe theater like show of human behaviour and
       what crap i came out of before.
       I guess i get entanged because sometimes its hard to bear
       emptiness and boredom, and well, just how my life looks like to
       other people that have their unexamined ones. I dont want to be
       a jerk, but i dont like some pussy looking at me like im the
       pussy.
       Do i need to be apprehensive, nervous about which one is gone
       turn out? or just dive into it and get it over it? does it end
       or its always a lottery? is this also a PHASE?
       #Post#: 26170--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Merry weather
   DIR By: Jed McKenna
       Date: December 21, 2016, 6:07 am
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       How old are you? ... physically I mean....
       Now, how old are you emotionally?
       I trust your judgment on this matter.
       Love ya, Jed.
       #Post#: 26211--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Merry weather
   DIR By: Stark
       Date: December 23, 2016, 3:57 am
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       Physically, im couple of years under 30, emotionally, id say im
       10. But I think I have been 10 for too long now... it important
       to keep growing up isnt it?
       I would divide my process to my last break (or my first break),
       but this is something different now... I feel im letting it all
       play out now a bit more easily. The difference between last
       Christmas and this one is well, staggering, the last one i was
       amost like a crackhead except propped up a bit by wine.
       A lot of us on the forum mention how you cant go for
       enlightenment directly, or you dont really want to, or one cant
       want enlightenment... but i want to. But what if I am lying to
       myself. Like your cookoo rant on moon landings, if something
       probability is close to zero, how can a "sane" human animal
       really want it, its a threat to its existence... but i know i
       want it, even if i dont want it in some of my egoic ways.
       Because egoic ways are powerless. Its like dark jedi force,
       seems to work out mostly short-term.
       What is my best argument about this all not being a dream, that
       it takes a lots of human years for a life. How could something
       unreal be so long and slow?
       #Post#: 26230--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Merry weather
   DIR By: Jed McKenna
       Date: December 24, 2016, 12:17 am
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       Long and slow is only an appearance created by illusory
       stretching of the ''now''.
       So, you want enlightenment... hang on, my B. S. detector is
       going of....
       Wait, I think you want what you think enlightenment will give
       you, the result of enlightenment. Could that be true... are you
       trying to pull my leg. Or maybe you own leg.
       Let me know, as Truthish as you can.
       Love ya, Jed.
       #Post#: 26264--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Merry weather
   DIR By: Stark
       Date: December 26, 2016, 11:42 am
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       To tell you the truth, I don't know what I want anymore.
       Whatever you would give me, i would destroy it.
       I'm afraid I couldn't be able to take it. Just like everything
       else...
       #Post#: 26265--------------------------------------------------
       Re: Merry weather
   DIR By: Jed McKenna
       Date: December 26, 2016, 3:06 pm
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       Seeing how this is all a dream... what would you have if you
       destroyed everything? I don't mean, kill, rape, pillage and
       plunder, just gently saw through everything, that it's all b.s.
       Love ya, Jed.
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